Girls would you date a guy who's a virgin?

[cchris989]

I watch a YouTube video where a guy asked a bunch of girls if they would date a virgin. Most of them said no because they figure he would lack experience, which to me seem counterintuitive especially if you want a guy that would commit to you. We where all virgins at one point so I don't see how you can discriminate against something you used to be.

Yes

No

[JSmuve]

Girls are funny like that. Those who want a dude with experience either

A) lack experience themselves so they want a guy who knows what he's doing and can teach her. Women and leading are like water and oil.

B) assume the guy is bad in the sack (see A)

C) don't wanna show him things (see A)

[ModernDayCrusader]

Girls want to get fucked like little whores, even the most religious ones turn into animals in the bedroom, the sooner you except this the easier your life will be.
They just want to get dicked down good.

Its not nice, but its the truth.

[thewanderingme]

not at my current age. I do wish I had started off with a virgin though. I never understood why other inexperienced girls assumed it was better to start with an experienced guy. I always thought it'd be nice to equally have firsts together.

[cchris989]

It's because being a virgin even as young as 14 is a bad thing so young girls associate being a virgin male with having bad sex, it as simple as that.

[thewanderingme]

no. maybe some do, but not all. and especially not at 14. I would have waited for another virgin if I hadn't assumed I was the only virgin over 18 left. and I've heard friends say they were happy their first times were with guys who were virgins too. though they had sex younger than I did

[cchris989]

I guess it depends where you grow up I find that in cities teenagers are more sexually active than ones in the suburbs, and my bases for that is seeing a lot more pregnant teenagers is when I travel to the city.

[thewanderingme]

no, its it the same, if not more in the burbs. people in areas with less to do have a lot more sex

[cchris989]

I'll live in the suburbs and trust me that there are way less pregnant teens than in the inner city. Girls in the suburbs are the ones that grow up wishing they had started a family earlier.

[thewanderingme]

maybe. but I also GRE up in the burbs, and knew a lot more girls having abortions, so I doubt their having less sex

[cchris989]

That's true I know a lot of girls that had abortions that live in the suburbs, and it would make sense that not many girls would abort there child that live in the city because it would be good way to get government assistance. Hmm the more you know huh

[Me_and_Myself]

I'm virgin + he's virgin= best match ever. But the most important thing it isn't the experience, but if he's a gentleman prince and if there's enough chemistry between the couple. ;-)

[cchris989]

I recently spoke to a girl who was a virgin that said she wanted a guy who wasn't a virgin :/ go figure

[Me_and_Myself]

Maybe she wanted a guy with more experience, to guide her better. I can understand also this point of view, but discovering each other for the first time is cute and romantic in my opinion.

[cchris989]

It's seem crazy to me that they want experience but also want him to stay with them for the rest of there lives. Why would someone thats been around the block stay with someone based on sexual intercourse. It just sound like a good way to set yourself up for failure.

[apple24]

No ):

[cchris989]

Please explain your reason

[99percentangel]

Honestly I'd happy if my future boyfriend was a virgin that means he's never been with amother girl. I'd respect him if he wanted to wait for the right purpose, but if he was a virgin just because he couldn't get laid but he wanted to I wouldn't date him.

[slimstiffy]

lol. can i screenshot this?
so if he's a virgin because he can't get women, then you wouldn't fuck him.
thats like saying you can't get hired because you dint have experience, but you dont get experirnce coz no one lets you work.
i know some guys who are on saving thrmselves ( they call that since they cabt really get any) and i just want to let them know its ok to fuck.

[99percentangel]

@slimstiffy what I meant is that if he was a virgin because something was wrong with him and no one else wanted to date him or fuck him I wouldn't really date him.

[99percentangel]

@slimstiffy and no I don't want you to screenshot this lol why?

[slimstiffy]

ahh too bad. ok im not gonna screenshot it, im a man of my word.
even tho overall im not the nicest guy.
thats what all girls assume. that a guy who is a virgin has some issues. in reality you can never know. a guy can only be bad if you try him. as far as virgin goes he could go either way. its like a box of chocolates. hou can't know for sure. guys have it a lot harder to get laid. we need to acquire skillz.
and its also why guys never tell girls that they are virgins

[Sara413]

No because it would just be weird... I'm friggin 30... I don't need to be teaching my boyfriend about the birds and the bees...

[cchris989]

Could it also be because women don't have sex with men but men have sex with women so because a man is responsible for your pleasure and his, it would make sense that you would want someone that knows how to please you because your just a hole he's filling.

[Sara413]

Haha spoken like a true virgin!

In a healthy sexual relationship, women aren't just passive receptacles for dick... we are active participants...

[cchris989]

Is that so? I got a question for you then. If a man and a women who are both virgins have sex who do you think is most likely to have an orgasm? I'll wait for you to rationalize how you think the world works.

[Sara413]

The man, because it's easier for a man to get off than a woman. Not seeing how that means women are passive dick receptacles with no role to play...

[Abe90]

Lmao uhhhh you're not teaching the guy about the birds and the bees. There's a difference between information about sex like when a teenager has questions and learning new moves hahahaha get your facts straight

[HaleyArnold]

@chris989, mean having a facilitated ability to orgasm does not mean that women participate or enjoy sex less than men.

I'll use your silly phrase against you "I'll wait for you to rationalize how you think the world works."

