Dude, i have been in your situation when i was kind of "mediocre" looking myself as a teen. When i reached past 20 i looked better but worked on myself. The truth is you think people are gonna be nice and not judge you for your looks. This is highly unlikely to occur. Not a lot of people will think like that. You will get more opportunities as you make major improvements. That's if you take the first step to do that Cos people rarely want to work on themselves but put blame on others for not reacting favourably towards them. This is how some of the guys in gag are.
There are no guarantees what's gonna happen but there might be someone out there who will appreciates the effort, you put into yourself. Its just a matter trying. Don't give up just because you had only one rejection.
after saying all this, I'm expecting some arrogant prick to challenge me and quote my words and over analyse it. :P
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Wow it's there lose looks do not matter to me it matters what's inside the person what counts especially for me a guy I like as to be creative and sweet and a gentlemen and I am so into football games , my hobbie is making worry stones and Christmas ornaments out of air try clay it's fun and I like doing it. Plus I love spicy foods. I know I sound crazy but I would be fun. You just got to find the right lady for you , there is someone out there for you I know so. Never give up and trying I find that right one , yeah rejection is hard but you move on.
They're not the only thing that matters, but it's important to be attracted to the person you're with. Also, I wouldn't send sweet goodnight/good morning texts to girls who aren't already into you. I know your intentions are probably good, but it just makes them feel uncomfortable if they don't like you in the same way.
Some advice too: don't waste time on kik. You should meet girls in real life, and interact and get to know them in person. It's much better and more successful than trying things online.
If anyone wishes it weren't true, it's me, but looks do indeed matter to men and women alike. I'm the first to admit it isn't fair. However, you can't change 2,000,000 years of human evolution.
Now, that being said, I would note that most of the things which make a person physically attractive are within our power to change. This article might be of interest to you.
www.psychologytoday.com/.../being-beautiful-or-handsome-is-easier-you-think
If you feel your physical appearance is holding you back, why not try and improve your physical appearance?
I can appreciate your frustration, asker. It's good that you don't resort to calling the women who have rejected you bad names. Mind that you turn this frustration into positive energy, and not negative energy. Work towards self improvement, not anger. Good luck.
Nah, I'm not one for physical appearances.
But I also grew up with the Elephant Man. He was a good dude.
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It depends. You're young, so the physical appearance seems to be the main issue. When you grow older, you will see that not many people are as shallow.
Now answer me this, if some chick that looked like Honey Boo Boo's mom was the sweetest thing in the world. Let's pretend she had an awesome personality, she was funny, she was smart, she was everything you looked for in a girlfriend. Would you be able to look past her physical appearance and date her?"These days"
what other days have you lived in?
At your age people are extremely shallow but it does get better. But no one will date someone they find ugly just because they're niceTo the extent young people and in particular young women are seeking out shorter term relationships than They did historically, yes, looks alone matter more than anything else.
Welcome to the real world. Buy yourself a pretty picture or a good looking statue. It won't be much fun to be with, but it will look good.
Join the rest of the idiots, and appreciate the good looks.Nope I would die to have a sweet guy like you, but know in days they say it's all about looks, and I say it's not I think the inside matters more to me.
Never and I mean Never take any dating or relationship advice from women or girls. They don't know for the fuck they want or give a rats ass about your feelings. Jerks get the girls because their like parasites that feeds off women and girls. Sought of like a Mosquito needs blood to survive that's what jerks are blood sucking Mosquito's. If you don't believe me walk around your local Mall or shopping plaza and see the kind of guys girls date. Most are tools who are tall and good looking.
If we treated chiks like that we would all be labled shallow. Any one els notice a double standard.
these days even more than before i guess given the media promoting all the beautiful things on screen
ouchh , but yeaah looks matter a lot bud !
To some way more than others, yes.
I didn't read this but "Yes".
naw they arnt
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