Can I tell if she likes me through text?

[Anonymous]

So there is this girl I like who I just got her number last week. Before that we've talked a little and stuff and we've been kinda friends. I asked my friend (who is her brother) her number and he gave it to me. When I first texted her I told her who I was. So far I have texted her several times and she's been responding. So by looking at her texts I don't know if she likes me or not. Her family just left for several monthes unfortunately :(, but I was lucky to get her number before then. So here are some conversations we have had and I wanna know if we can tell she likes me:
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Do you want to be friends? -me
Sure -her
Yay! -me
Lol! -her
So are we friends now -me
Ya -her
Are you sure -me
*yes -her
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Is it true you're leaving tomorrow? -me
Yeah:'( -her
No! My friends are leaving! -me
Ik! Its so sad! Imma miss you guys! -her
Same! -me
Your brother said me and everyone else can come over one more time! -me
Yay! -her
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Byeee -me
Byyyyyyyeeee! Is my mom taking you home -her
Im already home. I got picked up -me
Aw :( -her
Ya I thought I was gonna ride with everyone else but I guess didn't -me
Lame! -her
(this is not part of the converstaion but I don't know what she meant by "lame", so I wanna know if that was teasing or what)
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If you are leaving right now, good BYE! -me
GOODBYE CHILLIE WILLIE!! -her
(also not part of convo, but she gave a nickname for me, so could that show flirting?)
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So those were some conversations we have had. I know you probably can't tell much, but when we actaully seen each other she laughs at my jokes several times and smiles. She's a bit shy so she doesn't really flirt as often but she still kinda teases me when she has the chance. She's actaully a bit older than me, like 17. Pretty surprising, but we kinda have a thing going. I'm 14. She asked me to slow dance at a recent church dance :) So could we possibly have a connection with each other and keep in touch while she's away?

Can't tell through text

Seems like she likes me

Doesn't seem she likes me

[Balcazaurus]

You gotta feel the vibe in person. Texting just builds a romantisized version of the person in your head. It feels nice, but it's fake. If you can't click when physically together, then you're out of luck. Best not to get your hopes up and therefor waste your time getting invested because most of the time, they won't like you back. If anything, it's safer to assume you're not good enough for anyone. To believe it, actually. The more you put yourself down, the stronger the guarantee that no one will have interest in you. Can't get hurt if you kill your need for companionahip.

[Colombo555]

Bro... this is the most beta male post I have ever read through text? Have some balls and talk to her about it. Nowadays pretty much all girls text that way through text wether it's to their boyfriend and little brother. Text takes away emotion from everything. So no you can't tell

[Anonymous]

It definitely sounds more like a "just friends" conversation. However, it really is impossible to tell without knowing this girl. For all I know that could be way she flirts. To be honest its similar to my methods (which aren't very effective for the record!). If i were you i would send some more flirty messages such as telling her she's pretty ir something. See how she responds and maybe that will clue you in to what she thinks about you

[Anonymous]

She likes you as a friend, that's it. And when she said "lame!" that was her saying that he wished you could have rode home with everyone else. So that's a good thing. Calling you "chillin Willie" means you guys are close friends and maybe it's a bit of flirting but it mostly means you're just a chill guy.

[sailorjupiter]

i think she likes you as a friend, but chill, it's only a week
try to consistently texted her, ask her day, what she's doing bla2..
maybe she will feel something

im talking based on my experience, this is how i met my boyfriend
so good luck! ;)

[Ananchor]

Yeah it's super easy to tell if she likes you through texts. There's a definitive way to know!
Ask her out :P
Works every time!
Don't waste your time wondering. Ask her out, if she days yes,

[Ananchor]

-cont-
If she says yes- great
If no- then whatever you can syill be friends with her but you won't spend time wondering or building up feelings thinking she might possibly return them.
Always better to know

[katedepp32]

i think the way she texts is too friendly.
so, i suppose she's not into you in a flirty way.
but just to be sure, you have to examine her attitude face to face.

[username1988]

There is a great possibility she is in to you age is just a number and you two are not that far apart i say stay friends for a bit then a date you will know for sure after the date

[Anonymous]

focus on your academics you ignorant idiot... no wonder women are beating men in academics... under 18 and you are thinking more with your p@#$is than your small brain... buck up and 1st get a career

[Asker]

Im actually doing pretty well in school. I'm keeping my grades up as the time passes even though I text a little. I got silver principal's award for GPA above 3.5 unweighted. I just got accepted in the engineering magnet next year as well, and plan to go to college and study engineering for that career study area. I even got an email already from a college in new York saying they've seen my outstanding academic work in high school. So I am going a pretty decent way in my academics and for what I will do in my future. And by the way the girl I like is homeschooled and I only get to see her twice a week at church. And like I said in my post she will be gone for a while and we've texted several times but I don't seem to get COMPLETELY distracted the whole time.

[Asker]

And also how is this post getting so many responds? How are many people seeing this cuz it's been a few days since this was posted. Is this on feed or what I don't how

[Opinion Owner]

at least one thing is common u me both are in engineering... and bro forget about the girl focus on your career

[SteveHarvey]

If you called, like a real man, you'd be able to hear her tone of voice. I can't tell shit from this.

[jesi723]

You're 58, I'm 26, and we are reading the texts between a 14 year old and his crush - we shouldn't be able to tell shit from this! hahahaha You made my night.

[jesi723]

Kid, go with Steve Harvey and call her, like a man!

[imtoofab]

well, you did kinda put her in the friend zone with "do you wanna be friends?"

[Princesskittyxoxo]

Slight flirting but she could just be being friendly

[Anonymous]

No, she doesn't like you. She's just a social person and you seem quiet and shy and young. Don't spend time fantasizing or thinking about her, at best you're just another friend

[MargoJ]

I wouldn’t keep calling her a friend, if you do like her more than that... then calling her that continuously will give her the wrong idea and friend zone you

[Anonymous]

sounds like you are infatuated with this person but she sees you as just a buddy

[vampvamp]

It sounds like she takes u as a friend , just a friend so don't rush it and tell her u like her or smth cuz she'll think ur stupid and stop talking to you

[VioletCouple]

I thought it was possible right up until she called you "chilly willie." Done dude.

[Kaylatie]

Dood sounds like you have been friend zoned

[bryon]

And lame is a lot like saying it sux

[Anonymous]

its seems like a fiendly conversation.