I've been dealing with this since I was in my teens.
I am still dealing with it now.
We can't help who we attract but we can minimize the
types of men that are this way that do approach us.
If you are the type to show off a lot of skin or wear
clothing that leaves nothing to the imagination men are
only going to want you for that.
You can dress flattering but at the same time respectable.
Wear longer clothing, that hugs your figure.
You are showing off your shape but at the same time, not putting
yourself out there in that way.
This way you will get a different type of male approaching you.
Yes, there will still be those that only want sex but all you have
to do is let them know you aren't that way.
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i am on the same boat as you in terms of dating as a single mom.
what I don't understand is: do these guys ask for sex on date 1? and you say no, then they stop contact?
i am interested in sex and a relationship, I meet guys on dating sites and they have all been awesome. I don't have sex with them first, second, third date...I make things clear. as of now I am only sleeping with one and I am still open to date other guys. some I kiss, some I don't. now I have a second potential and I need to decide soon.
they like me, they treat me well and they still call me after date one or stay in contact.
I am not clear with your situation. pls. expl. more.
I think it's probably because you're attracting men. Next time, try attracting heterosexual women, or cats, and see what happen.
I didn't see the words "just" or "only" in your question. So, are you frustrated that men want sex, or are you attracting guys that "just" want sex "only," and nothing else but sex from you?
Guys find it harder than girls to get sex. Girls find it harder than guys to upgrade sex to a relationship. Because of different priorities, that's just how life is. My advice is, don't just assume that a relationship will happen. Think about what you can offer.
How do you know they *only* want you for sex, as opposed to wanting sex with you but wanting other things too?
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I had the same experience and I am around the same age as you. It seems that these type of men have multiplied in comparison to the guys I used to meet 10 years ago. I blame the rise of pick-up-artist and their teachings. I don't think it is something you do wrong because I've tried all the things people here suggested but still I got the same outcome.
I wanna date you and you'll see it's not for sex :)
Go for older dudes.
You are going for guys too young.You have any baggage (i.e kids)?
Its common at your agemon o
You've been falling for the "nice guy" charade.
Try older guys
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