About a year and a half ago I asked the question "Is it ok to find a woman sexy" & tell her you think she is sexy, this is something a female gager said
She was so nice, & she said it was fine.
So a few months ago I asked a question on why a woman got mad because a man called her sexy.. This is what a different female gager said.
... Not so nice.. Things have changed
She said calling a woman sexy is basically whistling and objectifying her... & she said I called her a dog when I never even spoke to the woman but that's not the point.
So im confused is the word an insult or not Plus women call other women sexy all the time
A guy I found cute approached me. I smiled, until he uttered the word, "Hey sexy." Just no. I feel the guys don't even know what the word sexy means. I don't dress in a way that suggests I am trying to be seductive. So I don't see why in the world they would utter those words. The only person I would accept that word from is the person I would give my body to a. ka my husband.
I've had guys call me sexy and I have never once got offended. I see it as a compliment UNLESS he is being creepy about, for example if a random guy in a bar approaches me, invades my personal space, then stares at my chest while calling me sexy then I have a problem with it.
In normal conversation with my man, I'd rather be called beautiful than sexy. I wouldn't really like strangers calling me sexy either. But then again at the same time I wouldn't make a big deal about it.
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