It's no secret that people can be mean. Unfortunately, this guy you know has decided to make fun of your height every time he sees you. Not only does he point out how short you are, but he also makes fun of your weight. Ouch.
There are a few possible explanations for why this guy might be making fun of you. Maybe he's insecure about his own height and is using you as a way to make himself feel better. Or, maybe he's just a jerk who gets off on making other people feel bad.
Either way, it's not cool and you don't deserve to be treated like this. The next time he says something, try to stand up for yourself. calmly tell him that his comments are hurtful and that you'd appreciate it if he stopped. If he doesn't listen or backs down, then you might want to reconsider spending time with someone who is so insensitive.
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Making fun of a girl's height is ultimate small pp energy in my opinion. Funny thing is guys who are tall (6ft and above) actually never make fun of my height and even say stuff like 'that's not too short' or sth like that. It's ALWAYS the average height to short guys that are like 'omg ur so short haha' like my ex was around 5'7" he said sth like that. My current boyfriend is 6'2" and although he likes short girls because he finds the height difference cute, he has also never said anything like 'omg ur such a shortie'. I'm 5'2.5".
First of all; Your height is PERFECT! I'm trying to date a girl right now who is a lot like you. As to 'him'... Does he say it playfully/jokingly, or like mean/hurtful?
He finds it adorable, and is hoping you're impressed with how big and strong he is.
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There is nothing wrong with your height! In fact you should be happy about it because men in general are more attracted to shorter girls then to tall girl!
If you have a good relationship with that guy then I have no doubt that he is just being silly without meaning it in a negative way. He is just joking arround with you!
I have lots of female friends and I also sometimes like to make fun of them but it's never meant as something serious or that there is something wrong with them! They can also make fun of me as much as they want... and we laugh together about making fun of me 😂😂
Just so you know... if the connection with a friend isn't really close enough yet, I will never make fun of them because it might be harming their feelings.
I only make fun of girls with who I'm very close with! So in your case you should see it as something positive that he jokes with you because it will mean he feels comfortable when he is with you. It's actually a good sign that your friendschip is very good 🙏Maybe you need a short husband like me, I am a big dwarf.
He's flirting, he wants to play wit your fun size azz in more ways than one
it's is his way of saying he likes you; he is too shy to just say... "Damn girl, you are so pretty, petite and sexy"
I don't know why he's making fun of you but Alexa Bliss is 5' of fury and can seriously kick a in the ring. She went to high school with my boss
Because he's an idiot, but tell him to knock it off.
Because it makes him feel bigger and stronger
It’s just a joke
Don’t take it personally smhIt's my nature. You flirt with me, I ridicule you.
He likes you
He fancies you.
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