How did your boyfriend start the relationship? Or was it you?
Girls: How did your boyfriend ask you out?
We've been together on and off for about two and a half years now.
The first time he asked me out, he was driving me home after we had just gone out to lunch, and all of a sudden, he looked over at me and said, "So, what is our situation?" I just kind of laughed and said, "I don't know, you tell me," he laughed and said, "I don't know, you tell me," and eventually, he asked me if I wanted to be his girlfriend.
The second time, it was me who asked. We had recently reconnected after breaking up because of circumstances that were beyond our control (ex-girlfriends making pregnancy claims are not nice to deal with), and I basically asked him the same question...and he pretty much gave the same response. Then, I said, "Well, when people ask, I tell them you're my boyfriend." And he said, "Yeah, me, too." After we laughed about how he had basically just referred to himself as gay, I asked if we were together, and he said, "I suppose we are."
Most of the other times after that (when we broke up because of issues between us), we would just not talk to each other for a couple of weeks, and then, he would text me and say, "Too good to talk?" which was basically his little way of saying that he was done being mad and fighting and wanted to get back together.
The most recent time, back in May, he did the whole "Too good to talk?" text...and a couple weeks later, he asked me to move in with him. We've been doing great ever since then. ")
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Long story. We'd been friends for a while and I developed hardcore feelings for him, but I didn't see any sign that he reciprocated so I didn't say anything. Well apparently I was super obvious about my feelings, so one night he asked if we could talk. We talked about the possibility of a relationship and we decided we wanted the same things (settle down, marriage, family, etc) but he said he didn't know if he was ready to settle down just yet. So he asked me to give him about a month to think about it and then we'd talk again.
In my experience, asking for time to think about it isn't a good sign. So I wasn't expecting much when the month was over and it was time to talk again. But he surprised me by saying that he felt he was ready now and asking me what I was doing next Friday night.
We went on our first date and a few days later we had another talk and became official. THAT talk was funny haha. It went literally like this:
Him: *pauses movie* Hey, so I was thinking we should have "the talk."
Me: Yeah I was thinking the same thing.
Him: So, what do you think?
Me: I think we can go official.
Him: Okay. I like that idea.
Me: That was easy.
Anyways, enough about me haha. If you want to ask a girl out, my advice is that the idea behind the words is more important than the words themselves. In other words, just ask her out and don't worry about how or when or what to say.
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We were friends for about a year and a half before all of this. But then after that he had to leave with his family on a trip. He had been traveling around the world for about four months and he came back to visit. I felt like I needed to tell him my feelings even though I might have never been able to see him again. I did and he told me he felt the same way but was debating to tell me after he finished traveling. Well we did not get together then. He still had three more months of traveling to do. After he finished he left his parents and came to live in my town. He wanted to find a job first before he asked my parents. He did two months later. He asked my parents and they said yes. He told me their answer and we both were so very happy. We have been dating now for a little over four months.
Bro, if you're trying to ask a girl out just do it. There's only 2 things she can say. If she says no you haven't lost anything and if she says yes you could lose everything.
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My only serious relationship in my life was the one and only relationship where a girl asked me out first.
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My friend was setting me up with a guy...and my current Boyfriend knew about it...then he asked my friend why she never set us up...at this time I didn't know him...throughout the year he started hanging out with my friends...we were in the same program in college...then I left the program all of a sudden...I planned on hanging out with my friend...and didn't know he was also going to be there...I gave him my number that day...then he asked me out to get coffee...and we've been together ever since
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He asked me out on the 2nd day we ever met. We had our first kiss the night before. We were at a bar, and had been laughing and flirting all night, then he turned to me and said "Would you be my girlfriend?". I was confused and I was like "wth are you talking about? Are you being serious?". And he was like "Well yeah, I really like you". So I smiled and said "Deal, I'll give it a try" and took my hand out for him to shake it. He did so, then grabbed me and kissed me. We moved fast as ever, but 6 months later we are living together and engaged.
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There was nothing really official.
When we met, neither of us wanted a relationship but it got to the point after about a month or two that we saw each other often and it kind of came up in casual conversation as
"Well, are you seeing anyone else?"
"No, are you?"
"No, do you wanna to be exclusive?"
"Sure, do you?"
"Yep."
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He was kinda shy and good friends with one of my best friend's boyfriend.
I'd met him a couple times and finally decided to get his number...aaaaaand, it only turned out to be the greatest since :)
He came right out of his shell when I made it obvious, and I've honestly never been so happy with anyone. :) -
He sent me a Facebook message asking if I wanted to see a movie with him that we had talked about earlier. He gave me his phone number and said to text him if I wanted to go. I texted him, but the timing didn't work out so we ended up making plans for the next weekend.
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What boyfriend? link
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We were friends for four years and I got the guts up to ask him to my senior homecoming dance and during a slow song he said, "Will you be my girlfriend?" And I said yes and we've been together for two years now.
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We talked for 4 months than over the phone he was like, I wanna make you mine. Than I told him I'd rather he ask me in person but he said he didn't want to wait, so yeah that's how he made it official lol.
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he didn't. We just got close, ended up having sex and both assumed we were dating lol
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He just simply asked me when we were in school. We're still together a year later
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He started out as an friends with benefits and we just grew into blissful harmony
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He asked me as he walked me home on New Year's Eve
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ive never been in a relationship soooo...
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