I'm 18, play college football(Linebacker), I train with pro bodybuilders and NFL players so I am cut all over,I've been told on numerous occasions that I was cute and/or sexy...i even see girls staring at me when I run around campus
Here is the thing I can't build up the courage to talk to a girl at all...I don't know why, but I cant...growing up I was really over weight until my junior year of high school...I would always be turned down when ever I approached a girl so eventually I just stopped... My teammates and coaches point out how certain girls give me obvious signs but I'm so nervous I don't c them...
My point is, I kinda think its funny how I'm not afraid of breaking a bone or dislocating my shoulder, but I'm afraid of talking to a girl...
Does anyone else have or have had this problem?
when I do talk to a girl, I get so nervous that I can't stop talking, lol
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It seems like your insecurity from your past experiences with girls stop you from getting what you want.
Remind yourself that your a goodlooking guy and that any girl would be lucky to have you.
You gotta have that mentally or a girl isn't going to see you as a prize.4