GIRLS - How do you use the power you have over Men?

[Anonymous]

I'm not saying that women are the dominant sex, but you have a lot of power over men. Women can make men feel they way they feel and thus have power over the emotions of men... can make us feel like kings or like the scum of the earth. And men almost completely live their lives for women and sex.

Do you think less of men as a whole or lose respect for them because of this?

Can you share an experience with us in which your power did something very good... or bad?

[kambo_trick3y]

I'm not like most men.

Women don't have power over me.

I don't think with my dick, I think with my brain first. The only people I put ahead of me are people of strong moral fiber and integrity, and also my family, that's it.

Sans that, women do not intimidate me nor will I bend over backwards for any woman.

I've said it before and I'll say it again. Men these days are weak-willed and easily driven. Society needs a new class of men. People who look deeper than just superficial means.

[Asker]

it's not about the dick. Mothers have power over sons and girls over their fathers. Try ridiculing a woman and she'll have you on your knees... it's our emotions they have power over... of course, the sexually attractive woman has the most power

[kambo_trick3y]

"Mothers have power over sons and girls over their fathers."

Well, first off, of course a mother is going to have power over their son. So will their father. Their uh... kinda his parents.

As for little girls over their fathers, if she rules him completely, he's weak. He needs to put his foot down.

Besides, I don't give a shit about other men. I care about me. No woman is ever ruling me.

If a woman rules over you, that's your own damn fault and your own emotional and mental weakness. Address it.

[Asker]

They don't rule us at all. Though they can. You misunderstood. They have the power to change how we feel and thus by proxy how we think

[Asker]

"nurturing" as they say

[kambo_trick3y]

Big deal, my friends and family can influence the way I feel and think because I let them. Because I've tested their character and their integrity and I know they are good people.

The mistake most guys make that I do not make is that instead of testing their character, morals and integrity like I do, most guys test girls by their boobs, ass, and how fit their body is. Big mistake. And that's why most guys are stupid and they fall prey to women.

I'm going to sound really arrogant but I know I'm right when I say most guys could afford to learn a thing or two from me. Instead of being some slave to a hot, shallow women. You should give your time, effort and emotions to people who deserve it, people who will care about you as much as you care about them. That includes men AND women.

[Asker]

you're only a slave if you choose to continue living with it. But there are some things we can't control, albeit temporary. She can also make you feel so much better about yourself, like a king... wives can boost their husbands' confidence to sky high levels.

[kambo_trick3y]

"But there are some things we can't control, albeit temporary She can also make you feel so much better about yourself, like a king... wives can boost their husbands' confidence to sky high levels."

Speak for yourself son. I don't need any woman to do that. I can do it myself. I already have big ass confidence and it's because I've earned and worked for things myself. I don't need any woman to help me with that.

Anyway, this conversation has become boring. I'm done with it and I've made my point.

[Asker]

yeah, thanks for your comment though!

[BumbleSuperBee]

Haha i just loved reading this! Well, men find a lot of things in women that make them "weak"- not literally, y'know what i mean" - such as their charm, flirting, boobs, and other shit. And u can't simply say no to a woman if she's pretty , confident, and knows what she wants. So yea, me for instance, i use my face and eyes to make a guy do what i want- especially my long eyelashes, i just stare at the guy and do my adorable face, so yea, my face does the magic hehe :P

[Asker]

lol. Thanks. Well, it's not just physical you know? Little girls have power over their fathers, mothers have power over their sons. It's something natural and instinctual. Hard to explain really...

Don't you think less of men because of this?

[BumbleSuperBee]

No, i never thought less of men. It's not their fault y'know :P and guys can have power over women too... especially when a guy is too attractive and hard to resist, they can be pretty dominant sometimes.
But i've never lost my respect for guys on this. Each sex has their ways of dominating the other sex :)

[Asker]

But if you have power over something then isn't that thing "less" than you... even if he is designed like that?

How do you think men dominate women? Cuz each man is devoted to a woman, really. Studies show that 95% of decisions men make are influenced by women... I've heard

[BumbleSuperBee]

For a moment, yea, i might think of myself as stronger but i still wouldn't disrespect the guy.

Well, nerdy-ish but cute guys make me feel weak, oor when a guy is standing shirtless in front of me, Nd if he is attractive, he'd have power over me oooor men biting their lips - this shit turns me on

[Asker]

hahaha true.. you can be vulnerable too... however in such a situation your probably still have more power. And the ability to change his feelings is always there.

