The cheapskates who won't pay for dates are just weird. If I ask, I pay. That just seems logical to me. It would be the height of rudeness to ask her out, take her to my favorite, rather pricey restaurant and then ask for separate checks. The cost of the meal won't bother me, but for all I know it might blow her budget for the next month.
And the complaining about women and not getting dates is all over the web. Sites that allow posting are a venting place for guys like this, and I have gotten blocked for calling them out on their complaining and especially their absurd expectations. These guys have completely unrealistic views on how women should look and act in real life. Too much porn and too much Photoshop. I had one of these guys actually tell me that he thinks a 36DDD-24-36 body is pretty average. They are so delusional that they do/would bypass decent women are for not being ideal, when in reality less than.001% of women can meet that ideal.
Nicely done. :) By the way, that "Letter A is always followed by Letter B" thing you mention is what we nerds, geeks and dorks call "conditional branching."
1) I never let a girl pay if she's with me... at least haven't yet 2) I'm not bitter with women... I love them instead 3) I'm not at all insecure... I don't like labelling things so I don't use words like sluts or whore for any girl Anyways Nice take 👌 Applies on some guys on here
Good thing I am not like that and I try to put unbiased responses whenever I can. But honestly I see these things in BOTH genders on this site and its both sad. I will never be like them because I simply have enough respect for women not to. Good read though.
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I guess I'm a little of 2 and 3. I'm bitter but I don't blame women at all. I'm just bitter about how the universe works. I can't really relate to any of your example comments though. I don't have a negative opinion of women like that.
I mostly lived life basically how Andy Stitzer said "I respect women. I love women. I respect them so much that I completely stay away from them." in the 40 year old virgin. I know some people argue that is fear of women rather than respect and they might be right but eh.
another take to make women look better on the hopes of helping their low self esteem nice try at least in the same time i see some gag women doing things that is considered blashphemy like -how to be man -on the first date he should pay focus on should like some right -i have a pussy meaning im a higher being -why all the gentelman went -equality in everything but not when its more suitable for women -and the biggest issue : a girl asks a guy out he rejects her what an asshole hypocrisy is over 9000
Men wouldn't sit around and tell a woman this or show these views to them in the flesh. The first exposure I've had to comments mentioned above are on this site. What a eye opener for me.
regarding your last point, I have defended promiscuous behavior from women in general, and you are right that some or a lot of them would slut it up if they could. My problem and I can only speak for myself is that women, in spite of my mistakes, my bitterness to some women is not that they are getting laid all the time, its that they only give a chance to a certain group of men. I think her judgement is arbitrary. In my experience they seems that its of little help that I am good looking and athletic if am a nice guy. If they like so much getting laid why dont they give a chance to a decent looking guy, educated, who has the courage to approach unless you are a total jerk?
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Thank you lol, if half of the dudes on here would man up, and realise that they are the problem, the world would be full of a lot less bullshitting. Stop acting all bitter, and all "poor me, a woman was once mean to me, therefore every last one of them is evil". Some women are assholes, so are some men. People don't like to date assholes. See the common thread?
Common courtesy is a sham. I open doors, next thing I know I'm the fucking doorman. It's my fault, I was going out of my way to be nice to strangers when they were perfectly capable. Why wouldn't they walk all over me. What am I gonna open doors now in the hopes that some door fetish woman is waiting on the sidewalk. Jesus
1. It's not that a guy asked the woman to accompany him out it's that the majority of the time a guy will HAVE to ask to the woman to accompany him out. I wouldn't mind as much, but sometimes I don't want to do something that I have to do.
2. Good point, but wouldn't women also get bitter under similar circumstances?
That's why I pull the plug sooner and sooner with women. If they're gonna start pulling the same crap as last time, I'm gonna assert myself sooner, and say: "No!" And I'll tell them why not. Even if they don't deserve an explanation.
Yeah, so blatantly obvious they're on here mostly just to complain and cry about their lives... (Not all, of course, definitely not all. I'd say it's 60/40... in favor of being bitter and rude.)
Solid take. Glad I'm not like that... SORT OF. I'm kind of like on an edge here I think but I'm also not too sure about myself because I don't really care :>
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The cheapskates who won't pay for dates are just weird. If I ask, I pay. That just seems logical to me. It would be the height of rudeness to ask her out, take her to my favorite, rather pricey restaurant and then ask for separate checks. The cost of the meal won't bother me, but for all I know it might blow her budget for the next month.
