Is the stereotype true that Latinas are crazy?

[Anonymous]

Yes, I know entire populations of people can't be generalized or stereotyped like this. But I just see so many people saying that Latinas are amazing women... but that they're also a bit psycho as well.

Is there any truth to this stereotype, even in the slightest? If so, why?

[ImagineRelease]

I think it's wrong to allow one person to typecast a whole race. Unless... She cuts your dick off.

Lorena Bobbitt

AKA Lorena Leonor Gallo

Born: 1970
Birthplace: Bucay, Ecuador

Gender: Female
Race or Ethnicity: Hispanic
Sexual orientation: Straight
Occupation: Criminal

Nationality: United States
Executive summary: Severed husband's penis

Born in Ecuador but raised in Venezuela, a resident of the US since the 1980s.

Mother: Elvia Gallo
Husband: John Wayne Bobbitt (m. 18-Jun-1989, div. 10-Jan-1994)

Abortion (15-Jun-1990)
Assault 23-Jun-1993 ("malicious wounding", found not guilty by insanity)
Assault 1997 (allegedly punched her mother, found not guilty)
Raped 1993 (by husband, according to her testimony)
Competency Hearing (28-Feb-1994)
Institutionalized 1994 (45 days, court-mandated)
Risk Factors: Depression

[Asker]

Catherine Kieu Becker, born in Vietnam, cut off her husband's penis. Do you dislike Vietnamese people now, too?

[ImagineRelease]

I don't dislike anyone. But Filipinos wives are known for knife incidents as well. BUT in Lorena's defense. the name of the place she worked was called, seriously "The Nail & Body Sculptor"

But I figured I'd through this thread for a loop with "well, I'm not likely to really consider hating until... someone cuts off my junk" lol

[ImagineRelease]

I like people who want to have rational discussions about rational things and don't lose their cool. When I've known people like that, Latina's and otherwise, they knew they were loved.

[Asker]

Same here. Trying to win stupid arguments with a girlfriend or boyfriend would drive me to be single

[AleDeEurope]

They're not crazy, they just have a stronger character. I'm from Spain, and women over there are somewhat like that. Basically people from the Mediterranean, or with Mediterranean descendant, have this loud, outgoing, "crazy" personality.
Obviously not all women are like this. It can also apply to men. It's not just Latinos, Spaniards, Italians, Greece... are somewhat similar.

[Asker]

So from guy to guy and with your personal experience, what is the best way to deal with them? lol

Maybe I'm just overthinking this stereotype and I handle Latinas the same way I handle other things in life by being assertive and having my shit together. Or are there cultural differences that I should be aware of? :)

[AleDeEurope]

Well, Latinas are not the same as Spaniards, they have some similarities, but it's different cultures. I'm from Spain, so I was born and raised knowing how to deal with Spaniards, since I'm like that too.
What I've noticed is that there's no point in arguing, they will win, no matter how right you are, the argument will be won by them.
They tend to like having fun, so if you show them how to have a good time, they're yours.
Know how to dance too, that will get you far xD

[Asker]

The arguing part sounds similar enough to the girls you see here in the US. Seems like all cultures must have similar types of people then. I can't stand girls that argue for no reason and get their pride caught up in petty things. So latina or not, that was already something I'm wary of with any girl lol

And the dancing, I don't dance but I'm not closed off to it. I just don't do it for a hobby. So hopefully she is down for being my teacher, whoever "she" is haha

[Izzy2102]

well my brother is married to one and she once told their three year old to stop crying because he was staining her carpet

Assuming she actually grew up in Latin America, it's a different culture for sure. My mom used to be a midwife and there they always used to say Latinas are unpleasant to work with, because they're so loud, like they let it all out

[Asker]

Lmao... staining the carpet. I think I like Latinas more now just because of that hahaha

[Nothing_]

The sounds like something my mom would say. 😂

[Izzy2102]

no not THE carpet, HER carpet

[Anonymous]

I'm Hispanic and Latina. I find this so stereotypical, I am not offended though because it's not true, in my opinion.

I am crazy and a psycho though I don't deny it. I think we get the impression that we're "crazy/psycho" because we get mad very easily.. haha yeah.

Thanks to the people who say we're amazing!

