Why do guys say " go talk to your side niggas" in a relationship?

[isaaaaa]

Well I don't know. like ig me & my boyfriend argue for no reason & he always says " go talk to your side niggas" which I don't have? & I told him that & he still doesn't bealive me? & he either says "okay " or " stop lying" & then sometimes he says " bye" to me & when I was mad I said "bye " then he put crying faces saying "no ! :( " but this Is my question why do some guys say that in a relationship?

[YvngQueen]

He clearly doesn't trust you and he's insecure. Trust is an important factor in a relationship. If he's saying these things to you that's disrespectful tell him don't talk to you like that. The way he says "Go talk to your side niggas" shows his immaturity. If i were you i'd get a better more mature boyfriend. He also might be trying to make you feel guilty and diminish your confidence somehow so you can crawl back to him more and show weakness by apoligizing and telling him how much you love him boosting his ego.

[godfatherfan]

Because your a child and boys your age are ignorant morons. Or your dating black guys. or wiggers... basically dont expect much to change unless you change the kind of guy you go after. Try nerds... They will treat you the best of anyone. I don't know what qualifies as a nerd these days. When I was in school it was anyone into computers and getting good grades...

[dazedandconfused22]

Lol agreed

[godfatherfan]

aka... me at that age... lol... I would have treated any woman like a friggin queen...

[Anonymous]

The guy sounds like a real winner...

Basically, he doesn't believe you. Honestly thinks all women cheat with multiple men. Just... ugh, you get the point.

Have some respect for yourself and look for higher quality men to date.

[rthomas43]

I'd suggest you not date anyone that frequently uses the word "nigga".

[mistninja314]

im black and i agree with this message LOLOLOL