All the guys who were interested in me or I was interested in got girlfriends or started talking to other girls. What do I do now?

[Anonymous]

Best way to put this is I liked this guy we clicked and they it got messed up and now he has a girlfriend but because of him I rejected these 2 other guys one of which was pretty shallow and I don’t regret at all and the other who was actually genuine but only showed that one just recently and he now has a girlfriend who he’s always flirting with in front of me. Other 2 guys I thought were cute, girls started talking to them and one of them got a girlfriend. Honestly wtf do I even do I this point it’s not even like a he just didn’t know I liked him type thing it’s like the universe is working against me for example if I’m gonna go and talk to a guy immediately he’ll start talking to a girl (who’ll probs become his girlfriend) the same day I planned on talking to him before I do for the first time even though he’s never talked to any girls before that. What the fuck.

[ManOnFire]

Sorry you're dealing with this disappointment. It sounds like either those guys aren't being very mature in how they're mingling with you and want to make you jealous, or you need to be more assertive in showing that you're interested. A lot of females make the arrogant mistake of just believing that showing up and giving a guy any kind of attention - looking at them, saying hello, etc. - is enough to attract him. Keep in mind I'm not necessarily saying this is what you're doing, but if it is, you have to work on that.

As for what you should do: keep your head up and try with the next. There's always someone new to talk to. In time you might even find that the other guys you liked turn out not to be what you thought anyway and then you might feel glad that you never hit it off with them. People can dazzle us in the beginning before we start learning more about who they are.

[Asker]

It was really about 50/50 I did actively showed interest in liked half of them going up talking to them for while, complimenting them, consistently but I for the others i I’m just complaining besucase it seems like some force is just working against me even when I try to go up to new guy as soon as I get the courage they’ll start talking to other girls no joke the day I’ll want to go up to them even if they never talk to girls💀

[ManOnFire]

Well, that is certainly strange, yeah. A very strange cosmic occurance indeed. Maybe you should STILL try to talk to them. Maybe put yourself out there to compete. Though that might not be the best idea, because when people - both guys and girls - have more than one person of the same sex coming after them it goes to their heads and they start treating you like you're at their mercy.

It's gonna sound like a broken record but just move on to the next guys, and keep finding ways to really get good at flirting, grabbing their attention, etc. It can be fun.

[FilmGuy93]

What do you do to connect with men on a deeper and more interesting level? I’ve noticed that a lot of women in your situation struggle because they never share anything that would give the relationship deeper intimacy

[spartan55]

Yeah, certainly none of this could be your fault... just bad luck?

[_Just_A_girl_]

Date be safe out there

[Asker]

I literally cannot get a date.

[Anonymous]

Nothing just give me blowjob...

[Asker]

gross.

[Opinion Owner]

Suck it baby

[Anonymous]

Keep trying and never give up.