[Asker]

I think you are amazing! :D haha

So let me ask you this: is it just a culture norm to be more outgoing and passionate, we'll say? lol

[Asker]

Also, where do you come from?

[Opinion Owner]

haha i think so. I'm from Mexico, i don't look like it, sadly.

[Asker]

Lighter complexion than "normal"?

[Opinion Owner]

I guess so

[BuchitaBuchys]

I'm Latina. Who the fuck said that? I'll cut them.

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[Asker]

LMAO, win!

[BuchitaBuchys]

Lol ;P

[Asker]

Guuuuurl, you cray-see

[HonestWhiteGuy]

Dem fiery latinas

[BuchitaBuchys]

@HonestWhiteGuy ;)

[kain7th]

awww feisty kitten! :D

[BuchitaBuchys]

@kain7th this kitty has claws ;P

[sammy_31]

Well, I have been told I act like WOAH :O sometimes. Only when I'm really upset though and yes not every Latina/Hispanic woman is. Not crazy though, just another typical stereotype for you. Those crazy days are behind me, or at least most of the time it feels as if they are.

[Asker]

So if you could compare both yourself and what you think the stereotype "is", what would you compare it to? I used the example of Salma Hayek in that movie Here Comes the Boom, so use a movie character if you want

[sammy_31]

It can be from the first video to the second. :O #truestory
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CTnH-3-gsWs
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OGJAUnNzbhE

[Asker]

Hahahahahahahaha. The first was kind of sexy, but I might just be biased because of Hayek. The second... good grief, she needs her meds filled lol

[sammy_31]

xD I can be both and anything in between :D

[Asker]

Video 1: "You're being silly right now, stop that. I WANT TO BE WITH YOU AND ON YOU!"

Video 2: "Hey come here... does this rag smell like chloroform to you?"

Done and done, time for lunch :)

[sammy_31]

Exactly!

[larry69]

Crazy women have the best sex in my opinion

[front2back]

There's actually a popular culture trope dedicated to this phenomenon:
tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/SpicyLatina

[Asker]

I'm really glad you linked this. It gives good examples to see what stereotypes are true when they're shown as characters in movies. I'd give you an Amazon gift card if I could lol

[traxlem]

Nope nope nope nope they are no more and no less crazy than any other woman... I grew up around Latinas (aunts, cousins) and they seemed as "normal" compared to every other woman I've gotten to know. I think the crazy is evenly distributed to all nationalities.

[COCOCHANEL]

my boss told me not to worry about the girl who called me the other day to threaten me. he said she's hysterical and crazy because she's part Spanish. he said it in a very casual but matter-of-fact way, on two different occassions. then, later, the girl's husband the same thing. ”the Spanish blood in her is strong” ... sounds like an excuse for bad behavior.

[Nuns_in_Heat]

You hit the nail on the head lol! Statements like that are really just an excuse to allow bad behavior.

[latinababygirl]

yes hunn like they say we re good in the kitchen; we know how to slice and dice whether that's your dick or your food you choose. WHY? well we learn it from our pops and he don't fck around.

[Asker]

So just treat her right and you'll be all good with latinas?

[latinababygirl]

si senor! :P

[Asker]

Gracias, corazón!

[latinababygirl]

de nada

[NervousPie]

... you learn to cut dicks from your dads? wtf...

[latinababygirl]

no foo, we get our crazy side from our dads because they are protective of us therefore, we too act In the same way.

[xPoison]

Lol, not ALL, but I would say most from my experience. In a Latina here and know my kind well. We are FUNNY crazy and OUTGOING crazy, and a few are kuku in the head...

It is culture and its in the blood :) orgullosamente latina

[Asker]

So for us normals, how would you teach us to counteract the Latina sass/feistiness? :D

[xPoison]

Haha that's funny. Get crazier than them to counteract it ;D :p

[Asker]

So I need to cut THEIR penis off before they get mine?

[hunteroftheKrouse]

No stereotype is true, I live in Louisiana, but that does not mean I hunt "gators" or am idiotic, keep that in mind next time you want to ask such a stupid question

[jslxoxo]

Which part of Louisiana?

[Asker]

A stupid question would be "Why ARE latinas crazy", not "is the stereotype true".

Slow your roll, Kujo

[hunteroftheKrouse]

Bossier City (northern Louisiana)

[jslxoxo]

Really? I Minden right here!!!

