Girl, I hate to tell you this, but that "pop up" girl is his new girlfriend. Men don't pick up their girl "friends" to the airports, & go out of town to concerts with them. And they don't keep them a secret for any amount of time.
You aren't being jealous, you have a gut feeling & you know what it's telling you. It's telling you the same thing that I told you. When he gets home you need to point blank ask him about this.
Now, guys will always deny cheating unless they are caught in the act. And then they sometimes deny it. But talk to him, get some honest answers. Tell him you are uncomfortable with this arrangement. Find out who she is & what she means to him.
Good luck.
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I think you have a perfectly valid reason to be bothered. I would be bothered, and you should have told him you didn't like it. Its one thing to have old freinds of the opposite gender that you've known for a long time before your boyfriend came into your life, but I never liked the idea of new friends, especially ones you don't know and he doesn't want you to meet. I'm not saying he is doing anything but them hanging out together alone and him saying it doesn't matter if you meet her...is very unthoughtful on his part. Tell him and don't let it happen anymore, It will only build up and make your reaction worse when you do actually say something to him.
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It doesn't really matter whether you "should" be bothered or not, the important thing is that you are. You can't help how you feel, and I think your boyfriend could stand to be a bit more understanding instead of making you feel like a "typical paranoid girlfriend."
But besides that, I'd be VERY bothered. I'm usually pretty rational about this kind of thing but... how does he even know her? What the heck?I agree with you hun, there is no way in hell my boyfriend would be going to a concert with a girl that's I've never met before without me. Maybe I wanna go too?!
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