when you look at yourself in the mirror, you are the only one who sees what you see, when your husband looks at you he sees someone different, when i see the woman i love i still see her the she was when we first met, i know she i just an average looking woman, nothing anyone would call very beautiful yet when i look at her i see the most beautiful woman i have ever seen, she has stretch marks, small breasts that are not perfect shape after two kids, her ass is getting bigger, there are parts of her that she would love to change, if i could one thing, i would show her what she looks like through my eyes, i wouldn't change a thing if i had all the money in the world to do so, to me she is perfect. maybe your husband feels about you the way i do about her
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can't you just accept that he doesn't care about boobs because he loves the shit out of you? holy fuck
bee-tee-dubs im not being mean :D incase you thought otherwise hahaa
I am truly stunned by all the positive and supportive male replies here. Way to go, guys; very nice.
I don't personally think you should get any lift job, chances are things will tighten up with the removal of the skin anyway.
I think he knows the real you that you refuse to accept.
He loves you in your skin & finds you terribly attractive.
Stop demeaning yourself based on an unrealistic concept as we all age & things happen.
A but C has merits
plenty of positions that make any breast attractive enough to add to his hardness
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What you may consider to be sagging breasts may just be perfectly normal breasts that don't match your idea of what they should be.
Also, you've got to realise that no matter what the media says guys don't all necessarily like the same thing.
And... you are his wife. That probably (and should) means he loves you. When you love someone you love everything about them and that includes little 'imperfections'.You've got a keeper. Obviously I'm young so I haven't experienced it yet, but there's something beautiful about growing old with the woman you love, and even though her body isn't the same as it was, it's still beautiful.
Do what you think is right. Just know that a man loves the woman, not whatever her body turns into over time. They still remember you from the beginning.
My wife says the same thing - "God made you blind to the real me." Together almost thirty years.
Getting old is not for amateurs. :)Yes, most men and nearly all women prefer perky breasts to sagging. However, you should remember that as a straight man your husband is attracted to your feminity. In the same way that you likely prefer a small hard dick to a falcid one or a vagina, right? Sheer masculinity is better than disinterest or feminity.
That having been said it is probably true that he would be most turned on by lingerie of other support that presented your assets in the best possible lightAs we age, we become more mature and appreciate the important things. He's committed to you.. Evidently, you've treated him well and he respects that. He appreciates you nursed his kids and gives you credit for that. You have a keeper.. don't analyze.
I vote A.
As we get older, both men and women will have body issues that outsiders may find "unattractive", but if the couple loved each other to begin with, and still love each other, then those things won't matter. A woman's breasts may sag, a man's penis may shrivel, both may get all wrinkly and spotty, but if you love each other that's all that matters.I really wanted to vote A but since we're incapable of thinking about anything (let alone about the transcendence of love) when our girls are naked in front of us, I'll go with C.
Thats like asking how can a man be attracted to his wife when she gets wrinkly...
Contrary to popular belief our love goes beyond the physical attraction...If I am going to be honest it depends how saggy they are I don't mind if her breasts are a little bit saggy, but to the extreme I would be turned off I wouldn't leave my wife though I would help her lose the weight naturally.
C, definitely describes things.
When sex isn't great, I'm more aware that I could land someone younger. When things are good, I'm happy.If a perfect body is all that matters then don't get married unless it's to a manaquin. It the only way to avoid this problem
I prefer large, sagging breasts. The size, and weight, coupled with inevitable sagging, is just amazing. Sagging breasts are particularly sexy when they bounce around during sex, or when they just dangle, asking to be caressed and gently squeezed.
I actually prefer saggy breasts, I think they are the sexiest kind of breast. I like nothing better than to see a girl take her bra off, and see a droopy pair of breasts fall out and sag to her waist line.
As long as the woman is great, sagging breasts aren't a big deal.
As long as the sex is great, sagging breasts aren't a big deal.A woman is not her breasts.
You love a woman. I've never heard a man being in love with his wife's breasts.given your age OP this is a oddly childish and superficial thing to ask
Shagy bagy doesn't matter. But I don't think he thinks actualy it as beauty but he loves you and makes it pretty becouse you make him happy
It's rather exciting infact seeing your wife's body change in front of you.
She has gone through so much for the family it wouldn't matter the least if her breasts sag as she grows older.Never getting married. Not good with commitment.
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