i have a bit of a soft stomach if you will, and he poked me and was like, "you should go to the gym and tone up, haha, I like a tight tummy". and to tell you the truth, it kinda hurt my feelings. I'm not fat, but I'm not super skinny either. did he mean it like he is disgusted by how I look? :/
he's probably not disgusted if he's still with you and having sex with you. He'd probably just find you more attractive if you toned up.
Is he built/in really good shape? If he's pudgy or flabby himself, he has no right to make those kind of demands to you, but if he takes care of his body he does have a bit more leeway to expect the same from his partner.
I don't think he's disgusted, but just saying that he'd ideally like you a bit firmer. You don't even have to go to the gym to tone your tummy. Just do a few situps every other day and you'll have a much flatter tum-tum in about a month or two. You'll probably like it, just as he will. :)
very rude to say that to someone. he has no tact. why does he think he can say these type of things to you like that? is he perfect? I wouldn't be pleased if a guy talked to me like that. look how it made you feel. shouldn't good boyfriends make you feel better when your with them, not bad? he's a doucheee
Honestly, I don't know how ya'lls relationship is or what not. But let me tell you something about my past. I had a boyfriend who started touching my stomach and saying such things like that. And then it got a little more serious that he would stand with me in front of a mirror and point out everything that could be toned down. He also in the end, ended up hitting me, pushing me and slapping me across the face twice. Ripped my shirt threw my belongings in a mud puddle. You need to be on the look out for your best interest. Not saying that this will happen to you, I'm just saying that if he's with you he should love you for what you are and what you have. Shouldn't want to change you. Esp if he's right for you. Good luck.