Good that you won't disrespect him, but why respect something lesser than you? Just asking and please don't give an extremely politically correct response. It's a genuine question you know?

[BumbleSuperBee]

Well i'm not a judgmental person, and i actually don't like feeling or pretending to be superior to others unless i hate that person. So even if someone is "lesser" than me i don't i'd make them feel inferior to me or sth, maybe that's just the kind of person i am, while others might like it and might treat men as dogs.. just sayin :p

[BumbleSuperBee]

*i don't THINK i'd..

[Asker]

You sound like a good person... and you can't really make them feel inferior because most men especially at your age are not aware of this power you have over them... And I know what you mean. It sucks to think that other people are superior or inferior to you lol.

[BumbleSuperBee]

Yea i am pretty nice, sometimes too nice.. and yes, I've been told, i just can't wait to finish this year and get into college and "communicate" with actual and "real" men.. not douchebags

[Asker]

You mean the annoying "too nice" or something else? I just came to my college last week and I can't "communicate" with girls... cuz my non verbal communication sucks and I'm pretty boring I guess...

[BumbleSuperBee]

No, i mean "nice" as in helping others while they don't appreciate what i do for them.. always smiling and treating others kindly. I even sometimes do what makes my friends happy instead of what makes me happy.. and i don't get credit for it.. so yea, thats why i consider myself "too nice"

[BumbleSuperBee]

I guess they'll come round - the girls in ur college

[Asker]

Aww.. Don't change no matter what people say or make you feel. Cuz that's awesome! Just don't be a doormat I guess.

Do you really think they'll come round? I just can't seem to even say hello most of the time and often when I do they pretend not to notice... so yeah. Like there are 3-5 good looking girls in my block but I just can't introduce myself and instead we exchange weird looks indirectly. Which makes things far worse

[BumbleSuperBee]

Thank you for saying that!
Yes, you just have to be more confident and keep smiling to them, they'll know you're nice and cool once you approach casually -smiling- and introduce yourself. They won't bite :P what's the worst that can happen? This is how friendships start. So show them you'd like to be friends with them and that you're interested in getting to know them. Girls like guys who are confident, nice, kind, generous, sweet and thoughtful. So keep that in mind!
Whenever u find an opportunity, whether she's at the library, waiting in class, the cafeteria, anywhere, just go to her and ask her first if u may sit in the seat next to hear (let's say she's be sitting), say hi, and see where the convo goes :)

[Asker]

What do I do when they just look away? It's so nasty, really. Guys do it too, but I'm okay with that I guess. I'm terrible at holding conversations and always seem to talk about serious/logical/analytical stuff... which I believe girls DESPISE.

Thanks for your advice though. I'll try my best!

[BumbleSuperBee]

Not all girls despise these conversations. And you can't pretend to be someone else to please the girls, so keep being urself.
Anytime :)

[Asker]

Yeah but not with a potential mate right? I mean I come off as pretty fucking asexual in general... along with awkward, creepy, arrogant and hostile I think? I don't know but my nonverbal communication is BS.

[BumbleSuperBee]

You sound pretty cool. First step is to stop considering yourself awkward and creepy and then u would come out as pretty confident and casual with others. Avoid those things that u think make u creepy, and dont say 'everything' :p

[Asker]

I... can't control it? It's like an internalized non-verbal creepiness. Damn... Thanks for the compliment though :D But I'm sure I couldn't get you into bed if I tried my best... I mean, what does it take? I have no freaking clue. I don't come off as "a man" I think

[BumbleSuperBee]

You ccan't just say that, i mean, has anyone ever told u you're creepy? Or u just think so? How old are you anyway? :p

[Asker]

21 lol... no I've never really been told that, but I can sense it I guess.

[BumbleSuperBee]

Then stop sensing it and start off as a new confident person. It shouldn't be that hard. You're not even boring, i'm sure there are girls in ur college that will be into u, u just gotta be patient. Don't just give up! Be yourself, and whoever believes you're creepy then screw them!

[Asker]

Yeah I guess you're right. I'm just being so dumb and pathetic right now...

[BumbleSuperBee]

Noo, you're just being insecure. Remember! The most important thing is to smile! :) now smile!

[Asker]

Thanks! :D

I've heard girls hate insecure guys though. Now I'm feeling more insecure

[BumbleSuperBee]

We like guys who know what they want. Stop feeling bad about yourself!

