What does it mean when a guy has a 'No Relationship info to show" On his about me on Facebook?

[Anonymous]

Guy i like, facebook picture is of himself only, and his facebook super private and shows if " No Relationship info to show" But shows only his town/city he likes in.
one girl on his friends list has a picture of guy and her as her profile picture. Not really a couply picture. And her facebook doesn't show her "Relationship section either. and im not friends with her so her 'Relationship" Things private, but she has pictures with a few different guys in her photos

Soooo do u think they are in a relationship? not in a relationship?
Why is his profile picture of just him and not both?
Could they just be best friends?

And is there a way to ask wether he's in a relationship but it not be weird or too forward about it?

[matheus_mb]

This remembers me something I saw weeks ago. No relationship status, she had pictures with a guy that could be friendly or more than friendly... but according to the comments they were together. So, try to pay attention to the comments, to the indirect details that you may find more information.

[Asker]

There was no comments under the pictures. The only one i saw when i dug deeper was "Cuties" From a random person soooooo...

[matheus_mb]

Maybe a sign that they're together, but let's not say they are, you still need more details and ways to find out what you want.

[Asker]

Okay, and what are some ways to find out

[matheus_mb]

That's the problem. You can try to get the information by talking to him, but not asking directly, just create a situation that he'll have to say it. People don't need to talk about a specific thing to give an information if you manage to lead the conversation to the point that you want. And things don't have to be tense either, he can give you the information laughing, thinking that it's no big deal. It's not difficult to do it actually.

But if you don't talk to him, then we got a problem. Perhaps you should know someone, who knows someone... who will know it.

[Asker]

Well he's told me private information before... like Parents divorcing. where he's gone to school, what he's into (Math and history) where /town he lives in. I just dont want to make it awkward between us like i want him to tell me.

I dont know how to slip it into a conversation where it won't be awkward and he will admit it...

[matheus_mb]

You can joke about your single life, for example, as if it's no big deal. And then "casually" ask tell him: "I don't know if you know how it feels" or "You know what I'm talking about, right?". A normal, casual question about the thing you were joking about, but this question can give you the information you want. You can do stuff like that, but don't overuse the method or it may get suspicious.

[Asker]

could i be like oh "new years is gonna suck because im single this year? or i was gonna say "Oh did u get any good gifts what did Your (Fast) Mom/Sister/Girlfriend/Dad get you?

or should i be more subtle?

[matheus_mb]

Yes, you could do it, but not all of a sudden. Start taking about the New Year, develop the topic a little more, then say it. It'll sound more natural. And if you mention the girlfriend and he answers, follow the conversation normally, don't seem to care about it.

[Asker]

What if he deflects or doesn't give straight answer?

[matheus_mb]

Don't push it, try to find another opportunity in the future. Patience is required.

[Asker]

I think im gonna ask how his Christmas was / ask him so hey doing anything fun for New Years?

[matheus_mb]

Yes, it sounds like a normal question and normal thing to talk about at this time in the year.

[Asker]

What else can I ask/ find to see if he has a gf?

Should I ask if he has fb? ( I know he does but I don't know if he adds coworkers...)

[matheus_mb]

I don't know if there's an exact answer for this... whatever won't make him get suspicious can be used and it must always be part of the context of a conversation.

[matheus_mb]

Oh, yeah, asking if he has fb is something you can do.

[Asker]

How can I do the "Being single sucks" talk with him without sounding annoying and complaining? Like I wanna say I'm depressed/street (Ireally am) but mnot make him annoyed with me

[matheus_mb]

Sorry, I didn't answer before, I was traveling. Well, try to say it in a humorous way, I think it can work.

[AnonKuma]

Sounds like they are just best friends. It's up to his preference to set what his profile picture should be so :P.

You can just ask around through friends/people or gossip/rumors if the people around you do that kind of stuff

[Cmasterson]

Im afraid you'll never know unless you ask or have proof of photos of them together acting more than friendly. personally when I did have Facebook I never put my relationship to show!

[Pyrofox]

Bff sister friend

[Asker]

Not his sister, I've seen his sisters she deff not it.

[Pyrofox]

I'm saying a friend who's close enough to be considered one I have 2 of those.

[Pyrofox]

Friends you could mistake as my adoptive sisters cause we greet each other like we're family

[Asker]

Maybe... but im not sure

[Pyrofox]

Well I have 4 niece's thanks to those sister like friends..