I just don't understand why girls I am attracted to are not attracted to me. What is the deal with me?

[CollegeDude20]

I am attracted to sporty, cheerleader or sorority type girls but I never get the chance to date them. I am the frat boy type except I am a good guy.

I want to date girls that I like and that are attractive to me.. Girls tell me that I am good looking, are they lying..?

I don't have a complex, I'm not crazy, I just don't understand why girls I am attracted to are not attracted to me. Can you help please

[rachiee]

There's nothing wrong with you, it sounds like you're just going for the wrong girls. There are sporty, cheerleader, sorority girls who like the nice guys. They might be hard to find but they're out there. One of my close friends is the same way. He's definitely the nicest "jock" and that's why so many people love him. So I'm going to assume that your personality has got you a lot of friends and positive impressions from majority of people you meet. Don't change who you are just because you haven't found the right girl, you'll find her. You're still young so there's still plenty of time to find them. Usually college isn't the best place to fall in love because everyone is in their "just getting into the real world" mode and is partying and not really thinking about marriage or falling in love.

[hiiamabat]

Youre good looking but in my honest opinion, frat boy types are the hugest turn off in the world to me. But if you dig the sorority types I don't see what your issue would be.

And not saying you are crazy or have a complex but just saying that you don't doesn't necessarily reflect reality.