How do I know when a girl says "no" and means "yes"?

[grashopper]

A girl literally said it to me that when she said "no" she actually meant "yes" to see how much I would fight for her love.

How do I know when a girl says "no" and means "yes"?

[justbanANNAz]

good question lol.
did she seriously say that though? -.- good lawd.

i think it's more in the body language. like say u ask a girl, are u ok? she she says, 'I'm fine' while plastering this stupid smile on her face, u know something's up. if she's not being so... effortful, with her body language, then u know she means what she's saying.

u have to watch her eyes, her movements, how much she talks to u. i would prefer to just keep it real, but sometimes we r pretty vague, so yeah. hope that helps.

[grashopper]

Yes, she actually said that. She's 29. She also said a woman that's worth it is worth fighting for.

[justbanANNAz]

good lawd. she seems very demanding.

[grashopper]

Strangely enough she describes herself as "a little bit shy and quiet".

[Azara]

false. bad question. ridiculous answer.

no means NO. to bad if she gets off on saying no when she means yes. you can't go around taking no as yes. you'll wind up in jail.

[justbanANNAz]

LOL wow u COMPLETELY misunderstood the answer. good job. 😂😂😂 @azara
not my problem if he gets me and u dont.

[Azara]

no i did not. your answer is stating women can not be trusted to be honest therefore justifying guys who want to decide for themselves what 'no' means.

if a person says no you take it as no. if they dont mean what they say thats their problem. its their responsibility to be clear. it does not give anyone the permission to second guess no. i understood your response i just disagree with it. its cheap and cliche ' obnoxious at best amend potentially dangerous.

of cooperates he 'gets it' he wants an excuse to see no as yes.

[justbanANNAz]

1 month later...
if that's how u decided to interpret it, not my problem. so no u didn't understand my view at all. quit insisting u did. why the hell would i, as a woman, try to convey that we aren't to be trusted? like please use some bloody logic. @azara

[Sadly_It_Fell_Off]

Don't fall for that crap - "to see how much I would fight for her love". What is she 12?

Never ever assume that a girl means yes when she says no because in a court of law that shit will go against you. Always, always, always take the meaning of the word no in a literal sense.

[grashopper]

She's 29. lol

[Sadly_It_Fell_Off]

29? 29? Now I know she be crazy. Ruunnnnnnnnnnn son ! Save yourself. Just joking.

But she was winding you up a little bit and testing you to get a reaction out of you. Tread carefully with this one because she'll have you jumping through hoops of fire to keep proving shit.

[missjayne]

That girl needs to grow up. You need to look for a woman. Someone who won't play childish games.

[MarieLovesIt]

I have no idea... I don't play head games like that.

[BruceJender]

You need to constantly read between the lines with women, that's why they're so hard to read.

In most situations 'no' means just that.

[Azara]

dont be complicit in idiocy. just say no mreans no.

[tayoker]

Believe me man... if she said no just say ok... don't bother urself man. It's wasting of time. .

[Anonymous]

Assume no always means no.
Girls out here are crazy (some). Don't let her games get you hemmed up.

[ginnyweasley]

This is not middle school she needs to mature

[Omar5881]

Newton and Einstein wondered the same thing too

[Anonymous]

Just folllow your gut.