[hunteroftheKrouse]

Wow, what are the olds? Great now I want to do the math.

[jslxoxo]

What do you mean?

[hunteroftheKrouse]

I always do the math, at the age of 13 I can do math better and faster than some college graduated (I'm amazing at math)

[jslxoxo]

Of course there is some to every stereotype. However, just like every stereotype, it can apply to any race. I only knew 3 latinas from high school and the stereotype didn't apply to them, at least from what I saw

[been_waiting]

I have a lot of Latina friends and they've never given the impression of being crazy at all.

However the Dominican Republic is number one in the world for domestic violence. My friend is Dominican and her mom goes bat shit on dudes lol

[Asker]

Film it and put it on YouTube for us to enjoy! :D

[been_waiting]

Oh its traumatizing. And weird because she's so nice in general.
The men from DR are supposedly much worse.

[Asker]

I just looked at a Wikipedia article on 'Women in the DR', and it says "Women in the Dominican Republic are characteristically polite"... I don't know who or what to believe! lol

[been_waiting]

www.theguardian.com/.../dominican-republic-epidemic-domestic-violence

Domestic violence is the 4th highest killer of women there o.0
they're so polite and sweet tho also!

[Asker]

That's really messed up. Seems like if you're not a tool, Dominican women would think you're heaven-sent

[been_waiting]

I'm not sure because I only know one Dominican family, but the women I know only want dominican men... its odd lol.

[Asker]

Stockholm Syndrome or something lol

[Curmudgeon]

I always had an impression of them as demure Catholic girls? (Note: Mexican Americans are not Cuban Americans who are not Puerto Ricans, so perhaps we should really ask which culture in particular).

[Asker]

Very good point. I've read (again, don't know how true this is because it was a bunch of tools discussing it) that Brazilians are fiery and impatient, Colombians are indecisive and REALLY fiery, Cubans are more docile, PR's are a bit on the aggressive/violent side, Mexicans are submissive and traditional, and so on.

[thechica]

yes most of them are hahah. going to be real! they go crazy and do some crazy stuff. but not all latinas are like that. because I'm not like them :D so hope i answer your question.

[Asker]

What do you think causes their feistiness?

[thechica]

they get mad easily and by that, they do crazy things. for example: you go out with a girl and you guys are together for like 2 years everything seems all right! then you don't like her no more... and break up with her, she would do a lot of things. like begg you to get back with her!!! if you date a other girl, she would try to break you guys up.. by talking sh*t and other things " not all Latinas are like that thoe.

[Asker]

That doesn't seem all that different from crazy, desperate American girls. Is there any kind of upbringing or something that causes Hispanic people to be more outgoing and assertive though?

[thechica]

I just don't want to tell you others stories.. But yeah they do go act crazy..

[NovemberJoseph]

They tend to be confident as fuck and bash on anyone who isn't. im mexican, meaning my mom and aunts are all confident outgoing types, and they see as having some sort of disease because I'm not nearly as social as they are.

[Asker]

So is the part about them still being the most loyal and loving/nurturing people despite the craziness still true?

[NovemberJoseph]

When I was in highschool, all my friends and I got cheated on by Latinas. Not saying it's not a coincidence, not saying it is either.

[NovemberJoseph]

My best friend had a white gf. They're still together to this day.

[ElectricGIRL]

Haha yes! I'm Mexican & we are crazy, hot tempered and bossy

[Asker]

Is it because being hot tempered or "ready to blow" is taught to you?

[ElectricGIRL]

No we're just fiesty I don't know why exactly for me it was growing up with a lot of brothers & very little adult super vision

[larry69]

I like feisty women. Don't make a Latina woman mad if it is that time of the month. It could be trouble

[Anonymous]

just wanted to say thanks to everyone for not saying Spanish people. Just moved to America and it irks me how they call Latin American people Spanish. What? Spanish people come from Spain. Are they really as uneducated as the rest of the world thinks? I guess you could call me English bc I speak English . Even latinos do it. saying they're Spanish

[Asker]

You're welcome lol. Doesn't make sense to me either to identify people by the language they speak. If you want to rage at something, ask an oblivious American what language Brazilians speak hahahaha

[Opinion Owner]

Hahaha... I know what you mean. There's a Brazilian in my class and that conversation has happened. God... hahaha

[Asker]

