He was being defensive because you came across as attacking him. Those sweet little reminders when someone is indulging only come across as nasty to the recipient. He is aggressively defending himself because he felt vulnerable.
Don't take it too personally. He is going to feel self conscious and that will make him more sensitive to criticism. If he wasn't happy with your body he'd made it clear with physical signs not sudden outbursts after what he felt was a dig.
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A sarcastic remark in reply to a missunderstood teasing. that's what i'd guess it is. At least unless he doesn't repeat it.
He is just reacting to your comment. Maybe next time just be a little more sensitive about his weight. Just remember guys are sensitive too.
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He's probably more upset with himself for letting himself go, and you sort of called him out on it, so he externalizes it and attacks you instead of saying "holy cow, you're right, this is my third cupcake."
Maybe you can encourage him to join you at the gym sometime soon?He probably didn't like you criticizing his eating habits and is throwing it back at you.
look i hav two opinons he cares about your health and wants u to be healthy second i feel he looks to u as a body not for the prsonaliity
What a dick I can't believe he said that to you. That is way too much of an escalation from what you said. Also 5'4" 118lbs is perfect body weight.
Let me get this straight you told him to be careful for eating a cupcake? But yet you only went out with him because he had a 8 pack? See the hypocritical statement there.
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