Why are men so mean to pretty women?

[Anonymous]

im pretty and men are ONLY mean to me and try to dominate me.. im also really nice and kind.. and laid back..
instead of guys being nice to me- theyre rude or try to dominate me. most treat me like im weird or call me a weirdo..
im hot, bombshell kind.. then they try to call me crazy... in a nutshell, im smart, pretty funny laid back
down to earth... just really cool and nice. rather than think.. wow im meeting this aewsome girl...
they treat me REALLY weird.. like they'll STARE at me oddly then try to jump in my space, act creepy or
starting pointing in my direction and getting in my space. i get kind of freaked out... then they act weirder
then they call me weird or crazy.. can someone explain why males are calling hot pretty women weird or names
and trying to bring them down..

i have a friend who goes through the same thing and she's really hot too- she says guys make fun of her and laugh at her... what is wrong with these weirdos. she can be a b*tch but in general she's not. however im not a b*tch at all and most men will say im really nice. heck some guys have said im amazing and still treat me like crap...
why are they so mean? why do they just want to dominate and bring down the super hot women

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also what if these women do accept the guys--theyre still mean to them.. why is that? I've fooled around with guys who then try to treat me like crap.. is it an ego thing?

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some women look at me squinty eyed.. like grrr.. just staring at me angrily.. ok fine but lots of men do it... they look at me.. analyzing me.. staring like they hate me.. or they jump in my space and get rude it's weird.. some do it automatically.. the minute they see or encounter me they just treat me like crap.. it's scary.. its like they just treat every pretty girl this way.. i dont get it..

[Applefan1]

Firstly looks are not everything, a woman has to have a great personality to go with her looks too but it looks like you have both already. The problem is us men run into so many very attractive women that have terrible personalities. Women that think the world revolves around them, Women that even go as far as pretty much throwing tantrums when they don't get their way. These women make other good looking women look bad. Guys experience this so often with really good looking women that they start to think it is the way all good looking women act. I know people should not generalise but when you keep having repeated experiences it is hard not to. Then on top of this we see lots of women ignoring the nice, kind and caring guy and going strait into the arms of the jerk time and time. We even see the same women that keep going back to a guy they know very well is a jerk and will break their heart. This makes guys think to get a girlfriend we have to be mean and treat women like crap. I am not trying to be offensive in anyway but this is what we see and this is why we act the way we do.

[Asker]

Oh ok and that's a good explanation as well thanks. It makes sense I mean. It seems like so men are purposely doing this thinking well I need to treat her like crap to get her? Or. Maybe it's a combination of screw her she's probably a bltch so also to get her let me treat her like dirt and they're bitter too. Either way maybe a lot of things are going on in their head. Totally crazy :)

[Applefan1]

Yeah men tend to look at very attractive women and think "she is really attractive but I won't bother because she is probably a bitch". I am not saying that you are as I don't even know you but just saying what men tend to think. They see woman after woman running to guys that are jerks. So they think to get a woman I have to become a jerk and that is why they start acting mean and nasty. With some men it can be they are little bit bitter and frustrated to. There is a massive understanding between men and women in the dating world.

[Applefan1]

So it is mostly the actions of these other women that make men act in this way. Repeat experiences of women going for jerks and good looking women treating them badly. Men also think about things and have things going on in their heads much more than many women realise.

[Asker]

yes i guess that's what they do--but I've been treated badly by men and i dont go around treating them badly..

i just had a horrid date, where the stupid moronic guy refused to order me a beer b/c i didn't have an id.. it was absurd and nuts. it seems he just wanted to piss me off. he treated me as if i was scamming him for a beer.. it was so crazy and then i left... then later he asked me if i was an undercover cop... something is wrong with these weirdo sick guys

[Asker]

i can't believe a guy was treating me like something bad was happening.. it was so weird. im in my 30's and he didn't believe me and kept asking me to prove it to him.. i think he was just messing around.. to be a jerk.. these guys are just crazy..

[what_the_hell]

Cry me a river with your tears... boo hoo. Most good looking women I met are actually some of the biggest sweethearts, its the male gender that gets cocky when they are even remotely attractive. They walk around like they are Greek Gods.

[thisguy1234]

Maybe since you are really attractive they have the mentality that women who are really hot only like guys who are dicks, since they get hit on all the time. With the getting in your space thing, they are probably just trying to act different so they can get your attention and try to sleep with you. With the dominating thing they probably just have big egos and think that's what you would like. Since some girls who are really hot do tend to go for the guys who fit that description.

[Asker]

oh... lol... that makes sense.. it's so weird that's how guys would act but it does kind of fit the situation... they just act raelly weird and it makes no sense but ur right maybe theyre trying to get attention... what a bunch of losers thanks

[thisguy1234]

Anytime, It is really hard to approach a girl who is a 10 out of 10. It is like damn, what do I do to show that I am better than everyone else. Hope you find a nice guy though.

[Asker]

really.. it's just so weird, b/c i dont see certain people as numbers.. me especially.. im too laid back. i dont wear make up.. i dress kind of.. whatever... i dont get how anyone can call me a 10.. i think it's silly people think that way.

[thisguy1234]

Go you for not having to wear make up, and having guys hit on you like that. That is a great thing to be laid back, makes life easier. sounds like you just need some dude to be nice to you and you'll be golden. Its just human nature to put random traits into something numerical/quantitative.

[Anonymous]

Why do you keep posting your " I'm so beautiful, all men hate me" bullshit every few days? Honestly, give it a rest. Your so full of yourself. Post your picture so we all can see just how beautiful you are. Your attitude in general is ridiculous. And the minute anyone says something that doesn't align with your rants, you act like your 2 and go off on a cussing tirad. Stop trolling.

