How come women are a lot colder and calculative than men yet act like they are caring and more compassionate than men?

[Anonymous]

I mean if you've grown up with a sister you would know women can turn crying on and off at will and learn it from a young age. They can manipulate and create fake stories or false perception of themselves for people around them.

Women will do horrible things to people and then rationalize in her head that she is still a good person without remorse. Women will cheat on their SO, and keep it hidden and rationalize that it's ok because past is the past.

Women will dump you at a drop of a hat without a care in world and act like you are nothing afterward; they even do this to just friends.

All in all it's like they act like their emotional and caring but at end of the day give off the idea that they just don't give a fuck about anyone but themselves and their future children prospects. I mean it's pretty scary how they can go from LOVEY DOVEY to you don't mean anything to me in a split second. And I would like to know why is it women are like that? Is it evolutionary trait or just something that is recent with millenial generation?

Several guys these days have said that women in millennial generation are EXTREMELY SELFISH and want instant gratification than be supportive and I'm wondering if that has a part to play in the current behavior we see. It's almost sociopaths level.

[tarrycat]

Because women are emotional thinkers, & men are not. Ever heard the saying; "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned"? EXACTLY 😂. I agree 100% that women are by far more calculated, spiteful, cruel, & vindictive. Men are logical thinkers, & it's funny how a lot of women will think men are manipulative, when in reality, they aren't (majority). They are just being MEN. They think men are manipulative, because they are manipulative by nature themselves.

But look, there really are good women out there regardless; women who would do anything for the love of a man. We thrive on connection & emotion (estrogen) - that is what truly makes us happy, just like freedom & testosterone makes a man happy.

Is it wrong for women to be manipulative? Yes. Those types of women are either; a) Not yet fully developed, or b) They don't understand men, because when you understand men, you don't have to be cold & calculated.

[Anonymous]

King of like how men will say they love us to get in our pants, but disappear the second they get what they want?

[Asker]

Yeah kind of like those subset of guys women seem to always go for that are smooth talkers.

[Anonymous]

I love how you just seem to know things... and expect us to blindly take your word for it.

[StickStickity13]

I think it's for both genders, lots of guys can be heartless.