I JUST started dating a girl I like. She is only 20 and I'm in my late 20s. We've been talking for a few weeks. We then went on two dates. The... Show More
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I don't see the problem personally, she's not putting all her eggs in one basket but neither are you as your also dating other people from what I understand of it.
You have no right to be jealous or p*ssed because she's open about her other relationships where you aren't, she doesn't feel its needed to hide her relationships with others which is better then sneaking around or being dishonest about it in my opinion at least.
However I agree and can understand your concern that it isn't really facebook material and if your worried that you might get something similar happening to you or have your friends read messages like that while knowing they are dating you, it'll reflect badly on you, just tell her that your not comfortable with that before adding her on facebook or don't add her on facebook and explain to her why.
Avoiding someone doesn't make the problem go away, you'll need to figure out what you want from this girl and talk to her about it once you've figured that out.
-Either avoid her and completely ignore her, she'll feel used and you'll come off as the bad guy, which quite frankly you are.
-Either consider her as a possible FWB but then you'll have to live with the fact that you probably won't be her only one, as she's still dating other guys to get what she's looking for.
-Consider going exclusive with her if you believe there's a potential relationship that'll lead to something.
-Alternative option I haven't concidered yet.