I made my boyfriend cry?

[Anonymous]

so one night I had said I don't trust my boyfriend to him and I didn't mean just him I just have trust issue with people and he started to cry...is this OK lol I felt really uncomfortable and thought he was being sappy

[Phoenix52]

Nah, not ok.

Now personally if I was in his spot, I would have talked it over with you about your trust issues. Something must have happened in the past to make you insecure, right?

I'd give you some time to sort your feelings out, but if you act inappropriately and not resolve yourself, then I'd dump you. Can't deal with a girl who brings drama because of an ex who cheated on you.

This boyfriend of yours proved he really likes you, but don't be surprised if he walks away.

[chiefnavarro]

what this means to him is the relationship isn't going to work and he really likes u. we have emotions to and if you hurt them we can cry were human. I think you were just being insensitive and if you can't trust people you should not get in relationship and play with peoples emotions. men are only not supposed to cry from physical pain. duhh

[toulouse]

Agreed...except what's the thing about physical pain, lol you mean men can cry from emotional pain, but not physical?

well men have a harder time with emotions they have less defense where as their skin is supposed to be much less sensitive so they actual feel less pain- so I've read anyways :)

[chiefnavarro]

We have emotions that no body can defend against unless our completely numb. but physical pain is institutionalized. my friend yesterday broke his hand by punching me in the face. it cool it settled a dispute.

[toulouse]

Lolol gotcha !

[Anonymous]

Relationships are built on trust. If you don't have trust in him, than it's likely he doesn't have hope in the relationship.

And I don't think either person should make the other cry. I think you should resolve these issues now - you won't be able to have a healthy relationship with them attached to you.

[toulouse]

I agree what's the down arrow for

& if you tell a guy you don't trust him, then get upset cause he gets upset then you are a bit of a major jerk...it seems so anyways

provocative :)

[HumphreyT]

He sounds a little too sensitive.

You should be able so make as many general statements you like and not get tears from him.

He should have said something like "Baby, what can I do to win your trust?".

Relationships are built on trust, but to cry over it I don't agree think so.

So...did you at least give him a tissue?