[Asker]

Know what we want in what sense, may I ask?

[Asker]

I've stopped feeling bad about myself though

[BumbleSuperBee]

Know what they wanna do in life for example, the goals they wanna reach and stuff like that.

I'm happy to hear that:)

[CoolBeans8]

Do you have this power over guys who aren't sexually interested in you?

[BumbleSuperBee]

You can say that... after all not just appearances matter. Some girls have a strong and confident personality which can make them have power over guys
@CoolBeans8

[CoolBeans8]

but guys have this power as well, right?

[BumbleSuperBee]

Yes, of course. Guys can have as much power over girls as girls have over them. @CoolBeans8

[Izzex3]

I don't think I have any power over men?
I do think it's sad though that someone would let a person take advantage of them just because theyre attractive.
This one guy at my college uses my friend to get movie tickets to take his dates
A bunch of girls throw themselves at him and give him whatever he wants just because he's cute even though they know he's just using them.
I don't think less of the person depending on who it is.
I just find it kinda sad.

[Asker]

It's not only the female we're attracted to. Why don't you think less of that person? I mean, if one sex is programmed to be influenced heavily by the opposite sex, don't you think it is "lesserness", strictly speaking?

[Izzex3]

Why would I? I just said i find it sad.
It's not a sex or gender thing.
It's an individual thing.

[Asker]

That's extreme left wing, political correctness. I find it so frustrating that people believe that "we're all equal" shit.

[Izzex3]

I find it funny that just because you personally let someone have power over you based on their sex that you think any guy who doesn't must be gay or have something wrong with them.
you're not taking responsibility at all and just blame it on the fact that you have a penis.
Nice.

[Asker]

that could be true, but there's truth to what I'm talking about

[Asker]

I'm sorry but this fact is just undeniable. Though it may be extreme in my case

[Izzex3]

Uh-huh.

[Asker]

I guess I'm not convincing enough, but I'm sure you'll find out now that you know what to look for ;)

[Izzex3]

?
What am I looking for?

[Asker]

the proof of this question

[Izzex3]

It's not a fact though..

[Asker]

You will find that it is, I assure you

[Izzex3]

It's not though.

[Guysvsgirls]

I wouldn't exactly say I have "power" over a guy. However, I think girl's have a huge influence on guys. I always use my "power" on a guy to make him feel very confident, and manly. Though it has sometimes ended up with me being hurt. If women can make a man feel so special and do things to please him, then I'm sure the feelings are reciprocated.

[Asker]

Damn.. wish every girl did that! haha.

[Guysvsgirls]

Isn't that what we're supposed to do?

[Asker]

you're not "supposed" to do anything.

[Guysvsgirls]

Well, being a people pleaser I like doing it. It makes me happy to see a guy boost his self esteem, and feel manly.

[Asker]

wow really? OMG that's so cool..

[Guysvsgirls]

Yes really! I've been doing it for my whole life (Pleasing people in general). Specifically to men in the past 2 years. If they can lift something for me, or be a gentleman, I'll let them. Or if they want to pick me up, I'll insist I'm too heavy, and when they do, I think they feel pretty strong. It's all about the communication, and making sure that he's happy, and feels good.

[Asker]

Keep rollin rollin rollin...

[Guysvsgirls]

Haha what?

[Asker]

It was the undertaker's entrance theme

[Guysvsgirls]

Ah, I see

[Asker]

not it's yours :P

[Username_]

One time this guy gave me a free car wash cause I was being nice towards him and he thought I was flirting and this was the day I realized the power of having a vagina and I may or may not have gone back to get a few more free car washes...

[Asker]

That's an external power that not all girls have over us. The emotional one is what I'm referring to.

[Asker]

Just to add.. you'll lose that external power in like 15 years.. but this one remains

[Username_]

ahaha jee thanks XD and to be honest I don't really know if I've had any sort of "emotional control" over a guy

[Asker]

Try it. You can make us feel however you want us to feel.

[babymxnster]

I think the only power is right before doing something sexual, knowing a guy will do anything you want to get off. It's a pretty good feeling honestly.

[Asker]

Nah. I don't think most of you even realize the power you have over men... the one who the man is sexually attracted to has the most power over him, obviously though. But it's definitely not restricted to that.

So tell me, do you like it when a guy does things for you? Or just the idea that he'll do anything?

