I have been dating a girl for about 3 months and it's great, best I have ever had. It's long distance right now so that's hard for me and we text100x a day (literally) but in all this great talking, loving, friendship and fun she never asks me anything about my interests or past.
In the early days we talked about "this vs that" things all the time but it was largely me saying "Swings or Slide" and she would occasionally ask my opnion. At this point I know her favorite color, food, movie, TV show, painting ect. she has never asked about any of mine. We talk history but she asks laser focused questions and that is it for her interest.
My question is it is obvious she loves me (actions,words,acts) and I think the world of her but she is the first who has never gushed about me, been interested in my tastes or even curious about my industry (most of the time that's all girls want to talk about). Why? Why would you take the point of view that things like that will just make themselves known and never ask? It's one thing that is really confusing me about the greater and larger relationship?
In the early days we talked about "this vs that" things all the time but it was largely me saying "Swings or Slide" and she would occasionally ask my opnion. At this point I know her favorite color, food, movie, TV show, painting ect. she has never asked about any of mine. We talk history but she asks laser focused questions and that is it for her interest.
My question is it is obvious she loves me (actions,words,acts) and I think the world of her but she is the first who has never gushed about me, been interested in my tastes or even curious about my industry (most of the time that's all girls want to talk about). Why? Why would you take the point of view that things like that will just make themselves known and never ask? It's one thing that is really confusing me about the greater and larger relationship?
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