Another girl likes my boyfriend ...How can I respond?
First of all, this kind of thing happens all the time. Why wouldn't it? I love my boyfriend and find him attractive ...so why wouldn't other girls... Show More
Most Helpful Opinion
I think if he reallt cared about your feelings, he'd take into account the fact that you're uncomfortable with this studying situation. I'm sure that there are lots of uglier, just-as-capable people in his class. If studying with her is unavoidable, like they are assigned parteners or something, it's completely inappropriate for them to be in each others' rooms or apartment, etc. There are plenty of public places like the library, the student center, plopped on a square of grass in the main outside hangout of campus, where they could be studying.
He tells you these things all the time because wants you to be jealous. He wants you to know that girls find him desirable so you don't forget how "lucky" you are. There's a difference from this and him just being honest with you so he doesn't feel like he's hiding things from you. If he was JUST being honest with you, he wouldn't even allow himself to be in avoidable tempting situations, like the studying situation.
He doesn't sound like a guy that's right for you. Even if he's 100 percent just being honest with you, you seem like you need a man that would never ever be in a situation or allow himself to be in a situation that would make you feel vulnerable. You deserve it!
What Guys Said 1
You can't let her bother you. Just don't let her get between you and your boyfriend.
What Girls Said 2
I don't know why girls get tricked into believing that just because their man tells them that other girls flirt with them, that they aren't doin anythin with other girls. Ur man telling you that he is getting hit on by other girls just means that he is trying to make you jealous. Maybe he feels somewhat guilty for allowing these girls to come on to him. However, if he is not telling these girls that your his girlfriend, then that means he is not claiming you. Basically, he is saying that he is a single man and the girl can do whatever they want to him. You can continue to sit around and listen to your man tell you how he's playing you to your face, but if you have any self-esteem, you will leave his ass. He's not worth it.