These inexperienced, virginal girls probably gravitate towards you because the see you as a guy that they can slow-boat their way into a relationship with, moving at their own pace with little fight or pressure from you. Women are predators just like men.
Some more so than others.
All it really takes is to be a little more assertive to either deter these types of girls, or change the way the approach you. Or attract an entirely different type of girl altogether.
It's not really about asserting any particular point either. It's just about saying "Hey girly, whatever puritan agenda you're trying to push, I'm prepared to push you in a completely different direction."
When you fail to assert your own agenda on a girl, you leave yourself open to become her toy.
To play her game in which she drags you around in no particular direction until she figures out what she wants with you. Your goal is to figure out what you want with her and go for it.
If you want nothing from her, or she's not giving you what you want, drop her. It's an aimless pursuit.
My attitude is that you attract the type of person depending on the approach you use. The way you behave will attract the type of girl who enjoys that behaviour, since I'm not you it will be hard for me to speculate but examining your approach is a start
You seem like a nice guy so you attract nice girls. If you are attracted to a certain type of girls, then look at the guys they're attracted to and see what changes you need to make
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Most US girls just want a typical guy. Anyone different just scares them really.
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