This is meant to be fun, but also informative. A lot the things we do, we tend to do partially for ourselves but also to attract a mate. And some things we think are attractive on ourselves, some members of the opposite gender do not. And I mean something people can't help. So skin color and acne and height don't apply. It has to be something they try to do intentionally.
So, for example, I hate six packs. Seriously. I don't know why, but to me, they're gross and not cute. You have muscles? Awesome. I already knew that since, you know, you're a man. But for some reason, six packs really gross me out. Don't really get why some men want them. Don't get me wrong, I like abs on a man, just not so many. Like the photo below is too much for me. I know he technically has what could be an 8 pack, but even if it was 6, it turns me off for some reason.
That, and guys who workout every muscle except their legs. End up looking like Johnny Bravo.
It can be anything from make up and fashion trends to body image.
What physical feature/fashion trend does the opposite gender think looks good on themselves that you do not?
Leggings. I think they make women look absolutely horrible and I don't understand why anyone would wear them. You know how sausages are made (meat being squeezed into a pig intestine that looks a bit like a condom)? That's exactly what leggings make girls look like... it literally makes them look like a sausage. Now, I'm Swiss and just like the Germans, we love sausages. But when girls look like sausages, that's not a good thing. And no, it doesn't matter whether they're overweight or skinny. It just doesn't look nice.
Another thing I find quite unattractive are those really thin negligées that young women like to wear in the summer. They're usually too long and go all the way to their thighs and sometimes one shoulder is free. Being lightly (or even nude) doesn't bother me at all... it's just this particular piece of clothing. It looks a bit like a night gown and... I can't quite pinpoint it but I don't find it pretty. I'd much rather have a girl wear a simple t-shirt or - even better - a shirt. Shirts look awesome on girls :-).
Finally, I don't like high heels for a number of reasons. I get annoyed by their loud clacking sound at public places and I feel like they make women look unnecessarily cocky/arrogant (especially if they're paired with dark sunglasses). Of course women can dress however they please but if you think of yourself as starlet, I'd rather not get to know you.
lol even high waisted skirts? cdn-images.prettylittlething.com/.../..._5main.jpg Skirts tend to look odd on women if they're not high waist. High waist pants tend to only suit one body type, and majority of people are not that body type lol thats why it looks so bad.
I like fresh shaved guys or with beard but not this something in between. Especially it looks horrible on brown haired men. It looks dirty to me and gives an impression of a guy who does not even shower or otherwise care for himself.
2. And this low cut male shirts.. it is just disgusting. If you aren't gay what are you trying to achieve with this outfit? Looks like some sleazy guy who wants to sell himself and drag attention but that really doesn't work on me (I wonder if on any woman)
Moustaches, too much beard in general, chest &/belly hair, baggy jeans, pants that are literally down to their knees, having their underwear pulled up further than the actual pants so it sticks out, too much muscle, eyebrows that are way too bushy for their faces because they think it makes them look manly while in actuality it just looks odd lmao, deep neck t-shirts or tops, vans & converse (absolutely hate those shoes!! It's the ultimate way to repel me), anything with too much pattern or color, anything of poor quality, tight fitting t-shirts or any top of stretchy fabric, the list goes on and on an on hahaha
I haaaaaaaate hairy guys. It's just really discusting to me. I used to date this guy who literally had like 3 inch long armpit hair and it was sooo gross. I mean some hair is fine, but if you look like a gorilla then nope.
Omg... Sagging pants are just so stupid. I hate them. Like get a belt. Please.
I guess I find like super super short hair is sorta unattractive, I mean, some guys can pull it off, but most of the time no. I hope this was helpful! 🤗 It was so fun ranting actually 😂😂
watch out for this one guy who keeps on asking whether we mind super hairy men. And god forbid you tell him to wax or laser or shave. Brace yourself for a shitstorm!
Saggy pants showing their underwear, front-to-back caps on their heads, one shiny earring... anything "swag" just looks stupid in my opinion. Oh and spitting on the streets and smoking are not cool.
My little brother is 13 and goes with all the terrible fasion trends. I can't wait for him to see his mistakes...
I agree. You can do that when you're 14 and want to dream of being a big tough scary hip hop guy. When you're 20 and you still do it, it's just ghettoish and tasteless.
Ohhhhhhhhhhh.. I think I have seen that in some profile pictures. I always thought it was something non-serious. So they really think it's a fashion? WTF !!! Ughhhh.