[babymxnster]

Yeah, it's nice knowing he'll do things. But it really depends on the context. Like opening a door or something. Guys think that opening a door for a girl is needed, but a girl can easily open a door for a guy, it's just common custody. There's a time when it's needed, but at times it's like a guy is saying a girl is too weak to do something on her own. When it comes to sex I think there's an equal power between girls and guys.

[Asker]

cool.. however you're only describing sexual power. Even in real life you can easily see how girls can make us feel sad, happy, angry or whatever.

What kind of power are you referring to in the last sentence?

[babymxnster]

How is holding a door for someone only sexual?

[Asker]

we do that for each other too.

[Nodramaqueen]

I don't really see that in guys but if that's true I guess it's kind of empowering but that doesn't mean I would feel more dominant over a guy if anything that's kind of cool

[Asker]

it's a lie really

[Nodramaqueen]

What's a lie?

[Asker]

that this power exists. Cuz it exists in everyone.

[Nodramaqueen]

Everyone that is confident enough to use it I agree everyone has the ability just not everyone feels the need to use it or flaunt it

[aamy811]

I don't really have any power over any guys. I have guy friends but don't really know others. Also I wouldn't control them if I could because that's mean and they're my friends

[Asker]

You mustn't do it consciously then, but it happens unconsciously ALL THE TIME. And this power is enhanced if he's sexually attracted to you.

[aamy811]

Yeah I don't think you understand not every woman is pretty and not every guy thinks very woman is pretty. I a guy thinks your ugly he probably won't even talk to you. My friends probably think I'm average but think in I by or something. Also I don't want to control them because their my friends

[Asker]

Sorry for not being clear. The thing is that women have this power and it is not restricted to a woman who is sexually attractive to a man. Mothers have this influence over their adult sons, girls have it over their fathers... and it isn't restricted to family and friends either.

[aamy811]

So do you not think sons have it over their mother and fathers have it over their daughters/sons. Especially jut because parents are in positions of authority and control not necessarily a gender thing.
And attractiveness has some play. ask a 300lb girl with acne how offer guys come up to her or give her free stuff and he wot be able to give you a long list

[Asker]

Adult sons are famous for being manipulated by their mothers. But I do think they can manipulate when they're younger, though far less than their mother can lol.

Sure we don't do shit for unattractive girls, but that doesn't mean you don't have that emotional power.

[aamy811]

Yeah I don't really see that. I notice that girls typically crave affection and approval more so intend to think women are more easily controlled by guys

[Asker]

I'm terrible at being convincing, but all I know is that you'll learn over time. Or soon since now you know what to look for :D

[Creole_Flavor]

Well I'm not into manipulating people as a person who has had it done to them, I despise anyone who does that.

[Asker]

Human interaction is a lot about manipulation. It's not a bad thing unless used for bad or motivated by evil. You could BOOST a man's confidence with your gift.

[Creole_Flavor]

That would be positive influence or motivation. I don't see the positivity in the word manipulation at all.

[Asker]

you can delude him into thinking stuff, or make them seem nicer than they are... or better than how he perceives them. Just raise his morale somehow. I love it when girls do that

[Anonymous]

I've actually used my power!
I've build a castle I am the queen and 100 men are my slaves

[Asker]

lol. c'mon!

[Opinion Owner]

Haha you asked how, I told you

[Asker]

lol I guess I shouldn't be speaking of such things

[Opinion Owner]

Haha anyway, I know what you mean
I sometimes use it yes, I dont think it is bad though.
Fox example , if a woman will ask her bf to cook he may say no or that he is bored, but if she tells him things like: I find it so sexy when men cook! If I saw you cooking I would be so turned on that I would want sex all the night long.
It should work.

[Asker]

afaik, it's an unconscious thing so you probably do it ALL the time and men it seems are programmed to follow whatever emotion you plant in them. And you certainly have A WAY of doing things, as is evident in the example you gave.

Doesn't it make you think less of men?

[Opinion Owner]

I dont do it all the time, only if I want something to happen
No it doesn't make me think less of men, but it makes me feel proud of mee

[Asker]

Good to know. I think these things should remain unconscious and a part of non-verbal communication for the most part... as they are...

Why doesn't it make you think less of them? Because it makes us "lesser" in this regard, strictly speaking.

[Opinion Owner]

Men have a power of us women too, that's why.
Guys may be more manipulated and easier, but some girls are too.

[Asker]

what power do we have exactly?

