Aren't the standards of women too high?

[sfrdhftgujhgy]

I know some girls won't admit that but They all want handsome tall rich muscular hairless huge dicked guys Aren't these standards of women too high?

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[WavyWyx]

Apparently not, since the human race keeps on trucking. I mean, I think women's standards are kind of dark more than they're "too high". It's proven that the dark triad of personality traits: psychopathy (lack of empathy and uninhibited), narcissism (self-obsession), machiavellianism (being manipulative) are all considered abnormally attractive to women. Whereas traits such as intelligence, altruism and humility are considered "weak" and unattractive because they aren't masculine enough.
And of course, as a really good feminist will tell you, women need a tiered gender identity, because women are all individuals with no common features whatsoever. They will also acknowledge that men can have one too, just as long as those freakish, less-than-perfect men realize they will live their whole life alone and deserve every sorrow for being less than that sexy, chest-pounding alpha baboon. Because, let's face it, women can be whoever they want (non-sarcastically agree), but dammit if a man shouldn't act like a man, i. e. a selfish prick.
Women can't help it though. They're just attracted to traits that are "evil". Complaining won't change it. If you want to be accepted by women's standards start looking out for yourself all the time and throwing a tantrum every time you can't control every facet of your life (accepting there are things you can't control, previously defined as "wisdom and contentedness", has been re-worked by women into being a "passive, little bitch".) Basically, act like a fucking toddler and you'll match up with the average woman's desires just fine.

[deathstein]

to be fair most guys want a perfect hour glass figure, DDs, 0 waist, huge ass, thigh gap, high libido, etc. granted most want more or less of these but the majority love these girls. just remember that

[Anonymous]

Haha god, why do so many men on this website think this is the ideal man for a woman? This generalizing is getting boring.
Here's my two cents:
Tall? yes, but only because I'm tall.
Rich? Not bothered how much they earn, but they must be working (or looking for work) and have drive and ambition.
Muscular? Not compulsory. I like guys who aren't lazy, but I'm not after a health freak/gym junkie. I like to go hiking, so obviously I would like a guy to keep up. Skinny, or slightly chubby guys are fine unless they're morbidly obese which is fairly self explanatory due to health reasons.
Hairless? Hahaha no. A guy who shaves his legs? Really?
Huge Dicked? Honestly prefer guys who don't have some 9inch snake haha. but honestly, size isn't always an issue with me because it's what you do with it, which matters.
But like most women have said below, the most important thing is personality and chemistry. For fear of sounding like a hypocrite, the ugly truth is that I wouldn't date a morbidly obese man with a great personality and that reason is probably borne of my cave-woman biological instincts hahahah but I think nearly every human is hard-wired this way.

[Ramiro1992]

your standars are already too high, you better become lesbian

[Opinion Owner]

@Ramiro1992 No they're just to high for you ;)

[Ramiro1992]

No, because I would never date a egocentric woman like you

[Opinion Owner]

@Ramiro1992 And I would never date an aggressive immature idiot like you :D I think you should try yoga.

[Ramiro1992]

no thanks, bye you are disgusting

[Opinion Owner]

@Ramiro1992 that from you my dear, is a compliment :D

[Kirah]

"Tall? Yes, but only because I'm tall"

Why not date shorter guys? I don't understand why my female friends all think a guy should be taller than them.

[Opinion Owner]

@Kirah because I don't want to date shorter guys. I'm attracted to taller guys. Nuff said.

[Nadzzz]

Yes I have standards!
I am average tall so I don't want a short guy
I am fit and I take care of my body so I deserve someone who does the same
I want a dude with a big dick cause no girl wants a small one, I'm not gonna be the only one who does
I have expectations from life and I have a huge social circle so I don't want a basement dweller who has no friends and wasn't able to finish the university and get a fucking degree

I can't really call my standards "high" since I fulfill them myself.

[Geehjbffh]

If yku want a big dick do you have big boobs?

[Nadzzz]

@Geehjbffh my boobs average size
Not flat chest and not saggy either

[Geehjbffh]

oh you're average but you want above average contradiction

[Geehjbffh]

*above average dick

[Nadzzz]

@Geehjbffh are you one of the guys who prefers saggy boobs?
Hmm
Do you workout? If you don't then even if you had a 8 inch dick you're worthless

[Nadzzz]

@Geehjbffh and no I'm not average haha
Not even close
I'm way above that

[Geehjbffh]

you said you're boobs are average

[Nadzzz]

@Geehjbffh saying "boobs are average " and "boobs are average size" is two different things lol... if I'm talking to a 20 year old...