"You speak Brazilian, right? Oh no, wait! Spanish... duh!" lol

[mr90skid]

I think I'm failing to get the joke by saying this, if there is a joke, but Brazilians speak Portuguese

[Opinion Owner]

Ikr? And he was so upset haha

[Asker]

Yeah, that's the joke. Most people either think they speak "Brazilian" or Spanish, but never think that they don't speak either lol

[Asker]

At least not in general

[crazyemster]

Ha ha I guess I'm not really sure. It sure seems to be portrayed like that though, like with Gloria on "Modern Family" :D

[Asker]

Yeah, with her... I think she's just that typical celebrity that plays up to stereotypes and whatnot for entertainment and humor. Unless she really is that stereotypical or basic lol

[LookatDuhDonkay]

Im hispanic. Hispanic women aren't necessarily crazy per say its just that latin American culture is extremely open or verbally expressive. Combine that with love and you get a stereotype.

[Anonymous]

I'm Latina and I'm pretty shy but I'm not always patient. When I get angry I do get really angry but it's not to the point where I take off my earrings and start cussing out everyone

[Asker]

I laughed at the earrings part for some reason lol

Are any of your family members the stereotypical "fiery Latino/a"?

[Opinion Owner]

Oh actually yeah. My grandma. She goes crazy and does tell the other person "I'll see you in hell" in Spanish. But my mom and I would never do that. I guess it depends on the way we're raised. Maybe we all have it but some girls weren't taught to control it xD

[Asker]

Interesting... feisty grandma! lol

I guess it'll be interesting to see how the younger generations of Latins have changed over their older generations.

[Opinion Owner]

They've changed a lot. I'm completely different to my grandma. It's pretty interesting xD

[Asker]

Sounds like it lol

[Opinion Owner]

Lol yeah xD

[xCutesyLolitax]

I am originally from a Spanish country and I am one of the quitest, most tranquil person I know o: But I have my silly, random moments^__^

[Asker]

You're the black sheep! Do you ever get pressure or criticism from family members wondering why you're mellow?

[xCutesyLolitax]

Yes, actually :o Shyness and introversion isn't a very common trait in families with a latin descent, so I often may get criticized or looked down upon? u_u

[Asker]

Hmm, well that's unfortunate. Suffer through it long enough, and you'll snap and go all out on them like they want you to be. So I guess they have a plan! hahaha

[xCutesyLolitax]

oh... no...(#^.^#) let's hope not, lol :D

[Anonymous]

This is interesting. Maybe its due to how passionate Latina women are about everything. Most stand their ground, they nurture and give to much, and do have a feisty attitude.

[Opinion Owner]

Also, having a lot of Latina friends I know that they are lively, fun, and exude confidence. These are traits that I have discovered from my Latin friends.

[Asker]

After all the answers here, plus just life experiences... I'm starting to think I've got Latinas on a bit of a pedestal and they're not all that different from other cultures. Maybe they're more confident on average than say American girls, but that's a good thing to me. So perhaps I just have to be my same old Leonidas self, and I'll be fine.

Sound like a good plan? lol

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah girls are girls regardless of their racial background. But I can tell you that my Latin friends are so exciting and have 'fire' in them. After years of knowing them I have realised that they are good hearted women who are passionate about many different things.

Yeah if your attracted to them then ask them out. Of course no ok nw assures you the girl will accept but there are plenty. Treat her well and she's a keeper. That's one thing about most Latin American women that I know stands true, they're very loyal and stand by their man and family. Its their priority. What ethnicity are you?

[Asker]

Yeah, I suppose I'm learning to stop seeing them as "latina women", and just see them as Jane, or Sally, or whoever the girl in particular is. Plus I wouldn't want a girl thinking that she's just my fetish or something like that hahaha. What makes them so passionate, do you know?

I'm actually not into the whole "marriage and family" stuff, so I wonder if Latinas in general wouldn't be compatible with me from the get-go lol. And I'm white, I come from Caucasia :)

What about you?

[Opinion Owner]

Haha true! And they're just passionate. I can't really explain it other than they fight for what they believe, they like a bit of fire in relationships so they won't get bored. They like arguing and by some occasions I have seen them do so I will tell you that you will not win the argument. They have this sass and confidence going on. I have been invited to parties with them and they and there families are so nice and welcoming and they love to dance. There so good at it. They shake hips, butt, legs, arms, chest, everything. They just hace this natural confidence while fancong and they have sp much grace amd rhythm it's breathtaking.