[Opinion Owner]

If we are in love with you, you have great power.

[Asker]

but what IS that power? O_O

[Opinion Owner]

I would say like an emotional power. Like: Please baby do it you know how much I love you.
Females and males have different strategys!

[Asker]

most men never get to this stage and even if they do they're sacrificing much more...

[Opinion Owner]

What do you mean?

[Asker]

like we do most of the "giving"

[Opinion Owner]

maybe, I dont really know.
Anyway for me its right:
There's nothing that a bodied woman can't do

[Asker]

Anything to a man for sure... and people in general I guess.

[Opinion Owner]

I love it that you agree.
How did you think of it, really?

[Asker]

Life in general I guess. That includes internet life

[Asker]

Why do you love it that agree? lol.

[Opinion Owner]

I like it because it is like you accept our power :)

[Asker]

I hate living in denial. I really admire your power and hope to get the best from it... but it's scary too

[Opinion Owner]

Most women use it as a good power dobt be afraid :)

[Asker]

oooh I don't know really. It hurts so bad when it happens tho... inside my head! lol *trembles in fear*

[Opinion Owner]

haha no no be relaxed!

[Asker]

Yeah I guess that's what both of us want. But the emotional manipulation and head pains are something I dread with all my heart.

Do you think this power is real or is it me who needs to get my emotions in order?

[Opinion Owner]

This power is just a fact of life, I think!

[Kalinda]

I have no idea what you're talking about... Except I think you said you think there's a dominant sex it's just not women.

[Asker]

no I didn't say it isn't women, I said I don't know who it is... if it even exists. Sorry for not explaining properly

[Kalinda]

RighT I undersatnd I just don't se why people talk about men and women, as if th u are two different armies waging war aginst watch othr with ine being the winner.

The fact you mentioned it at all indicates on some level you tHink ine is better. When we aren't even on opposite sides.

Also imthink the thing you described about someon affecting your feelings... That's not a womanly charm or the power of women. That's an affect hums have on each other. It's just a result of being connected to someoen and caring they automatically have influence. It's no differnt for women than for men.

[Kalinda]

And no I dont think less of a human being for being human. It's soemthimg id look for in apartner lol

[Kalinda]

Kind of a deal breaker if you lack it:p

[Asker]

The thing is that most women (like yourself) don't even realize the power they have over men and may not even want to believe it if you ask me. It's not a problem with me as a person, it's a gender thing. And no, men and women don't have the same brain.

I'm probably not convincing enough, I guess you'll find out your gift eventually

[Asker]

what's something you look for in a partner? Sorry I didn't follow

[Kalinda]

Being affected by other human beings dies not belong to any particukar sex. That's something that happens to everyone. It's human.

You asked what if I think men are weak bc they are affected by women. I said no I dont. It's human. . Humanity is something I look for in a partner.

As far as Womrn and men not having the same brain, no one has the " same" brain.

[Asker]

males and females have different brains. Everybody has known the common differences between men and women for ages and now there's scientific stuff to back it up... and it just keeps coming

[justbeinghonest]

I can get guys to move heavy things for me ^.^ and is not like I abuse my girl power. I just don't want to hurt my back.

[Asker]

lol. But what about my second question?

[justbeinghonest]

No, I actually think awesome from a guy when he is a gentleman like that

[Asker]

But if we are programmed in such a way that you have a huge if not total influence over us... doesn't that make us less than you, strictly speaking?

[justbeinghonest]

No. Because guys are powerful too. They just think better or "colder" why argue with a girl for example. She's just going to get upset and cry and get all crazy. Is not like at the end of life she's going to get better seat in heaven for having better score.

Guys just know how to let shit go. In a way that's more powerful than getting to boss people around.

[Asker]

Yeah guys seem to be superior in terms of intrapersonal stuff. Why do you say this power is greater though? Cuz I think the other one is far greater.

[justbeinghonest]

Controlling your emotions is hard to do. Moving heavy stuff around is easier.

[Asker]

lol :D Thanks. I love your power and I'm scared of it too... you know?

[justbeinghonest]

I'm not one of those bitchy women that manipulates men though.

[Asker]

But you can still do it and that's whats scary lol.

[ButterSauce]

I've never had the pleasure or displeasure of rejecting people. If i have any power over anyone then i must not see it!

[Asker]

sexual attraction only boosts that power, but it's certainly not restricted to that. It's a general "power" you have over us.

