Do guys find ladylike girls attractive?

[Anonymous]

I know I carry myself in a "ladylike" or "classy" way for the most part.

I can be a little goofy and kid-like for sure at times- like I'll laugh at awkward things I do or say. I'm a very easygoing person and by "ladylike" I don't mean uptight by any means.

I guess what I mean by "ladylike" is a girl who carries herself in a stereotypical "lady" way. I am soft spoken so I'm never loud and I don't swear. It doesn't mean I never say opinions or get angry; I just don't express it by swearing and yelling.

I also dress in a stylish way but I take care not to show a lot of skin. I don't date for the sake of dating and I take relationships seriously. I don't drink either- nothing is wrong with alcohol but I don't think it's good for either guys or girls to drink for the sake of getting trashed.

I'm always very polite and respectful and friendly to everyone as well. I get called sweet and thoughtful all the time. I'm really respectful of people who are different than me and I do my best not to judge them.

Just wondering, are "ladylike" girls like me attractive to guys? Or are girls like me too "proper"?

[Scoopie]

Yeah, you are attractive to guys. Though, the way you describe yourself sounds a bit uptight, no offense. But it could be just your phrasing, and the fact that this is written and I have no feeling whatsoever as to what you really are like.

Girls tell me I'm sweet, but I do swear and yell sometimes and am not always polite, but only people who deserve it that way. I don't focus much on being nice and stuff, I am who I am and if other people think I'm sweet, so be it. I think it's all about finding the proper balance.

I'm usually more attracted to the more classy looking girl with manners, but she can (preferably) have a 'darker' side too. There are times when she can and should be rude, no problems. Sometimes it's just appropriate not to be nice.

So you don't date just anybody, and don't binge drink, it all sounds more than it really is. I think that's pretty normal. And you are respectful, which many people are, or at least say they are. You try not to judge, but subconsciously we all judge people to some extent. Acting on it is something different.

You're just like so many other girls, but just by putting it into words this way makes it sound like you're uptight.

[aMuse]

I don't know... You could easy be uptight by my definition but not by yours. Are you prude? Do you take yourself too seriously? Are you over concerned with your image? Are you afraid to try new things? Why are you never loud, so times being silly and loud and cute is really feminine...

[aMuse]

*sometimes

[Asker]

I don't consider myself to be overconcerned with how people view me. I'm just myself and hope they like it. And if they don't like it, that's alright!

I'm just a naturally soft-spoken person. I was born like that and it's not like I purposely try to be quiet.

And I can definitely be silly and cute lol. I have a goofy side for sure

I don't consider myself to be a prude. Some people might because I don't want to have sex before marriage and that's okay with me!

[aMuse]

That "don't want to have sex before marriage" thing will probably get in the way a lot.

[aMuse]

Sometimes being soft spoken also comes off as unemotional and detached as well. Its something to consider.

[Asker]

Yeah, I know a lot of guys don't like that. But I don't want to change that part of myself :)

[aMuse]

You've got to live by your own principles, I'm just trying be real with you. =)

[Asker]

That's interesting, I'll consider what you said about my soft-spoken nature!

[Asker]

and I appreciate your realness ha ha :)

[RosaliaVanderbilt]

I'm sort of like you in most of the things you've said, although I can be a tad argumentative at times. I think most people find me to be too proper, outside of my Church especially.

[DanteSparda]

I do...I like traditional old fashioned women who like to dress nice, look feminine, etc...

I don't think if a girl has a little roughness in her it's so bad...but I don't want a tomboy if it means she farts in front of me freely, plays rugby and drives a motorcycle...that is just gross.

My ideal woman is a conservative girl aged 20-22, who is old fashioned and likes cold weather :)

[deWho]

Librarians are hot. Know why? The old saying "lady the streets, freak in the sheets". That Gemini thing...the yin the yang. That's hot. That said, she could also be a prude in bed.

[standUP]

that is a very attractive trait , I find it very sexy ! as long as I sense some playfulness.

[RedThread]

I like girls who are true to themselves regardless of how they carry themselves or anything else.

[Anonymous]

They will recognize you...after they have tried(but failed) numerous times to get laid with the "bad girls". Don't let them fool you.

[BCRanger10]

I find them attractive :-)