As i mentioned this applies to most not all i know there are many who don't want families you find the right one with your ideals. But these women are great friends and lovers from what I've seen at least most not all though

Oh. cool, I'm Asian

[Opinion Owner]

*-While dancing

[Asker]

The arguing thing is something that a few people have mentioned here. I'm not an arguer... I'm calm and don't like meaningless debates or people that flip their shit over nothing. So if she's passionate but reasonable, that's fine by me :)

I think that's what it is, besides their stunning looks they seem to have. Their natural confidence and feistiness is a big draw from the usual girl that usually is barely secure in anything and afraid of the world.

[Opinion Owner]

LOL yes they argue but to prove a point and usually it's when you disagree with what they say, so maybe it helps that you have a alm personality so both can even each other out. You give ger serenity and she gives you passion and fire.

Yeah, they might have insecurities but they look past that and focus on doing better and making themselves feel better. That's how my acquaintances are. They don't go down easy yet there some of the most caring and loving people I have met. When they give their time they give it unconditionally like their love. I love my friends because they always lift me up.

[Opinion Owner]

-Calm

[Asker]

Yeah, we'll go with that. I'll kill 'em with calmness and mystery hahaha

You make me want to go out to the store and buy myself a Latina now, with all this talk you're giving them :(

[Opinion Owner]

haha ya they might like it since it's different to themselves. This is subjective since they might not all be as I described but a good portion yes.

LOL I'm sorry, Im answering ur questions.

How old r u? Maybe ur really young n thats why your afraid?

[Asker]

Nope, it's all your fault :P

I'm 25. I wouldn't say I'm afraid, just want to know about them before I run into some sort of cultural difference or something. It sounds bad, but I have a "thing" for Latinas. Not just sexually, but I just find myself really attracted to them for some reason.

[Opinion Owner]

LOL! I did say sorry

Well just treat them with respect similar as you would any other girl, after all she is a girl and good manners are important.

Do u live in a place where there are many Latin American women? That could b why your so attracted?

[Asker]

Eh, there is a decent population here. Mostly Mexican immigrants, but there are also a decent bit of Colombians too. Maybe that's it, but I don't see them on a daily basis. I took a trip out to LA and of course, there are a ton of Hispanic folks there which I thought was great (again, I don't know why lol).

A had a big crush on a Colombian girl in high school who also had a thing for me. Unfortunately, I didn't have the nerve to do anything about it. But even before that, it seemed like I had a thing at least for darker featured women.

Help me, bud! hahaha

[Opinion Owner]

So where r u from then?
Its probably the contrast of color dat attracts u.

Dat sucks u should have acted upon the feeling! Is it the physical Stereotype of "curvy women",. dark hair, brown eyes, the language they speak?
what do u need? LOL

[Asker]

I should have! It was odd back then, because I was that kind of awkward, not super well-dressed type of guy. And she... wow, she was just stunning, dressed well, most (if not all) dudes would drool over her. And I was so shocked that she was flirting with ME hahaha. I don't know, maybe she was just being nice. But in hindsight, I know what flirting is and she was either super friendly and comfortable around me, or yeah... she was flirting. And yes, she was curvy but still a kind of slim girl. So she had big boobs, big hips, and a big ass, but a slim waist and wasn't chubby.

I basically just need you to put in the good word for me. Just be like "I know this guy from the internet (lie), and this is why you need to hunt him down:"... then just start making up all this good stuff about me hahahahaha!

[Opinion Owner]

Ya well beauty is in the eye of the beholder. She thought u were attractive.

LOL! to my friends? How are. they suppose to reach u when ur anon?

[Asker]

Yeah, I just didn't believe it then. That's why I need a time machine

Yeah, to your friends. Then they'll spread it to their friends, and so on, until all Hispanics have this weird urge to go find this one random American white dude that loves them :D

[Opinion Owner]

LOL! I'm actually studying right now for finals next week with one of them.
She said what? LOL

I need to form a campaign to find u

[Asker]

Yes, please do! We'll need a fundraiser, and petition to sign, and everything!

