Grasshopper, you learn wisdom in the summer of your youth. This manly strategy works best if you've met the girl once before. Introducing yourself to her padres in a brief but polite encounter can only score righteous brownie points. When you hit your mid twenties you definitely date the family, not the girl alone. Mom, Dad, their peers, that crazy uncle, your future lover's siblings, and everybody else in the clan is going to take a hard stare at you. Worse yet, they'll all consider themselves experts on the subject of personal character. Put on your best Eddie Haskell, shake hands, and dish out the flattery like you're handing out soup at the free kitchen. Trust me, you win over the padres and they'll pat your back and cut you loose with their "innocent" daughter. Bear in mind that some couples can still remember the 70's, the Sex Pistols, the Ramones, and wish to see themselves as highly tolerant, enlightened, etc. Don't disappoint them.
A couple years ago I was on a cruise and at 3 in the morning the nightclub was just closing and the girl I had been dancing with for a sizable portion of the night was getting ready to leave with who I assumed was her mother.
I walked up to her anyway and smiled, told her I enjoyed dancing with her and asked her if she'd be there the next night. She said yes and we said our goodbyes which involved a hug and her giving me a peck on the cheek, her mother standing right there the whole time.
Well, the next night she was there and she and I were sitting at the bar talking and her mother comes up to us and says with a big smile "ah Jessie, I see your friend is here again" she said what she needed to tell her and left.
Moral of this story, don't let the parents scare you away, so long as you keep things clean there is nothing to worry about.
Well, you're 30-35, so, if a "girl" is with her parents, I may be wrong to assume but she's either much younger, in which case it wouldn't be appropriate either way.
HOWEVER, if she is a woman of your age, then you're all adults. Her parents and she shouldn't have a problem as long as you're respectful.
no I don't think you should unless you have met her parents before and know them I think that that would be to weird, wait for her to leave the table to get something. Well I would find it awkward
ha well - I remember the time my ski instructor hit on me in front of my mother and my mother's good friend. That was awkward...
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Simple.. just be a alpha male.. just pretend to take a selfie and make sure she's behind you get her direction. Perhaps when she's woth her parents they might feel freaked out. Once you recognise the girls parents are starring at your camera. Just go behind to the girls parents and apologies after that you can ask the girl if she was freaked out. Then you can whisper to her some cute words like, you r beautiful etc..
But be prepared to write a in a paper that you would like to chat with her and etc.. give her your number. But also before the selfie look atbher get her eye contact. Smile and wave hi below your belly.. to avoid the parents eyes on you!!. Basically it won't work if the girl is dramatic or kinda nit interested with u. But at least give a shot. Good luck!!
She might get freaked out if you bring her her parents
yes. I did.
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