GUYS-if the guy doesn't pay, does that mean it wasn't a date/bad sign?
I hung out with this guy for the first time one-on-one, and the first thing we did was go to a hookah bar. It was my idea, so all along in my head I knew I wasn't gonna let him pay for me if he offered, but when we were leaving and went to pay, he handed me $10 which would cover basically half of the hookah cost and the drink he got. I just had a credit card so I used that, and gave him back his money since it was my idea to hookah in the first place. (And I didn't think this was a date). He said something like "Whoa, now I'm going to expect you to pay and bring me flowers!" (jokingly) WHat does this mean? Did he consider this a date? Guys, is it more normal now for girls to pay for half?
-Later we went for a bite to eat, and he ordered his food, then was waiting for me to order I guess so he could pay for mine too to be even, but I just didn't let him pay for mine. I didn't think this was a date, so I didn't let him pay. What do you think of this? If this guy thought we were on a date, wouldn't he have INSISTED on paying for everything? Or at least making me keep the $10 he tried to give me before?
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