[Geehjbffh]

you don't get it I mean you're boobs are average but want an above average dick it's a contradiction did you get it?

[Geehjbffh]

your size is average but you want an above average size dick id you get it now? clear?

[Nadzzz]

@Geehjbffh seems like you're trying too hard to piss me off haha
What up? You don't fulfill my standards?
Its OK there are a lot others who love my boobs
Big is not always the most beautiful #mwah #imout

[Geehjbffh]

I didn't try to piss you off

[Nadzzz]

@Geehjbffh you sure?
Cause when someone takes a thread too long that's how it seems

[Geehjbffh]

yes it just silly to me being average size but wanting something above average and also you want someone who works out , has a degree etc.. I think standards of women are too high

[Geehjbffh]

I'm giving up on women

[Nadzzz]

@Geehjbffh Lol I'm just asking for someone equal to me

Sure go ahead

[RJGraveyTrain]

I think a tight vagina is more comparable than beasts because breaths don't impact the sensation of sex. Tightness does.

[RJGraveyTrain]

Breasts* I hate autocorrect

[Geehjbffh]

@RJGraveyTrain yeah standards of women are really too high I gave up

[Nadzzz]

@RJGraveyTrain #fuckyeah

[RJGraveyTrain]

@Geehjbffh Not all women but sorry to tell you dude but quit crying. Everyone has the right to standards so you have two choices: have no standards yourself so not to be contradictory in your own right or work in yourself and be appealing to date.

Or give up, whatever.

[Geehjbffh]

@RJGraveyTrain I gave up

[RJGraveyTrain]

Go for it dude

[Geehjbffh]

@RJGraveyTrain yeah I've decided to be an asexual madam

[RJGraveyTrain]

@Geehjbffh Again dude go for it lol.

[Geehjbffh]

@RJGraveyTrain it's becoming funny lol

[archiz]

@Geehjbffh i don t get it how boobs and dicks are related?
It s funny how sensitive dudes quickly jump on that as a defense like it even means anthng.

[archiz]

@RJGraveyTrain lol just saw you commented the same thing too 😂

[Nadzzz]

@Geehjbffh the more you keep the thread going the more I realize you have issues
I was just spending my finger calories to type these replies

[Geehjbffh]

@archiz because just like how a girl wants a big dick to get a visual pleasure guys want big boobs to get visual pleasure

[Geehjbffh]

what do you mean by issues I just think women have too high stantards and I worry I cannot meet them an I gave up on women because of it

[RJGraveyTrain]

@Geehjbffh Women actually prefer larger penises for the feeling not the visuals. Real talk: 6" is going to be more stimulating than 3". That's just how it is. Big boobs doesn't change the feeling of sex, it just adds visual appeal.

[Nadzzz]

@Geehjbffh not guys , you do and some others
Majority of guys I've had crushes on love average size boobs

Girls ! New trend! Saggy boobs? Umm okay

[Nadzzz]

@Geehjbffh instead of trying to fix yourself you decide to give up... that's not what a man does
Anyway.. you're just posses off you don't fulfill the high standards

[Geehjbffh]

I don't have any problem with average size boobs I just think big dick being muscular attractive tall rich hairless this is too much

[Geehjbffh]

you can never change your penis size , face etc.. these are the thing you're born with

[Nadzzz]

@Geehjbffh so i should look for an ugly, short, fat, small dick, hairy use, when I'm a fit , good looking and ambitious girl?
That's your logic?

[Geehjbffh]

no how about average penis and a bit hairy average tall average looking guy? but you don't do that girls always go for above average

[Nadzzz]

@Geehjbffh I'm gonna seek for my level
You seek for your level too

[RJGraveyTrain]

@Geehjbffh No offence dude but you can't choose peoples standards just because you don't measure up. Besides not all women have the same standards.

[Geehjbffh]

@RJGraveyTrain even ugly girls go for above average guys whatever.. ok I don't say anything I gave up that's all

[Geehjbffh]

sorry for pissing you off by the way I was kidding and all of my comments weren't serious

[eyeslikefire]

@Geehjbffh girl's don't just want a big dick for visual pleasure ahahah.

[Turkish_Delight]

1- I don't like rich guys they are narcisstic.
2- Height does not matter very much like unless he's a midget
3- since I'm not a world beauty I don't want a 10/10 looking guy.
4-Penis size does not matter unless its a micropenis.
5- Body hair is about cleansing, sure we want clean guys (does not have to be fully hairless but not like chewbacca)
6- Muscular? Still does not matter.
I think most girls think that way.