@HaveNoName It's not fashion in the clothing sense. It's fashionable in the all-the-cool-kids-are-doing-it sense. I don't know, maybe we're just old, but being a "dog" was not something any girl aspired to when we were that age.
-Trashy Piercings. (Anywhere but ears) -Female Tattoos. (Anywhere at all) -Skin tight clothes, see through clothes, slutty (over exposure) clothes. (Yeah it might look good on a fraction of women, but NOT the majority who wear it.) - Big girls dressing like tiny girls. - Dark makeup - Athletic wear used as a general outfit - Fake body parts. - Smoking - Long ghetto fingernails - Pixie / Short hair cuts. - Freak colored hair.
Yes, long list, but there is an equally long one for my own gender as well. Generally... if you look like trash, you usually are trash.
I dislike very glamourous looks copied off celebrities big hair, make up and lots of bling. How come when I try to keep a low profile, people still spot me, Ugh the trials of being famous furrierstlouis.files.wordpress.com/.../...end.jpeg
Hair that's shaved on the sides, and long at the top of the head. This is like the favorite hairstyle of today's men all over the world as it seems, but I just think they look like ridiculous birds or paradise... only more boring.
How come? But anyway I just think it look ridiculous. I don't really care that much about hair style or anything but this is one of those that annoys me to look at. In school a really arrogant kid has it and it just looked silly. Sorta like the barber forgot to shave the rest.
Man buns Piercings but especially spacers Pants that are too short paired with tie up shoes with no socks (so hipster) Guys who use tablets as cameras Sweat pants in public (unless you've just ducked out for some milk) Wearing chunky jewellery
I think a lot of the piercings and tattoos girls get they really think make them look better. I know everyone has their own tastes as to what looks good, but when I see some of these girls with all this hardware stuck through their faces and tattoos (who are otherwise attractive girls) I sometimes think: "Why did they do that to themselves?"
Crew cuts Super long hair Piercings Tattoos Moustache Too much muscle Long beard Saggy pants Jewelry Super colorful clothes Shirts with v necks or flowery design
- Short hair (short enough exposing the back of the neck) - Shoes that cover the feet; typically, boots and those court shoes (heels and otherwise). - Super long nails (typically those fake ones that the lethergic cashiers use). Oh and I hate those pointed witch nails too. Ughhhh...
The trashy fake eyebrow / winged-eyeliner Kardashian/Amy Winehouse look. It needs to go... now. This generation is way too obsessed about their eyebrows and, if they are not careful, they will pay a terrible life-long price for their self-mutilation.
Oh, and septum piercings. If I wanted to date a girl with a septum piercing, I'd date a cow.
@Autumn-Bunny and in 7 years you will be looking at pictures of yourself asking "What was I thinking?" It's so funny watching young people have those moments.
Red. I hate red on a guy. Skinny jeans or jeans with rips on... Just no guys. Low cut v-neck t-shirt that they wear to show off the tops of their six packs. Leather jackets: used to love leather jackets but they've become so cliche it hurts.
Breast implants. A lot of women still don't understand that many of us men prefer them small. If I had a wife or girlfriend who said she wanted to get implants I'd consider getting a court order to keep her 100 feet from any surgeon.
Nail polish and long nails. I'm guessing 95% of men don't give a flyin' fig newton about what a woman's nails look like.
Men with top knots (dude, just get a haircut!!)... makes me think they can't be bothered to look after themselves... and skinny jeans on men... it's just not a look I go for!
When girls don't understand what kind of clothing is flattering or unflattering for their body type. Like a fat girl wearing a crop top. The point was to show how small your waist is, not how big it is. However I don't care much how a woman dresses, I do care when they dress in a way that makes them confidant, but rather than acting confidant, they become pretentious, although that's not the clothing itself as much as feeling fashionable enabling their egos. Maybe guys do it too
-i don't like the heavy eye makeup (i think the style may be called "winged")... heavy makeup in general is not attractive to me -never cared or concerned myself with the "thigh gap"
facial hair that is not kept tidy and beards that are more than a inch long. Piercings of any kind Crappy quality, gangster, inappropriate tattoos or more than 2 or 3 tattoos. Trying to dress too young or too old for his age and dressing sloppy. High top sneakers Saggy pants Boxers crazy haircuts, dyed hair Excessive muscle
Just a few of things really: - those ear stretcher things, (goes for both genders) - the baggy trousers look so where you can see a guys boxers, (in my head I'm thinking get a belt or you can afford an iPhone but not trousers that covers your butt) - sometimes it looks nice but skinny jeans on guys - piercings on anything other than the ear, (both gendrs)
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