Why do girls like to be dominated?

[redstar123123]

I would say that the vast majority of females that I have come across have liked to be dominated.

Why is this?

[Ozanne]

Depends what kind of domination we're talking about. If it's domination where sex is concerned, I think anyone in to domination - man or woman - likes it because it makes them feel like someone wants them so bad they are willing to throw them on the bed and have their way with them because they can't hold back. There is also a bizarre sense of power the other person has being dominated as they feel they have done something or look a certain way to trigger that sort of reaction. If you're talking about domination in the relationship in general, I have no idea what it's like because I have equal say with my husband and we run our household harmoniously together by taking the lead at different times when the situation calls for it. From what I've heard, some people do like to be dominated this way if they have stressful jobs where they have total power, such as working in the military or do police work, and just want to come home and have all of that power given to someone else.

[redstar123123]

Do you ever fight at home?

[Ozanne]

Hardly. And I wouldn't say "fight" is the right word. We'll have disagreements and get in a brief bad mood over things but we just aren't that kind of couple. Those times are few and far between. We very quickly snap out of anything where in my past a hurtful argument would have otherwise erupted.

[bang678]

In order to feel comfortable with a sub/dom relationship there has to be a lot of mutual trust. Also, i can see where being dominated might make someone feel protected.

Generally i think trust and security are aspects all people look for in a relationship.

[redstar123123]

yea, it's surprising... I've been to bondage clubs and watched girls getting tied up, suspended on rigs... and slapped around... then they hug and kiss the guy afterward...

[bang678]

I don't really know. Some people are into that stuff. Each at a variegated degree.

[Anonymous]

Both females and makes enjoy being dominated. It turns people on. Why? I'm not sure of the exact reason but it has to do with giving complete control to the other person, which allows you to completely let go of everything and just enjoy it.

[redstar123123]

I have never been suspended on a bondage rig before. Maybe I would like it. Lol. I should ask some girl to tie me up, suspend me, and slap me around. What do you think?

[Opinion Owner]

Haha I think that's all up to you. Do you enjoy being dominated? Or have you never tried it before?

[redstar123123]

Never tried it.

[Opinion Owner]

Well if you don't get aroused by being dominated then you could always try it but it might not be to your liking if you're not into that sort of thing. You could find that you really enjoy it though. Just make sure whoever you do it with that you trust them.

[redstar123123]

I know a bondage club I could go to. I just think it might be hard to find a girl to do it, rather than some guy.

[Opinion Owner]

You know a bondage club? Really? No, honestly I don't think it will be that hard. There are lots of girls into domination.

[redstar123123]

Yea they have people suspended on rigs. I just went and watched one time.

[Opinion Owner]

Whoa. Sounds intense. But did you really "just watch" ;)

[redstar123123]

yea...

[Opinion Owner]

What did you think of it?

[Riverock]

I think it's because back in the 'good old days' before civilisation, when mankind was first evolving into what we are today, women sought the strongest man as a mate so he could provide for them and look after their offspring. You see it all the time in other species (and we're no different than other animals, just more complicated, selfish and determined). Therefore they like strength and power in a man and this is communicated when he dominates them. They're attracted to a dominant man because evolution has hardwired them so that they find power attractive.

[Ozanne]

For some reason... this makes sense to me.

[Riverock]

@Ozanne Thanks.

All that was a generalisation but one based more on evolution than personal experience of 2 bad dates.

I think all that forms the basis for men worrying about the whole 'women prefer jerks' thing.

[Climber]

Girls don't like to be dominated. Some girls like domination in game or sex play and some like to be dominant. But in a relation, girls like to be treated as equal humans.

[redstar123123]

I meant in bed.

[Climber]

Thats the second part of my answer. If you think the majority is for domination, than maybe you attract or are attracted to girls who like domination. But my experience is more a 50/50 division.

[redstar123123]

I've met a lot of girls that like to be tied up, over powered, etc. etc... Banged hard against the wall. They generally like the submissive position in my experience.

[been_waiting]

Why?
I'm sure there's some evolutionary psychology at work.

[redstar123123]

That is exactly the answer I was looking for.

[been_waiting]

Oh yay

[idkwtftoputhere]

Because dominant men are masculine and they're asserting their strength. Sexual attraction is usually primal and you can't really change those desires. Lol

[coffeprince]

You shouldve included a poll asking girls and guys what they prefer lol

[redstar123123]

I think that guys that like to be dominated are a little weird... and maybe a little gay. All the guys I say on the bondage rigs at the bondage club were gay.

[coffeprince]

LOL! What? Well did you go to a club for homosexual? Or was it like a club for any sexual orientation?

[redstar123123]

for any.. and the only guys getting tie up were gay... the straight ones were doing the tying.

[coffeprince]

Well I think what happens in public is different than what goes on in the bedroom

[redstar123123]

maybe..

[datgirl]

If it were to be anything sexual... then I'd prefer the guy to be the more dominant one it just appeals to me more. As for like other things like if we were in a relationship I'd want it to be equal and respectful of each other opinions.

[Anonymous]

I don't like being dominated, my ex used to be very forceful in bed and it made me very uncomfortable

[redstar123123]

What do you like?

[Anonymous]

I don't know, it's annoying. I wish I could find a girl that likes to dominate guys for a change.

[Opinion Owner]

In bed I mean

[redstar123123]

Why?

[Opinion Owner]

It's hot.

[unicornsandglitter]

I prefer to be in control, thank you

[redstar123123]

Do you think you would enjoy to lose the control even for a second?

[unicornsandglitter]

never

[redstar123123]

why not/ What differs you from the girls that do?

[douride2]

This woman doesn't like to be dominated.

[Climber]

@douride2 : lol neither do I ;-)

[douride2]

LMAO hahaha Two guys down voted me because I'm not into being dominated. What the? ?

[adagiosky]

You might want to add dominated in what way?

[georgiaaaagirl]

don't like to be dominated.

[redstar123123]

well good for you.

[redstar123123]

What DO you like? do you give good head?

[georgiaaaagirl]

I guess so, lol.

[redstar123123]

Do you like giving head? What's your favorite part about it?

[georgiaaaagirl]

its alright & I don't know. do you like eating out girls? whats your fav part. ?

[Cowboy6666]

Female Dominates her husband in home... :D

[coffeprince]

Oh yea!!!

[redstar123123]

not my place.

[redstar123123]

not my place...