[sfrdhftgujhgy]

but there's a downvote from a gir she disagrees

[SlyBilly]

Maybe 20% think that way, huh women denying rich guys would be reaching a milestone, by the way u seem cute. And a girl disagreed with u and also no i have friends who ar rich and humble, and we do not use him as a tool

[Turkish_Delight]

@SlyBilly Dear guys, thank you all. But actually mean girls are popular and I'm a lonely nerdy person. The girl who downvoted is proly a gold digger.
And its also about culture. I think US/European women usually have high standards...

[Turkish_Delight]

Duh which guy downvoted 😅

[Anonymous]

Yes and no. I keep my standards as high as I can achieve. If I can't do those things, why should I expect him to do them?
However, some guys have really high standards for girls too. Like weight, career choice, etc. I think both genders can be really good about this or really bad. I think it's more the person then the gender who keeps standards too high.

[ImACowgirl]

Exactly.

[sedrftvgyhujik]

I agree I think some pepole definitly do set the bar too high, always thinking they can do better for some reason more so in big fast moving cities.

[ImACowgirl]

yeah. but they ain't even of a higher class or standard.

[sedrftvgyhujik]

@ImACowgirl maybe they think they are or they just think it's a numbers game.
They dont realise if they do find someone a lot better looking than them they're probly going to expect them to put way more into the relationship and they're going to know it's way easyer for them to find someone better so may even just be using them as a placeholder while they look for the perfect match.

[Opinion Owner]

@sedrftvgyhujik I feel like both guys and girls do that though. If I am speaking for myself here, I definitely don't use people as place holders UNLESS someone better comes along. But if I like a guy and no one better comes along- honestly, I will see him AS the best option. It's hard to explain, but he IS my number one until I am proven there is someone better. I just really put the guys I like on a pedastool I guess 😄

[Opinion Owner]

Haha why does my comment have two dislikes both from guys? You can answer honestly, I want to know where you disagree

[sedrftvgyhujik]

Both girls and guy do it I actually deliberately worded what i said gender impartially because of that.
"the best option" is part of what im talking about and id like to think i wouldn't do that but i might as well.
Also it tells you who likes something so you know the dislike wasn't me.

[Opinion Owner]

@sedrftvgyhujik yeah I was just wondering why they did dislike it in the first place 🤔

[Anonymous]

I agree they are too high. I don't want a rich guy, unless I'm as rich, becuase I'm to competetive. I don't want a guy who is better than me, because I have bad self esteem. Tall doesn't really matter. Being a bit short is actually a turn on since my first crush was very short xD And since I'm a virgin I don't want a huge dick, but of course it'll probably be once I'm older, i dunno. Anyway, I get attracted to what the appearances tells me about the personality of the dude. I know you think I'm just telling what everybody thinks I'm telling. But I ahve high standards when it comes to personality, and what appearances tell me.

[Opinion Owner]

It was suppose to be ebttter looking than me, not better than me xD

[curiousnorway]

It depends from women to women how high their standards are and both genders may have high standards. Some women wants these things you mentioned, but there are also many women who doesn't want these things or simply doesn't care about them. Many women doesn't care about the penis size for instance and thinks the personality is far more important. But most people from both genders wants a attractive looking partner with a nice personality.

[littleheartbigbooty]

I have standards. But truth is, every single guy I've ever liked for long periods of time never met my standards.
I dated this guy tho, tall, handsome, fit, rich, and he was the shittiest guy I've ever dated. So yeah, sure, some women set the bar too high, and in my mind the bar is high too, but in the real world I just fall for normal guys.

[Ramiro1992]

who cares about you

[littleheartbigbooty]

You know the point of this site is giving your opinion lmao

[Ramiro1992]

yeah but I have the right to destroy and hate your opinion if other people do the same with my opinions

[littleheartbigbooty]

If you have fun doing so you do you

[Anonymous]

No, if anything, the standards of women are too low. I see more women with losers than I do with the supposed men you have mentioned here. So no. 👎🏻

[SlyBilly]

Why are you even promoting to create relati8nship solely on looks and riches... g9ddamn u people

[Chanel1981]

So you are looking for an unattractive and/or unemployed girl? Or do you think men's standards are too high?

[SlyBilly]

Ill be honest, as long as they are not overweight i am fine, love, crushes, admiring has nothing to do with job or looks but the person itself, i would not say this but majority of the girls these days are shalloe

[SlyBilly]

Shallow*

[Chanel1981]

@SlyBilly so if you feel that way what makes you think women don't? At your age I dare say your experience is quite limited at best.

