What are some signs a girl is flirting with you/likes you?

[Anonymous]

I'm really attracted to this girl, I've gotten lots of signs from her (like flirting). One day wile I was talking to her, she was twirling her hair wile looking at me (she only did that once, probably only did it that moment because there was barely anyone around at the time), in class when I'm listening to her she will always look at me the most (not really looking at her friends), her shoulders and legs are always pointed towards me, even if she's across the room (I heard that was a sign a girl likes you).

I can feel a lot of sexual tension but I'm not sure if she feels the same way.

[oneforthetruth]

Yes, in body language terms, body parts can be used to point in the direction that the person would like to go in.

For example, if I am looking at you, but my feet, torso are pointing towards the door, the likely hood is that I want to be leaving through that door.

Men do it, I am a bit of a body language obsessor..i like to observe people..not in a weird way, I just find people fascinating...

But ok,

Eye contact, if she's shy, she will look at you, then look away, and then look back at you. If she's a bit more confident then she will stare into your eyes..and she will hold the gaze.

If she's shy, when she looks back the second time, then give her a smile...if she is the confident type, just stare back at her..but also remember to smile.

Preening herself. If you see her perfecting her hair, making herself look more appealling in someway, and you are in her direct line of sight..then this is a good sign.

Whether a confident or shy person, if when you talk to her she comes across a bit nervous, then this is a good sign to.

Plus which, and I can say this for 100% cause I do this, and I am the more confident type...if when you talk to her, see how much she actually pays attention to you.

When I like someone and they are talking, even if it is on football, which is something I couldn't careless about, I will still listen and my attention and focus will be totally on him...and it won't leave him...even if he stops talking, and someone else chimes in, for a few seconds after he's stopped talking, I will still have my focus on him..

Also watch out for the stomach being pulled in and her boobs being pushed out...doesn't matter which girl it is, if a girl should walk past you, and its obvious she is 'displaying' her goods...if you like, she defo into you.

[lost_soul]

Body language is fascinating :)

[oneforthetruth]

Love body language...it is actually, once you get the meaning of somethings, really easy to interpet.

[Anonymous]

If she is always looking at you. If she looks in your eyes when you guys talk. If she talks to you more then other guys. If she says Hi a lot. If she blushes around you. If she touches you lightly. When girls twirl their hair, that's also a sign. I actually did that once without knowing. I think it's a way to cope with nervousness. And when a guy and girl are talking, if they're feet are pointed towards you, it means their listening to everything you say, they're very attentive.

[Minimelhj]

I sub-consciously do this if she touches your arms or your legs if she plays with her hair if she smiles a lot(at you) if she sits close to you if she laughs at all your jokes if she play fights with you or plays with you eg. Footsies I hope this helps I sub-consciously do this alot

[PolySaccharide]

Not sure. One way to tell is to look at her legs. Most people don't think about how their legs are... If her legs open up (Knees point outward), she probably likes you, and they'll close if she's downright disgusted with you. Psychology.

...I'll leave you to figure out the scientific, evolution-wise meaning of this

[Asker]

So if they are crossed it means she's not interested? I thought that when a girl crosses her legs she does it to show off her thighs.

[PolySaccharide]

That's if they purposely cross their legs. If they close on their own (subconciously), they just don't like you. :P

[Asker]

I crossed my arms wile I was talking to a few girls I was interested in. Doesn't mean I'm not interested in them, it just feels more comfortable.

[PolySaccharide]

Comfortable would be leaning on one leg. What I mean is they'll open their legs a bit if they like you... like their feet will point out, they'll adopt a wider stance, etc. And they're more than likely not to notice this happening.

This one rule applies exclusively to females, by the way. Guys are easier to tell by the eyes. Their eyes will circle (survey the face) while talking to someone they like, and their behavior will change dramatically.

[oneforthetruth]

I don't agree with that sorry, girls don't tend to part their legs if they like a guy, I cross my legs, because it makes my legs look better..its not very lady like to sit with legs apart, so I wouldn't do that cause I may come off as masculine. Men however, will sit with their legs spread in order to give the girl a 'crotch' display. The wider the legs the more interested they are.

[PolySaccharide]

Of course you don't sit with your legs open. I meant standing. It applies to most standing people, watch them.

[Asker]

That's exactly what I thought oneforthetruth...