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If a girl says "you're a great nice guy"?

what does that mean? I ask a girl what she thinks about me, she said I was funny, outgoing, and I think your a great nice guy. like is she interested... Show More

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  • what does that mean? Mostly like that she likes you as a person and you're a good friend.

    I say most likely because:

    #1 she said it because you asked she didn't say it randomly or out of the blue

    #2 it doesn't seem like you let her know you were interested in her or attracted to her. If you're friendly to a girl without letting her know you're interested she'll think friendly = I want to be friends

    but does it leave her open, like she won't turn down me because she is not looking for a boyfriend right now? She'll most likely turn you down

    • so do you think I should let her know that I am interested in her as more than friends? eventhough she doesn't really know me that well

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    • umm it might not be too late, we have only really talked for 2 weeks, although we known each other for a long time since middle school, but we didn't "know" each other, we just said stuff like hi and bye

    • Cool then go for it.

What Girls Said 3

  • She seems to be interested try asking her out casually and if you got rejected don't get too mad

    • i want to but I would like to get to know her more and for her to know me more, like if I ask her out than it might be awkward at first. I known her for a long time, but I never did really talk to her, only like maybe once every 3 months and it wasn't long at all, but here the past two weeks we have been talking a lot, mainly due to me by asking her questions and stuff, I liked her, I had a crush on her when I met her, I still like her, but I'm still seeing if she is interested

  • Ask her out. Maybe I'm crazy but I like to be asked a few times before I say yes. She is in school and does not want a relationship to distract her. It does not mean a relationship os completely out of the question. Just do it.

What Guys Said 4

  • Friendzoned man.

  • friend zone

  • not good brotha not good...basically she is saying you are such a nice person but you don't turn me on...basically she sees you as husband material, but she is like "he doesn't turn me on as much" for me to date him...

  • To be described as a 'nice guy' by a girl means only one thing: "Welcome to Friendzone!"

    • yea that's what I also think, but then again I also got broken up with because I'm was too nice.

    • 'Too nice', or 'too unassertive'?

    • lol she said too nice, I know it wasn't to unassertive, I was confident and I usually lead the way, and make most of the decisions, not saying "its up to you, what do you want to do?'

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