Are innocent girls annoying?

Question

I'm an innocent girl. I'm a 21 year old virgin and I know the gist about sex, but not a lot of terms. But I hang out with mainly guys. So whenever a sexual joke or term comes up (which happens often) I usually won't get it. So if I care to get it and ask, they'll usually tell me to not worry about it. And then I sort of just feel stupid. At times it seems like guys that I flirt with will get a little frustrated with me because I don't see sexual undertones that they incorporate in their flirting. So I ask, are innocent girls annoying?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

While I use to be an innocent girl I found that dating has helped me with that. In a sense I do not believe being innocent is a good thing because you are more vulnerable and naive. As for sexual undertones in flirting, usually that is common sense by 21, unless you've been locked up in closet your whole life. Being innocent in BED, and being innocent with sexual terms and flirting in general is two different things. Personally I would say if you don't know much about sexual things you should start to educate yourself because your not a girl anymore your a woman. Sexuality is all over the world and if your missing out on terms at your age you will feel lost because at 21 many people have engaged in some sort of sexual talk. Like I said just because you familiarze with these terms does not mean you have to engage in them. But it will make your dating life a lot easier.

peace-love-couture · Accepted Answer

Yes.

At 21 there's nothing remotely attractive about a girl being completely ignorant about sex.It's ok that you're a virgin,most guys won't have a problem with that part of being innocent,but not knowing sexual terms or about human sexuality,that is pushing it to obnoxious,the point where it isn't cute or a turn on.I would be annoyed

kodabear112 · Accepted Answer

Okay when I looked at MOST of the girls answers they were all like YES ITS ANNOYING. Its probably becuase they wish they were innocent like you(:

noctum · Accepted Answer

Dont take it in the wrong way, but being inocent doenst mean being ignorant.. with the amount of info , even if sometimes misleading, avaible this days , you can inform yourself about must stuff .. ull still be inocent just not ignorant .

And being a virgin isn't really an excuse..

I never been in a gangbang, still I know perfectly what it is and how it works..even your freinds just cos they talk about it doenst mean they know what it is.. maybe even some of them are virgin too..

a non sexual example can also be... you know what skydive is ...even if you porbaly never tried it..

as I said in begining don't take this in a offensive way..

if you wanna know something just look for information about it

Maqic · Accepted Answer

I agree with you..Sex is not everything

Meedo · Answer

No I don't find innocent girls annoying. why should I ? and what's wrong with you bieng a virgin? and why d you think you have to get dirty jokes? and which type of man want to throw dirty jokes around a lady he admires or care about?!

if I am attracted to a girl and she is a virgin... and I determined she is the girl of my life... then I will even wait for her till marriage . and I don't care if she doesn't know any dirty words.

Subotai · Answer

Sort of, your 21.  I mean its not good to be too ignorant for your own sake, you should try to at least learn some of the terminology, I'm hoping somebody gave you a birds and bee talk, if not you might have to talk to a friend or do some online research, not good sources really but better than nothing.  I remember telling my totally flirtatious annoying but virgin girlfriend in high school I told her she gave me a boner, it was my slightly obnoxious response to her I'm ugly compliment fishing, and then having to explain what that was, before she asked a bunch of people like her parents lol.  It was annoying  because I had even caught her looking at my pants down there a few times.  I don't know I respect peoples rights to make their own decisions but "virgins" who seem to get off(if you know what that means lol)  on flirting and teasing guys are kinda hypocritical and yeah annoying.  not saying that's you

tigerguy · Answer

it depends if they take a joke to seriouly and or think its discussing or think its perverted when its only a job kind.

if you don't get it its fine, if you still have some jokes that people have said andyour unsure what they mean, add mew as a friend and I will tell you and show you the funny side of the jokes.

sexual jokes can be really funny depending how you hear them sound lol.

innocent shy girls I like because they are sweet but the disadvantage of them is we don't know how they will react to things as some of them can be quite emotionally fragile like if on a date if we try to kiss them or something we won't know if they will back off or want too.

