Do girls like being told that you like them?

[Anonymous]

Do girls like being told they are likes or do they find it annoying? For example, I like this girl and she is my friend but I'm not sure if I should tell her I like her or if I should just let things be and if I'm lucky she finds out on her own? Any help?

[breanneperez]

a lot of girls would want to know, because it would make them feel special. On the other hand, some girls might be shocked if they got told that and would start acting weird aroung you. Consider wether you think she likes you too, maybe she flirts with you or maybe she's dropped hints about it. If not, it would be best to ease into it by slowly showing her that you like her until you feel you feel you have to tell her.

[Asker]

So if, in a case, she doesn't "like" me, I should leave things be until I can get her to like me?

[MissedConnection10]

Well, it depends on the girl.

If she's the type of girl that likes being liked/wanted, then she'll like being told. Just don't expect

her to return the feelings.

If she's like me, she'll like being told if she likes you, too.

Otherwise, it will make her feel uncomfortable if she only sees you as a friend.

[katherinem13]

Yes! Oh my goodness that is the best think you can do! If you have legit reasons of her liking u; like flirting, smiling, playing with hair nervously, ect then yes tell her!