[kaylaS91]

... do you mean to say that we should all aim for scoring partners who have micro dicks, are unemployed, diagnosed with dwarfism, and have the same amount of body hair as a chimp?

[SlyBilly]

How about abit of mix and match, he is rich but short
Tall and handsome but poor
Immense amount of body ha8r, but tall and rich, - blabla u get the point

[kaylaS91]

@SlyBilly... the 'mixed match' is how most girls will actually approach the decision of whether or not they'll be interested in a guy or not. Honestly, the only place where I've seen/heard of women saying they'll ONLY be interested in a guy who is tall, muscular, rich, hairless (what in the fuck?), and 'huge dicked' is when reading the bitchfits of men on MGTOW-related forums/websites, as they complain about how it's 'all the women's fault' for having such unrealistically high standards. I've yet to see any woman who behaves/has standards like this in rl but..
I guess everyone creates their own reality, right? :)

[FallOutBoy2001]

@SlyBilly I agree, though I disagree that everyone wants the man oh described. I don't care about money, and height doesn't bother me. Muscular guys also kinda scare me (for some weird reason)

[Hippppo]

Well it's not too high standards. I view succeful man as inspiration for me to become better. Tall men yet compatible with my height. Muscular again yes because I am sport type too and I want share same hobbies with him. Most important thing is that they are loyal and intelligent that what I am looking for. I have met handsome tall rich muscular hairless huge dicked guys but they were manwhores who had empty head. I really hope i will meet right one 😀.

[TiffyPuff]

Women are far more reasonable than most guys will admit. I think most people are just lazy and don't want to put in the work necessary to improve themselves and become more attractive. Much easier to whine and say it's unfair than do work.

[HyperCynic]

no offense but this is probably the most ignorant statement You could have made on this subject.

[Anonymous]

Just like guys want big perky tits, tiny waist, flat stomach, wide hips, big rounded butt and long legs. She should also be half virgin and have sex like a porn star.

[SlyBilly]

May i let you know, all these can be achieved hrough exercise and diet? Execpt height? And come on, guys mainly look at only 1 or 2 features for fk sake, face/legs, body/face, tits, ass, fat/skinny, oh and mainly how they fkin dress... guys dont jeed over 10 features on a person to like them

[Opinion Owner]

@SlyBilly The only way to get bigger breasts is to gain weight and even then it might not affect them. It's the same thing for both, men can get those muscles too, no need to complain.

[Anonymous]

You forgot money lol..
and yes their standards are too high.. most girls i have come across won't consider a guy under even 5ft 10..
I've witnessed boys being teased for not being muscular and they prefer jerks and use the nice guys/friendzone them
Sorry if truth hurts

[SlyBilly]

Haha a girl downvoted cuz she not gonna admit whats true

[IsabelGuimaraes]

Just because they want it it doesn't mean they don't want other types. It's just a preference and not all women share it.

And i for example would feel uncomfortable with a man who looked way better than me and/ or who was rich.

[samhradh_leannan]

Both genders can have unrealistic or unreasonable standards at times.

[Bandit74]

Well most women can hookup with a guy like that if they want to. They may run into disappointment if they expect to have a guy like that commit to them though.

[RJGraveyTrain]

They're not too high if they can obtain them. If not then yeah, they're too high.

[Anonymous]

The only part I have a problem with is rich because if they want that, then they would leave if you ever lost your job.
I have most of the rest of those qualities, and I am very picky about who I would date too though.
Hairless though? That would be so weird. I'm not shaving my arms/legs.

[milamila]

We want handsome tall rich muscular hairless huge dicked guys who are funny, caring, respectful and intelligent :) but ain't it true that guys want a hirl who is 10/10 too? :')

[Mr-Kabuki]

yes they do

[Anonymous]

Women desire all different sorts of things in a partner, as do men. I think women are less caught up with the man having to be perfect physically. His being a genuinely good person is most important.

[SinghSong]

Indeed. They're far more caught up with the man having to be perfect financially, being able to provide them with every single thing that they want. His being a genuinely good person is the LEAST important thing of all to them, worse than worthless in their eyes.

[Opinion Owner]

Such a cynic.

[amabc]

Better to have high standards than to settle for someone you are unhappy with-- and then not be able to see others,

[Ramiro1992]

shut up you feminist lesbian

[eyeslikefire]

@Ramiro1992 haha butt hurt :D

[CoolSky01]

90% of these girls dont have the looks the personality or purity to score such guys so no worries its all fine they can dream