Anonymous · Answer

Nothing wrong with being innocent, I like innocent girls. but guys may get little frustrated because they feel embarrased for telling a sex or suggestive joke that you don't get, and would feel even more stupid explaining it, so they tell you not to worry about it.

So don't worry, the guy probably feels more stupid then you might feel in that sort of situation lol. I used to really innocent, then I started watching more tv especially comedies and stand-ups and now I find sexual innuendos in everything lol

ITLSTL · Answer

Well honestly, it would depend on the chick, but my guess would be that they either don't find you attractive, or, they don't want to corrupt you. I really don't know, I don't think id find someone annoying for not knowing though, hell id probably find it kinda cute.

bobair · Answer

Nope, they're AWESOME!  Why? Because they're sweet, sincere, and mailable.  If your friends are too jerky to explain the meaning behind their sexual jokes, then find new friends. ~ Robby

Thiezz · Answer

You just answered your own question: "guys that I flirt with will get a little frustrated with me". It seems in your case people find it annoying.

If your guy friends often use words you don't get it might be worth to look up a few over here link . Careful though, what has been seen cannot be unseen ;-)

darkknight1x · Answer

Not at all. I would rather be with a innocent or goody-2-shoes woman rather than a slut. Sometimes I feel like I'm the only guy who goes for the innocent kind of woman like Ashley Tisdale, Cassadee Pope, or Valerie Poxleitner. I'm also a 21 year old virgin maybe we can go out sometime time. Where are you from?

joe91 · Answer

man...

difficult situation.

in this day and age because of the prevelence of sexuality, it is definately a predicament to maintain innocence.

one thing will always be certain: you are in control of whether or not you maintain that innocence and are ultimately the one who gets to decide if you want to leave that behind.

if at some point you feel that the frustration caused by being innocent outweighs the distaste of experiencing yourself sexually, then you may find it beneficial to step through that door.

good luck and I hope this was helpful.

:)

Dylan1989 · Answer

no, innocent girls are not annoying. I would definitely feel more comfortbale around an innocent girl seeing as I'm an innocent guy myself, and I'm 21 also. The only thing about an innocent girl that would be annoying would be if she was insecure with herself because of her innocence and felt like she had to follow the crowd and lose her virginity just to fit in with the crowd.

Anthonyonfacebook · Answer

You are not annoying, Just cause you don't understand or get your friends jokes does not mean your annoying. I think it's cool your chill about them making jokes. You must be a good friend

IAmAnon123 · Answer

I really like innocent girls, though I'm a virgin myself so that's probably why.

But if what your friends are doing is really upsetting you, ask them to stop. If they're your friend they'll understand; and I'm sure they don't find you annoying :)

socalgamehater2006 · Answer

I love innocent girls, mainly because I'm an innocent guy myself, I'm a 22 year old virgin guy, I would love to do it with a virgin girl because it would be more romantic and special

innocentplay · Answer

Innocent girls turn me on.  Especially when they trust me and want to be sexually curious.  Lots of foreplay with the lights on.  Most innocent girls have a bush too.  I think that is sexy.

MLauzon · Answer

Innocent girls are not annoying. You could learn some of the terms to understand what they are talking about if you feel that you need to laugh at their jokes. Otherwise, being innocent is perfectly okay.

GIntrovert · Answer

Guys who only want you for sex, will get annoyed with you.. this is a good thing, if you want a long term relationship.

wilcou · Answer

If they are huge prudes, then yes.  Otherwise, it's charming.  I love dating girls who are inexperienced (as long as they try).  Makes me feel like a pioneer, boo yeah!

mchase88 · Answer

As long as you do  not get emaressed or uncomfortable talking about sex than no innocent girls are very cute and I would prefer them to a slutty cold hearted bitch any day of the week.

OceanLover · Answer

no, I think innocent girls are the best :) but that might be cause I'm a pretty innocent guy haha.

Anonymous · Answer

Absolutely. Most are like- Waaaahhhh he wants to have sex with me. I really want to, but I'm too innocent. Waaaaahhh. Everyone is going to think I am a whore. Boo hoo.

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