[cchris989]

I said that men are responsible for his orgasm and her orgasm, most guys don't know that stimulating the clit would make a girl reach an orgasm. Heterosexual sex is pretty much dependant on the guys knowledge of how to please them both, so that's why I said it would make sense why an older women like yourself wouldn't want a virgin. Logically speaking of course.

[BarbaraP]

@ asker You're going to be a virgin for a looong time

[cchris989]

Oh boy here come the virgin shaming, you girls are so predictable, I've noticed that you try to make the other person feel insecure when you feel threatened, would it surprise you that I'm actually married? Go ahead I'll wait for your other bully tactics.

[Sara413]

@Asker are you, a virgin, really gonna sit here and argue with two non virgins about how sex works? Lol that's rich.

I'm an active participant in the sexual activities my boyfriend and I engage it. He'll, there are times that I'm the one doing all the work!

It may be more difficult for a woman to get off than a man, but that in NO way means she's 100% dependent on HIM to get there... it's a joint effort.

[Sara413]

Still don't wanna have to teach him tho.

[cchris989]

Ok let's examine lesbian relationship for a second, did you know that lesbian like the idea of being with someone that's a virgin. Do you know why? Because its unexplored territory for them it's a challenge. But for you it's a chore, because as you said you don't want to be teaching him. But you fall to realize that you think this way because you see men as the dominant gender and as someone that should already know how to please you. That's all I'm saying why is this such a hard concept for you to grasp.

[BarbaraP]

It has nothing to do with men being the dominant gender. Last time I checked there were many guys who prefer experienced girls.
By the way, if you were talking about my comment, I was not shaming you for being a virgin (which apparently you're not). I actually voted yes

[Sara413]

Lesbians who are virgins have their own vaginas so there's a pretty good chance they j now what to do with one whether they have any experience or not lol

[Sara413]

Not sure why "both people have a role to play in sex" is such a difficult concept for you to grasp! Lol how is this even a thing to argue about?

Sorry your "wife" is a dead fish in the bedroom... but she isn't representative of an entire gender.

[cchris989]

If someone makes the statement "your going to be a virgin for a long time" 99% of people would see that as shaming language. Because that he's not skilled enough to seduce a women an get her to sleep with her. So I really don't see how that statement could be taken any other way.

[cchris989]

Ok you just prove my point and you didn't even realize it lol this why can't reason with a girl. You just said that lesbian virgins have there own vagina's so they would know what to do. Therefore virgin men don't have a vagina so it's stand to reason they would not know what to do right? So therefore you would not choose a man thats is a virgin because you don't want to teach him what to do in the bedroom right? So this means that he is responsible for your pleasure right? Now I can't make my argument any clearer than that, but I'm sure you'll still not grasp what I'm saying

[Sara413]

He has a fucking role to play, yes. Just like I do. Lol its seriously not that complicated, dude...

[Sara413]

Honestly, if I was a dude I wouldn't want a virgin at this age either. Same reasons.

[cchris989]

Lol that's how I know your delusional guy don't care if a girls is a virgin or not, we'd actually prefer if she wAs because most guys know that the more partners a girl has the more jaded she becomes.

That's why most guys go after younger girls but then again things might be different depending on where you live.

[Sara413]

Yes because you speak for all men lol

[cchris989]

Hey guys are pretty logical we do things for a reason, it's just a simple logic statement would a girl that's never been with a guy hate the way men treat her? How could she she's never been with one.

now if your suggesting that men don't tend to marry women younger than them then we are clearly living on two different planets.

[thatboye]

Well I have dated plenty and I am still a virgin. I guess some got fed up, and moved on, because I wouldn't give them some. It's whatever I am used to it.

[Katie2244]

virginity doesn't matter it's personality that counts :)

[AleDeEurope]

Most girls won't, only those religious or waiting till marriage will.

[RJGraveyTrain]

My current lover was a virgin when we began dating. It's a non-issue.

[Grace_Rdz]

I already have, but we didn't have sex so I don't really have much input on this.

[Chuhiya]

Yes because then we both will be naive when it comes to sexual experience. :-)

[ikissedtheskyonce]

Yes!!! If he is my type definitely

[AnayaWilliams]

Yes because I am a virgin myself

[cchris989]

That means nothing cause I posted question similar to this a girls who where virgins said they would like a guy with experience, so even virgin girls discriminate against virgin guys.

[Abe90]

It sounds like you're only looking to hear the word "no" from women. Even though she's really young, she still said yes which is working in your favor

[cchris989]

More than that. If they say no they should at least be willing to explain why so that men can understand why they feel that way.

[Hannah591]

I would and I have done. :)

[Bandit74]

Do you have a link to the video?

[cchris989]

Yeah but I'm using my phone and I don't know how to embed it

[Bandit74]

you don't have to embed it, just copy the url and then paste it.

[cchris989]

Can you still add a link to a video even after you made a post though?

[Bandit74]

yeah, post it as an update

[cchris989]

Ok I'll do it as soon as I get home.

[cchris989]

I have to have a higher level to post the video:/

[Anonymous]

No. They rather date a guy who slept with a bunch of women just because he has experience.

[poppunk]

I'd prefer one as a matter of fact.

[Katy16]

Yes, I already am. We're both virgins

[natralblack]

like would that be 5"and less or what

[moviedude714]

Was this a new video posted lately?

[Jessicocoa]

Yeah, I don't see why not.

[Anonymous]

Yes cause I'm virgin too

[Anonymous]

Why are women lying on this poll ol