[ButterSauce]

I don't know, maybe it's am emotional thing. We can experience several emotions at one time while men only have the little country back road of emotion seldom traveled.

[Asker]

yes it's a purely emotional thing at its core. We have emotions just like you but we're better at hiding them.

[ButterSauce]

Well stop it

[Asker]

Social expectations...

[ButterSauce]

break the cycle

[Asker]

It's hard you know? Society is more powerful than women even over me..

[ButterSauce]

even over you lol indeed it is and men have more power than they know, a woman may have power over you because of sex, but once you get the sex you now have power over her... serious, unless you enter a long term relationship, then is about "how do i keep her? "

[Asker]

me as in, being a man, I mean lol. how do I have power after sex?

[ButterSauce]

It makes a woman vulnerable sometimes

[Asker]

vulnerable to what? Sorry I'm quite a bit of a noob

[ButterSauce]

Noob to what

[Asker]

male-female dynamics.

[ButterSauce]

Women are intuitive so tap into all that and you will understand.

[Asker]

into all what? How do I do this "tapping"?

[ButterSauce]

Lol, oh my...

[Asker]

I.. I...

I'm such a pathetic noob.

[ButterSauce]

I... I...
don't believe that

[Asker]

And the worst part is I sound like a manipulator.

[ButterSauce]

a bit

[Asker]

I'm really pathetic and awkward... with all the wrong vibes coming off me... but can you ignore that and explain please?

[ButterSauce]

Can you just message me and ask all those questions, i will keep your identity a secret Batman

[Asker]

Thanks sugar... I mean.. butter :P

[sonia1013201]

Ya I control my bf with my vagina n I proudly say I have vagina power. HAHAHA

[Victoria_xoxo]

Lolllllll

[Bandit74]

They only have power over weak men

[Asker]

If women don't have power over you're either gay or something's seriously wrong.

[James19]

Why? He may mean that in controlling sence.

[Anonymous]

Haha what power? I try not to use it because I don't want to seem mean or greedy

[Asker]

You can use it to BOOST a man's confidence and all sorts of good things.

[Anonymous]

Don't be pussy-whipped, don't lack a spine, don't be desperate for sex or any other desire, then no one can "control" you, dumbass.

[Bethany-Louise]

I use my girly charm at every chance I get haha.

[Asker]

for what?

[Asker]

does it make you think less of men?

[Bethany-Louise]

Not at all :)
For anything, helping with carrying things, getting my own way, making them come to my way of thinking.

[Asker]

Why not? I mean if you have power over something it's obviously "less" than you. Men may be smarter or whatever but those aren't the things that really count in life if you ask me... at least as much

[Asker]

*not as much

[Bethany-Louise]

Nah I don't think they're less than me.

Guys use their charm all the time, so we do it back.
:)

[Asker]

The amount of power women have over men is far greater than men's supposed power over women. Which doesn't even exist in my opinion, but I may be wrong

[Eva2015]

I have no idea were you're talking about.

[Asker]

hmmm.. ok

[Ihav2fart]

Pretty eyes, bewbs and vagina is all they need.

[Asker]

along with a female brain and hormones.

[Anonymous]

Only hot girls have power over men

[Asker]

no, it's a biological thing. But the sexually attractive ones have the most power, undoubtedly.

[Opinion Owner]

It's actually a court thing
Women only have power in court and media. But in some aspects men too
Everyone has their own power
Men won't do things for ugly women. Ugly women rebel then

[Asker]

I'm talking about inter-personal life. You can make us feel good, happy, sad, angry whatever it is... Even though we may not do things for ugly women they still have that emotional power. Of course we may not be affected by if we see that she's a real piece of SHIT

[Opinion Owner]

Men do things for women too. So this is pointless
Men do more. Just to get laid. Women are selfish by nature. Men are providers, finically and emotionally

[Asker]

Yeah we do a lot more but on the outside

[Asker]

internally I guess all we do is make you feel secure.

[Opinion Owner]

Well anyone has this power. so this is wrong

[Opinion Owner]

But men have more
They're the ones who go forward with marriage. A girl can beg and beg. It's really up to a man in the end. He can use a girl like a whore or treat her like a princess

[CoolBeans8]

whores get money. Women want money. And this is a big reason why women want to get married. The other reason is security.

The man just has the power to say whether he wants to becoming a permanent providing slave through marriage or not. That really isn't much power at all!

[Opinion Owner]

Wasn't that kind of my point