So I discovered GaG on March 2014 or so. Because I had a sex question and the site came up lol. I have had an account on GaG for about a year and have only recently started commenting. But there is something I have noticed on this site with respect to trends of what people think about a variety of things and the way people seem to be by the trends of questions and opinions...
This is definitely a generalisation post; it is just what I see a lot of and has stuck in my head and it could make life appear to be like this according to GaG ;) and I welcome those who agree with none, all or some to comment which ones they agree with and dont...etc :)
Also my opinions onthe points are included:
1) Some men secretly hate or dislike how much sexual 'power' women have
Or some men are very frustrated by women and how complicated we could be and to be honest I feel for them here (a tiny bit lol!). I myself have my own personal reasons why I have sex with a guy and why not and dont ever tell them to a guy. My friends have their own reasons and so forth therefore there is no hard and fast rule for why a girl may or may not have sex with you and I know that can frustrate guys but thats life and a longer discussion...
2) Little to noone on this site has sex without feelings
I see a lot of comments on this site from men and women that start off with, I dont have sex without feelings but if I did...This one always surprises me cause I thought most people did, especially men. So I have been enlightened in this respect unless they're lying...
3) More people are virgins than I thought, both men and women
When I started to look at this site I was a virgin and now I am not, LOL, dont know what that means...(it means nothing!)
4) Women really hate their boyfriends watching porn!
This surprises me almost as much as no. 2!! Mostly cause I thought it was known that men watch porn, before after and during a relationship/marriage. Maybe I am open minded because I have never been in a relationship and I watch porn often, but men will masturbate and watch porn from as soon as they find it to as soon as they die or no longer can. To be honest I thought women would too but now I am wondering otherwise...I say as long as it isn't child, gay or something hideously violent and he is still having sex with you why does it matter. Sexuality is way more of a personal thing than people think. I wouldn't share alll my personal sexual kinks or likes with a man I was with, cause not all needs to be revealed in a relationship.
5) People hate to hear a fat female refer to herself as curvy
Lets not dwell on this mess again, LOL.
6) Men are also looking at us (women)
To figure out if we like them, want them or are interested and even sometimes overthink as much as we do. It's cute but I do not envy them.
7) Looks matter a lot to people
I have found out this on this site, with all those how do I look am I hot questions. With descriptions such as ugly pretty etc. When in fact while looks matter, substance is important to love or like someone. Only shallow/foolish men are fooled by looks so much that they ignore substance and only shallow/foolish women date for money or looks or both who wants either of that. No one should be called ugly and no one should be told anything about their body unless you are a close personal friend or family and concerned about their health. They are some people who are objectively attractive by society's standards and those who are subjectively attractive to some people and both are beautiful to me! Anyways...
8) A lot of people accept homosexuality on Gag
Where I am from and how I grew up homosexuality is a sin and disgusting, but I think everyone's sexuality is their business and I think a gay person is a person like anyone else; I either like their personality or don't. Their sexuality is not my concern at all! I am sure I have one or two sexual preferences a man might find gross and I wouldn't want to be judged that harshly on them. This is an attitude I learned on my own through my experiences. Many of my family and friends think it an abomination. So I am always surprised by how many people all over the world accept it so much more than I am accustomed to.
9) SEX is important to EVERYONE!
Literally to everyone those having too little, too much or none, old young etc. doesn't matter. Even those who couldnt care much for it, because sex is life literally and that is true even outside of GaG.
10) Someone is always 'crushing' on someone at any given moment in time
A lot of crushes on this site
Lol anyways was gonna make it longer but who wants to read that much this is already too long and I got hungry along the way :P
Ao feel free to add to whatever this has turned into :D