ok here is my advice...they are obviously flirting...but you two AREN'T dating, so there's really no reason to be upset with him, he's free to do what he wants, its your friend that you should have an issue with - as long as she knows how you feel...
ok now that that's clear this is what you should do...STOP CONTACTING HIM! he doesn't respond as quickly as you'd like, or flirt with you as you may like because he knows you like him...its almost as if he's the puppet master and you're the puppet..."weot8pnwuthn0we9h8twe" AKA you need to do a 360 turn...stop texting him, when he texts you, wait 15-20 min, keep your text's short and forward...he'll say "hey what's up" you'll say "nothing" -- you don't want to ask him how he is, you want to be short about it...this will have him going on a hunt, wondering why you aren't asking how he is, why don't you care, he'll be confused and it will pose a challenge for him...keep talk to a minimum FOR NOW, show him you ahve a life besides him and that you can do whatever the hell you please...if he doesn't get phased by it I hate to say it but you'll have to move on, simple as that...the only reason you should be doing what I suggest is to A) see how he reacts B) if he doesn't react give yourselt a easier exit if you will to this new "relationship" - just be aware of your feelings and look out for yourself
take things slow if you get his attention back - it was the turtle that won the race NOT the rabbit!
good luck!
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Basically sounds like he wants to have it all, basically pursues one person, but flirts with many others to keep his 'options' open. You can't really blame your friend, it's not her fault if she likes him and some people do flirt unintentionally or flirt back because they were flirted with. It's entirely his fault, she is allowed to flirt... He isn't, if he knows you liked him and you brought him to a party he should know better than to flirt with your best friend.
GONE THRU IT. he's intersested in other girls.he watns to have his cake and eat it too.LEAVE that piece o crap and leave your bff, then you will see the truth come out in both of them.[if they get together, then your better off not wasting your time with either scum bags.
I think you should lose both of these "FRIENDS". They are not your friends. Please choose more wisely in the future... Don't get caught up in these stupid games. Sounds like you are too intelligent for that. They both deserved each other. Hugz.
He probably wants to make you jealous, knowin that you will be able to see everything that he writes
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well, that sucks... they are obvioulsy into each other and your obviously feeling jealous that he's not going for u. There are millions of guys out there waiting to meet you so don't sweat it.
I THINK THAT You R ALL You R STUPID I THINK HE'S A WHORE MONGER AND I THINK UR FRIEND IS A SNOB AND ESSENTIALLY UR ALL STUPID
She likes the attention and you are starting to feel jealous because she is geting it and not you...she might just like the attention he is giving her or she might want more who knows they might be keeping you out of the loop.
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