And tell your friend I said "Hola ¿cómo estás?", and wink or wiggle your eyebrows when you do. She'll love it, I swear

[Opinion Owner]

LOL seriously

She laughed. Would u like to chat with her this should be interesting for. me to watch?

[Asker]

Uh oh, I'm nervous now. But sure, let's try it. The only way to conquer your fear of angels is to talk to them, right? :D

[Opinion Owner]

LOL! I'm going to be laughing at dis good luck!

[Asker]

Thanks! :)

[Opinion Owner]

Hey my friend is discussing this topic with me. Hola jaja estoy bien mi amiga me contó todo. Cómo estás tú?

[Asker]

I'm doing well! So I guess she told you I'm the man, orrr? And whatcha studying? :)

[Opinion Owner]

Yep she told me haha. I thought it was very interesting and I was intrigued. We're currently working on a study guide.
So do you know Spanish?

[Asker]

For what class?

And not really. I mean, I know bits and pieces from what I took in school and partly in university. But if you dropped me off in a Spanish speaking country, I might starve to death lol. Is it something I should learn to impress the latinas?

[Opinion Owner]

For our English class.
Haha that would be funny! "No hablar español " lol
That would definitely make a good impression.

[Asker]

Hmm, noted. So let me ask you this: you probably already saw in my question that you can't really generalize whole groups of people easily. But do latinas generally not have a problem with race differences?

[Opinion Owner]

Well you cannot generalize definitely but for the most part, especially in this day and age, I don't think it's a problem. It isn't a problem for me. Some will want to stick with their own because of similar culture and ideas but most won't have a problem with it.

[Asker]

I see, makes sense. Well, do you have any other tips or advice that I should know about latinas? :D I'm studying for a test too lolol

[Opinion Owner]

Well after going through what my friend Norey stated on here, I think it's spot on. She is right about our feisty attitude and nurturing behavior. We will put up a fight if we aren't pleased, but we will treat you will love and respect. We are very passionate. I love family, food, my culture, sports, and everyone that surround me. We will please you and care for you but don't mess with us. We can be the nicest and most loving women you'll ever come across witth but once you've messed up all hell breaks loose. This goes for most Latinas not all though.

What are you studying?

[Asker]

Hmm, well I guess I'm even more of a fan now! Never had a problem with treating a girl right and not crossing onto her bad side, so I think I'm pretty well set! Just need some Spanish classes, and I'll be golden :D

I'm graduated from university now, but I studied software engineering and web design. You?

[Opinion Owner]

Haha the part about us loosing control doesn't scare you at all?
Yes that would help.

Oh cool and I'm finishing my first semester of second year in college.

[Asker]

I mean, I figure a lot of it is just playful or humorous stereotypes or jokes. There are a good amount of girls out there (from any ethnicity) that are crazy and insecure, so latinas have their own fair share too. So whether I'm intrigued by latinas or not, I'd still have to avoid the truly psycho ones. But ones that are confident to the point of being feisty? Yeah, that's just fine. It's actually refreshing from the really passive girls everywhere :)

What's your major?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes women are women regardless and we ask have similar traits. It's all fun in games with us, but once you mess with its and hurt us you're done boy and good luck because as Latinas we can be pretty mean.

Sociology and what was your?

[Asker]

Makes sense. It's good for me to take you guys off the pedestal I had you on. I shouldn't have a problem going after one now, not that she would be a fetish or anything like that lol.

But a little never hurt, so you should spread the words to your friend that a random (but super charming) guy such as myself would be the best thing a Latina took on :D

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah don't be intimidated you'll be ok. Yes some might say no but all you need is the lady that says yes. ;)
Wait are you telling my friend Norey or myself (Latina) lol?

[Asker]

Both! Me and her decided to start a campaign to find me a Latina hahaha

One more question. Have you seen that movie "Here Comes the Boom"?

[Opinion Owner]

Haha o wow! So when am I meeting this so called "charming guy"?

No I haven't, whats it about?

[Asker]

Ummm, well I'll dress him up and send him your way as a graduation present when that time comes. It's your motivation and reward for getting a degree hahaha

Just about this teacher that takes up MMA in order to raise money for his school's music program he wants to save. But basically, Salma Hayek is in that movie and acts real feisty all throughout. I was hoping you had seen it so you could say if that's what Latinas are like or not lol

[Opinion Owner]

It's not that easy you know. You must persist (; but it's always a good reward

Oh well probably that's exactly how it is but Hollywood and the movie industries in general tend to exaggerate stereotypes a bit more.