[Opinion Owner]

You're so predictable. Classic response. Reacted just as you always do. Your problem is that you don't want advice, you want attention. And by posting the same question once a week for months tells me you couldn't care less about advice.

[Opinion Owner]

You do realize that you just keep proving my point, don't you?

[Anonymous]

Maybe they never grown out of that elementary school stage of poking/being mean/picking on the girl they like.

Hard to say without knowing both sides of the story.

[complicated_soul]

It is not just looks. Your personality counts as well

That doesn't justify their actions. They are just ignorants I suppose

[YusiBear]

I say a man that harasses or degrades a woman and does not treat a woman with any respect is no man at all!
It is truly unfortunate how you are treated however I assure you not all men are like this. Think of it like this, a predator suck as a lion will hunt for it's prey. The guys you encounter are simply animalistic and see you as a piece of meat. A player for lack of a better word will assert himself because his life devolves around sex where as a nice guy will stay to himself.

[YusiBear]

*such and *revolves... auto correct it to blame.

[Asker]

that's true.. definitely so true thanks.. its just that i dont know if they treat other women this way? some do but not all.. they seem to towards me b/c im pretty.. or maybe they are just jerks b/c theyre doing this to certain women

[YusiBear]

If they treat you badly they'll treat others badly, its in their nature.

[Asker]

that's true-- also some of them just tend to treat pretty women badly- women like me.. and they'll be nice to others but im sure there are women they are rude too as well

[YusiBear]

Is like when kids are in school, the boys are mean or pick on the girls they like.

[Love2Jackit]

That's easy by being mean 2 pretty women. It makes the man feel like he's in charge. A pretty woman ha a way of intimidating a man. By him being mean it makes her feel like shit. Which means she starts 2 think and wonder if she is really as pretty as she thinks.

[RationalMale]

because girls teach us that's how to succeed with women.

[Asker]

so theyre mean b/c they think they can get a girl this way?

[RationalMale]

they're mean because past experience tells them that's how to get women, yes.

[cth96190]

Sounds to me as though you have been associating with the wrong sort of men.
Courtesy and civility should be extended to everyone, until they provide a reason to be treated otherwise.

[Anonymous]

Because some of them are self entitled so they want to bring them down a peg or too. That, or bitterness; because they're out of their league! loooool

[Watermelonoma]

you sound a little too pristine. I'm sure some guys are just assholes, but you butter yourself up too much for me to take this 100% seriously, if im being honest. I mean conventional wisdom would tell you that most guys are overly nice to pretty women because they are looking to get laid. They aren't looking to get on your bad side generally, and most would bend over backwards for you if you were as pristine as your bio here so, i kinda feel like there are pieces missing in this puzzle

[Asker]

nope... they are super mean to me... even give me dirty squinty eyed looks like they hate me and most haven't even talked to me.. i dont get it

[what_the_hell]

Lol not true... most guys know that guys are simp for hot girls so they are leveling the playing field by not giving hot girls attentions to "put her in her place."

[Anonymous]

Don't feed the troll.
Don't feed the troll.
Don't feed the troll.

[SunshineAmy]

Aww, she downed your comment herself!

[Anonymous]

I'm not mean to pretty women, but lots of men are, because they are either stupid patriarchists & religious bigots, or pathetic incel & mgtow.

[Klaatu51]

hahhaha mean coz they cannot have e, m!! :D

[ClauseViter]

If u smash urself in the face with a door then you'll be ugly and guys won't be mean to you. Your welcome :) :)

[Asker]

you sound sick.. get help freak... thats a sick thing to say to just a random preson for no reason.. you have issues sicko

[ClauseViter]

1. I'm definitely not a sick person
2. I'm making a ploit to overemphasive how ridiculous ur question is. Guys aren't being mean to you because ur hot they're mean to you cause they see how you carry yourself in a social situation. You think your own self worth is blatantly higher than those around you and so u deserve special attention.

[Jessy12]

Geez, he was just trying to lift up your spirit and make a joke! Hence the two smileys at the end. Maybe that's why guys call you weird, because you are hyper-sensitive and overreact? Think about it.

[ClauseViter]

Aren't you quite the sweet girl suggesting I shoot myself. Well im gonna politely decline. But basically no one of a stable mental state would ever overreact this insanely so this confirms my belief that ur a lunatic.

[ClauseViter]

@Jessy12 yea those were exactly my intentions I dunno why she flipped script.

[Jessy12]

Listen, if you are as kind and nice and laid back as you claim to be in your post, then you really shouldn't freak out like this over a comment from a 17-year old... YOU are an adult, I'd suggest you act like one...

[Asker]

u tell someone to smash themself and say they need to act like an adult? you're mental.. sick.. get lost sicko

[Jessy12]

Keep going asker, I find you really entertaining. This is better than any comedy show :D

[Asker]

i feel sorry for you--that u find it entertaining to insult others online.. ur a sociopath... get lost u psycho.. pitiful weirdo

[Jessy12]

LOL LOL LOL awesome! What else you got?

[Anonymous]

its just how they are.

[JSmuve]

Uh huh... fillerrrrrrrrr

[Anonymous]

I dont believe anything that you just typed

[idkwtftoputhere]

How many times have you posted this questiom?

[idkwtftoputhere]

Question*** frickkk

[gray_sailor]

Not less than once a week for the last 5 months.
Usually more often than that.

[idkwtftoputhere]

@gray_sailor
No wonder I felt like I read this before... Lol

[Asker]

noticing repeat posts only means ur a pathetic pitiful no life LOSER with nothing better to do than sit on gag all day reading postings.. total trash...

[Ashari]

and the other pitiful loser posting same thing again and again...

[idkwtftoputhere]

Yes, asker, you seem mentally stable.