GUYS, what do you think of SOCIALLY AWKWARD GIRLS?

[Nerd2626]

Guys (girls can answer too), what do you think of socially awkward girls? Like...girls who are kinda shy, and don't really know what to say during conversations at first/stammers/accidentally says weird things/have a weird, shy, uncomfortable tone of voice. Like...it's not excessively done, but it does occur quite often with other people, and with you as well until she feels more comfortable around you and opens up more.

Do you find that a total turn off? or is it cute? Or is it just...whatevs? lol :P

I'd appreciate all the answers. Thank you so much! :D

[NightNinja]

I used to love/hate it because I was once a socially awkward boy so it's be nice to have someone in the same situation as me but with two socially awkward people there's not much room for conversation.

Now that I'm a better off socially I think socially awkward girls are actually really cute. I like playing "host" to the girl and help her out in social interactions when we're out and together. I don't speak for all guys but this one definitely likes the feeling when he can lead an interaction and the girl doesn't have to worry about feeling awkward or uncomfortable.

With a lot of socially awkward girls I get the sense that they say things that sounded alright in their head but when it comes out it sounds a lot different. They recognize the vibe they've created and with some more confidence and encouragement they can get better at speaking their mind.

[sa230e]

Sounds like me. Or rather how I was growing up but sometimes I'm like that still. Once I get to know someone I can be as lively as I want but around people I don't know I'm reserved. The problem for me is getting to that point.

It wouldn't be a turn off in a girl I liked. It would almost be really cool since I can relate to it. Really social girls can be intimidating because it leads you to think that they have this awesome life and know all the awesome people and you wouldn't fit in with it so why approach, you know?

[suki248]

Sorry I'm a girl, but I thought your question was interesting. Most of my socially-awkward habits involve physical actions.

For example, every day in math I have to reach across two tables to ask the guy in front to pass up my homework. He wears headphones and I have a quiet voice. So I stand up and try to tap him with my paper and say as loudly as I can manage without being rude "Um... Can you please pass this up.. Excuse me... eh..."

Other issues include being unable to open doors while someone is waiting to pass through, getting my purse caught on others' chairs... It's a little embarrassing so I can only hope some guy one day thinks it's cute.

[Nerd2626]

Haha that's exactly how I feel. I always find myself in the same awkward situations (physical-wise). And sometimes, I just...don't know what to say. Or the things I say just kinda come out weird (I don't know if the statement I said was weird, or if I just said it in a weird way/my voice got all high-pitched or something)! All my friends say it's strange...yet dorable at the same time? lol

I totally agree with you. It is embarrassing, but hopefully some guys out there will think it's cute! :)

[BackAgain]

From experience guys ignore us... I try to befriend awkwards like me but they don't seem to like me much... I look like those popular people at first glance by how I dress but how I act is another story

[Anonymous]

I was like that in my freshman year.. guys found it cute lol an they wouldn't stop asking me questions... many said that i needed some good... D lol :/ .. i think its really cute tho!

[Josky]

Well I know this girl who sounds a lot like you and well I think she's really cute, I prefer girls who say and do those random things that always pop into our heads they seem more honest and less likely to hurt you in a relationship. I like socially awkward girls much more than those dumb popular girls making who are always making up lies and trying to be so perfect all the time to prove their idiotic status. So I guess what I'm saying is that shy kinda awkward girls are really nice and cute, and I'm glad that they don't fit into societies idea about how the "perfect" girl acts cause society f***ing sucks. okay I'm done with my rant now :D hope I helped at least a little.

[gotc147]

I'm the kind of person who understands that people are not perfect and that sometimes during social interaction awkward things can be said, I just ignore it and move forward with the conversation.

Once she opens up it makes me feel more at ease too. I used to have the problems that you're describing, Lately I've been breaking out of my shell and have a lot more confidence. Give yourself some time and you should be able to break out too.

[CHIntersting]

I think it's great since you basically described me. As a guy, I feel that I would be fine with a socially awkward girl because there's no pressure to be perfect socially around each other because we both know we struggle with it. So, communication can happen more naturally, and she would make for a great partner.

[jordanwrin]

I think its really cute, I don't like those girls that are really in your face and loud all the time. I like being with girls that I can relax with and take it slow. It doesn't have to be all about sex like some girls seem to think about all teenage guys.

[Cyhhgg]

I think she has a better shot than a socially awkward guy.

[blah52]

Theres nothing wrong with it, sometimes its cute.