[Asker]

I can't persist if you leave my life forever after this question. Do you really want to be that mean, HMMM? :D

Yeah, that's why I wasn't sure how real it was or not. Maybe I'll just tell a girl "you know, you're not acting like Salma Hayek when you're like this" lolol. That'll make her go reeeeal crazy

[Opinion Owner]

Haha HMMM I don't know should I give you a shot?

Oh yea girls will be mad especially if we're being conpared to be criticised! :p

[Asker]

Yeah, definitely. On top of me being charming like I mentioned, I cook a mean quesadilla and I want someone to go with me to teach me dancing. That way, you get to be nurturing, have fun, and dance all at once. It's a win-win situation. How could you say no to that?

[Opinion Owner]

Oh that all seems so very tempting! How big and spicy is this quesadilla?
You play a good game, and I'll be your coach? :p

[Asker]

They're actually really think, so I'm not sure if they're even quesadillas anymore. I just get really hungry after the gym, so I make them huge. Spiciness- probably not too spicy. I put some pico on them and it says spicy or hot on the package, but it doesn't taste too spicy lol. But I'll share some with you :)

And sure! Teach me to dance with the best of them!

[Opinion Owner]

The bigger the better (:! I love mine with extra spicy sauce. Gracias. (:

Coarse some salsa, mambo, cumbias, and all that good stuff

[Asker]

Done! I'll even put a little heart shape onto the side of it ;D

I'll try all of those if you also promise one thing: we have to try swing dancing too

[Opinion Owner]

Oh I like it. You are getting there. (;

Yes, I love swing dance. I'm good at that too

[Asker]

There's more where that came from... ZINGA ;) lol

Have you done swing dancing before?

[Opinion Owner]

Really? We'll see ha.
Yup it's really fun nd beautiful. Have you?

[Asker]

Unfortunately not :\

Well not much, at least. There was a girl in high school that taught me a couple of basics, but that was many moons ago ha

[Opinion Owner]

Well there's time for that! Piece of cake

[Asker]

Especially since I'm going to persist all the way to your graduation... ZINGA

Man, I am on a roll here

[Opinion Owner]

Haha that's if I let you in pal (;
Or so you think?

[Asker]

Oh believe me, there won't be any "letting" once you get the full blast of charm. I'll have to beat you off with a stick to get you away from me ;)

[Opinion Owner]

Oh no one is getting near me with a stick! Back off because I won't need a stick (;

[Asker]

Ohhhh, showing me the feistiness already... I like :D

[Opinion Owner]

Haha it's your fault

[Asker]

Why, what did I do? This is just my Latina mating call

[Opinion Owner]

Well then expect the Latina sass ha

[Asker]

Yeah, and my face is feeling kind of hot and flushed. Is that normal?

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know lol
Are you feeling sick?

[Asker]

Not really. More like I'm coming down with the feisty fever because of your sass... ZINGA

[Opinion Owner]

Choose to tone it down and maybe you'll get well soon (;

[Asker]

I don't know, if this is how I feel with some sass... I don't want to be well

[Opinion Owner]

Being ill free willingly? Why

[Asker]

I'm going down with the sickness, and never felt better... man, that was poetic, if I can say so myself lol

[Opinion Owner]

Very poetic and contradictory as well ha

[Asker]

Yeah, that's the beauty of it :)

[Opinion Owner]

Yup and the fever lol. What sickness does to a person

[Asker]

Your fault :P

[Opinion Owner]

There is no way how?

[Asker]

Because you're giving me the sass, duh :P

[Opinion Owner]

Your asking for it, duh:P

[Opinion Owner]

And my friend left her account open so it's still me

[Asker]

It's because you've been hooked, and now I'm just reeling you in ;D

[Opinion Owner]

That's what you think:p

[Asker]

Or simply what you don't realize yet? ;)

[Opinion Owner]

Your to sure of yourself. (;

[Anonymous]

Ya they'll chop your dick off and hand it to you while you think about what you've done

[Asker]

lmao. I just pictured a guy dropping his head in shame while he holds his own dick as punishment lolol

[Opinion Owner]

It's like that sometimes.