Hey guys so this question relates to my previous one in that its the same girl. We met up after I got her number and we hit it off well, texting back and forth and hanging out, she wanted to wait to have sex and that was ok by me. We had sex the third night we hung out then I dropped her off and wished her a good night.
After during that week her texts turn more and more boring so to speak. One word answers and no emojis anymore. So I asked her whats wrong are you mad at me and she told me that
I really like hanging out with you , but I dont want to lead me on or confuse you because when we hung out I felt super close to you and I dont know what to do because I have school soon
I told her Ill support her whatever she chooses and she says thanks. After that we dont talk but I break the silence telling her I miss her. because I saw her out the window of my gym. She was texting having a smoke on break She replied "hey, whats goin on" I waited to long to walk out and I missed her I tried to yell but she either didn't hear me or ignored me.
So later that day I ask my coworker about it and she said you should text again a final time telling her you want to see her again. So I did I told her I miss you and I would like to see you again. But If you do not want to thats fine too
Should I just never contact her again after this?, go try to see her at work and get a one on one? I went today to ask her sister (who works at subway in the same town) what the truth is about the situation but she is not in for another 2 days. Should I go and talk to her coworkers? I dont get why this chick went from full on liking me (she was planning road trips, complimented me all the time and flirted, made out etc) to no texting at all and ignoring me... What should I do GAGERS?
After during that week her texts turn more and more boring so to speak. One word answers and no emojis anymore. So I asked her whats wrong are you mad at me and she told me that
I really like hanging out with you , but I dont want to lead me on or confuse you because when we hung out I felt super close to you and I dont know what to do because I have school soon
I told her Ill support her whatever she chooses and she says thanks. After that we dont talk but I break the silence telling her I miss her. because I saw her out the window of my gym. She was texting having a smoke on break She replied "hey, whats goin on" I waited to long to walk out and I missed her I tried to yell but she either didn't hear me or ignored me.
So later that day I ask my coworker about it and she said you should text again a final time telling her you want to see her again. So I did I told her I miss you and I would like to see you again. But If you do not want to thats fine too
Should I just never contact her again after this?, go try to see her at work and get a one on one? I went today to ask her sister (who works at subway in the same town) what the truth is about the situation but she is not in for another 2 days. Should I go and talk to her coworkers? I dont get why this chick went from full on liking me (she was planning road trips, complimented me all the time and flirted, made out etc) to no texting at all and ignoring me... What should I do GAGERS?
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Was I being too nice? Needy? Why did the attraction turn off?
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