Let's you know he's thinking of you through the day when apart.
-sends flowers
-sweet text
-a never let you go hug when you get home accompanied by an "I missed you babe"
Remembers dates that were special (it's not just woman)
-how you met (doesn't have to be exact day)
-what you wore out in 1st date
-date you made dating official
Puts your needs above his own some to most times.
-one tv.. you can watch your show
-sex, what you enjoy matters
-ice cream running low, you get last scoop
-one car, he'll bike it, walk it or hike it but you get the car so you don't have to
-remembers important family members
-hate uncle joe? He'll remember and hate or pretend to hate him to
- love your mum? Well your mum is my mum and I love her more than you.
-annoying bestie? I will hate her guts but you'll never know it by my nice actions ;)
It's small things..:favorite color, candy, clothing brand, Make-up, hair style, rock band, idol. What motivates you and inspires you.
When these become clear, well you'll know that mate is in love. And these are shown with action as well as words 😌!!! Hope this makes sense.
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If he remembers important dates in your life. If he leaves himself cold while you take his coat for a few hours and its 20 degrees outside. If he remembers little things you said a year ago that you liked... favorite shirts, perfumes, foods, places to go, movies you liked, etc. If when he first sees you, he asks how was your day was-then sits right in front of you and let's you talk all night if need be. How do I know? I was engaged back in the 90's. It parted amicably, but I remember when I first met her... I looked at her and treated her like a piece of porcelain. I ran into her years later and she told me she remembered exactly that. You'll just KNOW.
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he will go out of his way for you. remember, guys are str8 forward creatures. we like to get shit done, and get it done fast. and not complicate things. for you, he will take the long way. for you he will do the little things that make you happy, just to see you smile. he will hold you tight in his arms at night, and listen to your heartbeat untill he falls asleep. guys maintain a tough exterior but he will let u see his weaker side. the side he doesn't show other girls or friends. maybe cry in a movie, or sing you a sappy love song, and write you love letter. u know? or maybe im just a romantic.. still yet to find a girl who is looking for a guy like that. most girls i kno just want a dude who will take advantage of them, and treat them like shit.
When I really feel like I care, or maybe more, for a lady I am dating, I make it a point to call her, maybe once in the morning, and once in the afternoon, just to hear her voice, and see how she is doing. In the afternoon, I ask what she might like to make for dinner, if she is coming over to my place, or hers. In the Summer, when the sun is up, longer, maybe she wants to talk a walk, around a lake, to relax, talk, and unwind from her day.
Sometimes I leave her little notes, that just say something simple, putting them in her purse, or in a pocket, so she finds them 'whenever' and reads the note, and smiles, knowing how much I care, and how I feel about her!
When we are together, I hold her close, and playfully kiss her 'sensual' places.
I know what wines she likes, but sometimes I bring in something else, similar, that she might LOVE!
I pair her favorite wine, with some grapes, apples, or cheeses, depending, and love how she experiences the flavors.I personally let my girl know I love her when: I listen to what she has to say, when I take her in consideration, when I let she know I enjoy her company, when I talk about the future with she at my side, when the only thing I can think of is making her smile in good and bad days, when I can´t stop looking at her because she is all I want.
When he exhibits protective behaviour. This is a very big indicator. I think romantic gestures tend to be more of a way of coercing a woman to fall in love with you. Not a way of showing love.
A man shows love by protecting and providing.He wears condoms with the other girls, and of the members of a three (or more) some, you get slightly more attention and all the cum on your face.
But I'm a pretty big softy of a romantic. Don't go expecting that of everyone.You know all those things that TV, magazines, and other girls tell you are warning signs of a 'needy' guy? Yeah, pretty much that.
He asks you how you feel, listens to you vent, tells you you're beautiful, offers to help you fix things maybe.
A girl as beautiful as you... Don't worry about signs lol
It have to say it has to be his way of showing you love and not just talking it.
in his eyes if he continues looking in ur eyes and saying love u thats, mean he do.
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