And the complaining about women and not getting dates is all over the web. Sites that allow posting are a venting place for guys like this, and I have gotten blocked for calling them out on their complaining and especially their absurd expectations. These guys have completely unrealistic views on how women should look and act in real life. Too much porn and too much Photoshop. I had one of these guys actually tell me that he thinks a 36DDD-24-36 body is pretty average. They are so delusional that they do/would bypass decent women are for not being ideal, when in reality less than.001% of women can meet that ideal.
Nicely done. :) By the way, that "Letter A is always followed by Letter B" thing you mention is what we nerds, geeks and dorks call "conditional branching."
Conditional branching? I learned a new term today :)
1) I never let a girl pay if she's with me... at least haven't yet
2) I'm not bitter with women... I love them instead
3) I'm not at all insecure... I don't like labelling things so I don't use words like sluts or whore for any girl
Anyways
Nice take 👌
Applies on some guys on here
Good thing I am not like that and I try to put unbiased responses whenever I can. But honestly I see these things in BOTH genders on this site and its both sad. I will never be like them because I simply have enough respect for women not to. Good read though.
I guess I'm a little of 2 and 3. I'm bitter but I don't blame women at all. I'm just bitter about how the universe works. I can't really relate to any of your example comments though. I don't have a negative opinion of women like that.
I mostly lived life basically how Andy Stitzer said "I respect women. I love women. I respect them so much that I completely stay away from them." in the 40 year old virgin. I know some people argue that is fear of women rather than respect and they might be right but eh.
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to make women look better on the hopes of helping their low self esteem nice try at least
in the same time i see some gag women doing things that is considered blashphemy like
-how to be man
-on the first date he should pay focus on should like some right
-i have a pussy meaning im a higher being
-why all the gentelman went
-equality in everything but not when its more suitable for women
-and the biggest issue : a girl asks a guy out he rejects her what an asshole
hypocrisy is over 9000
WOW... there are some butt hurt guys on here. You must of hit a nerve. Great Take by the way...
Thanks!
Yep, they're exactly who I am talking about on here.
This isn't just GAG men, this is a lot of men. Thankfully they aren't the majority.. Good Mytake
Men wouldn't sit around and tell a woman this or show these views to them in the flesh. The first exposure I've had to comments mentioned above are on this site. What a eye opener for me.
regarding your last point, I have defended promiscuous behavior from women in general, and you are right that some or a lot of them would slut it up if they could. My problem and I can only speak for myself is that women, in spite of my mistakes, my bitterness to some women is not that they are getting laid all the time, its that they only give a chance to a certain group of men. I think her judgement is arbitrary. In my experience they seems that its of little help that I am good looking and athletic if am a nice guy. If they like so much getting laid why dont they give a chance to a decent looking guy, educated, who has the courage to approach unless you are a total jerk?
Thank you lol, if half of the dudes on here would man up, and realise that they are the problem, the world would be full of a lot less bullshitting. Stop acting all bitter, and all "poor me, a woman was once mean to me, therefore every last one of them is evil". Some women are assholes, so are some men. People don't like to date assholes. See the common thread?
Common courtesy is a sham. I open doors, next thing I know I'm the fucking doorman. It's my fault, I was going out of my way to be nice to strangers when they were perfectly capable. Why wouldn't they walk all over me. What am I gonna open doors now in the hopes that some door fetish woman is waiting on the sidewalk. Jesus
Rest is true doe
I'm glad I'm not like some GAG men. Like just because I'm insecure about myself, I don't make comments like that about women.
1. It's not that a guy asked the woman to accompany him out it's that the majority of the time a guy will HAVE to ask to the woman to accompany him out. I wouldn't mind as much, but sometimes I don't want to do something that I have to do.
2. Good point, but wouldn't women also get bitter under similar circumstances?
3. I'm secure about my insecurity :P
With a generation raised without the family as the strong central point of society, does it really surprise you many think like this?
A family in chaos is a society in chaos.
That's why I pull the plug sooner and sooner with women. If they're gonna start pulling the same crap as last time, I'm gonna assert myself sooner, and say: "No!" And I'll tell them why not. Even if they don't deserve an explanation.
Could someone tag that Bobby guy for me for this take?
Yeah, so blatantly obvious they're on here mostly just to complain and cry about their lives... (Not all, of course, definitely not all. I'd say it's 60/40... in favor of being bitter and rude.)
Solid take.
Glad I'm not like that... SORT OF. I'm kind of like on an edge here I think but I'm also not too sure about myself because I don't really care :>
Anyway, yeah, the bitter misogynists have it.
Very valid points, but I still stand by my opinion to either split the bill, or pay for what you ordered.
Great take. It's pathetic how guys on here are talking about splitting the bill to save 10 bucks. Hahahahaha.