Is this body too skinny? What do you think? (with picture)

Question

I read and hear everywhere that guys want curves instead of bones and I am already insecure but now I've become even more insecure of my body. I dont feel womanly, I feel like a 12 yo boy, I obviously dont have any curves and am just a stick. 
Also what are some good exercices to define your legs, ass? 
Thank you!

josesmaf · Accepted Answer

I think that body looks great. But the question isn't a new one, and it's interesting how beauty has been perceived through the years. C.S. Lewis put it interestingly when he wrote in the Screwtape Letters:

As regards the male taste we have varied a good deal. At one time we have directed it to the statuesque and aristocratic type of beauty, mixing men’s vanity with their desires and encouraging the race to breed chiefly from the most arrogant and prodigal women. At another, we have selected an exaggeratedly feminine type, faint and languishing, so that folly and cowardice, and all the general falseness and littleness of mind which go with them, shall be at a premium.

At present we are on the opposite tack. The age of jazz has succeeded the age of the waltz, and we now teach men to like women whose bodies are scarcely distinguishable from those of boys. Since this is a kind of beauty even more transitory than most, we thus aggravate the female’s chronic horror of growing old (with many excellent results) and render her less willing and less able to bear children. And that is not all. We have engineered a great increase in the licence which society allows to the representation of the apparent nude (not the real nude) in art, and its exhibition on the stage or the bathing beach.

It is all a fake, of course; the figures in the popular art are falsely drawn; the real women in bathing suits or tights are actually pinched in and propped up to make them appear firmer and more slender and more boyish than nature allows a full-grown woman to be. Yet at the same time, the modern world is taught to believe that it is being “frank” and “healthy” and getting back to nature. As a result we are more and more directing the desires of men to something which does not exist—making the role of the eye in sexuality more and more important and at the same time making its demands more and more impossible. What follows you can easily forecast!

ironeddie · Accepted Answer

In my opinion, you have a very, very nice figure. A lot of women would love to have your body. So would a lot of guys actually. LOL!!

If you are comfortable with the way you look. That is all that matters.
Some guys prefer more curves. Some prefer women with 6 pack abs, Others like heavier. A lot of guys will think you are perfect. As do a lot of women, just going by the comments here.

Look how YOU want to look. Trust me there are guys for every body type. And if you are a confident, and a good person. Guys will line up down the street to be with you.

Betwyn · Accepted Answer

You are not a pure stick, you do have some curves. I think you are sexy from what I can see. If I was with a guy, and he wanted to add you in for a night, I wouldn't say no.

Luna-o3o · Accepted Answer

You're perfect. We all come in different shapes and sizes :D

AndyWes · Answer

"I read and hear everywhere that guys want curves instead of bones"

You mean you hear fat girls say that men love women with a tub of lard on them?

You are in excellent shape and look hot. Don't worry about "curves," especially since that usually means "fat." You look beautiful! Well, smoking hot, at least.

Mesonfielde · Answer

Your bones are not sticking out (ribs and pelvic bones), so you're not "too skinny". But you are definitely a bit more on the thinner edge... not my personal preference, but I can see others liking it. I'd add about 6-7 kgs all around, but this does look like your natural weight.

If you do exercise, make sure you eat properly, because if you lose any more "fat" if you have any of that on you, you might actually start looking like a stick.

Anonymous · Answer

You say you don't have any curves, but in that picture you clearly have curves. Just look at your waist to hip and how much smaller your waist is in comparison to your hips. You're not a stick, and you're not too skinny. The first word that came out of my mouth after that picture loaded was, "damn". A girl that is insecure about her body has no reason to be insecure when her body can make a guy say "damn" at first glance.

halafax · Answer

You look great. Keep in shape, keep your curves and you will be fine.

personally I love a woman that is toned and curvy. Skin and bone doesn't do it for me, and super muscle chick is not my thing either.

paxtonfun · Answer

Babe you are sexy as hell. As long as you are healthy don't change a thing. Your thighs, your stomach, your boobs everything is perfect. You should be a model!

Bullfish · Answer

Even though you look skinny, it suits you really good (very nice body shape).It can always be worse, and you are far away from being a stick.With a great personality, curves are on second place (at least for me :P).Best of luck!

sovetskii13 · Answer

You got some curves and I don't see any bones. You look great. If you think you're thin or feel weak then you can always exercise to build muscle. That should help you feel better about yourself.

bubbiexo · Answer

You have a great body. Proof that you can be thin/in shape and have curves. Not too thin at all. You look awesome and any guy would be lucky to have you!! :)

Flex4Ever · Answer

ill make it short. You look great! begin squatting though, if you're not already :) other than that. Approved!

Ezio1981 · Answer

Some guys like skinny girls. It's not my personal preference but a lot of guys I know do. That doesn't mean your not beautiful

Aleera · Answer

No way!!.You're body looks great, juts get toned a littlee bit if you want ;)(don't mean to offend you or anything)

T-shirtsandkneehighs · Answer

You're perfect, unfortunately I've passed my lesbian stage

00ellis · Answer

A few studies have been done that show that Blue color workers like bigger curvier women and white color workers like more petite women. However, all studies agree that men just like boobs; big, small we love 'em all!

Sexualchrist · Answer

Ooh, your actually perfect, I wouldn't change anything about you.

If you want to know some good exercises though just do squats and do an exercise where you squat not quite all the way down and hold for as long as you can.

Shyguy_1988 · Answer

No, that is a nice body. It has curves, waist that goes in, hips go out, aka curves. You can be slim and have curves, in my opinion it looks great! :)

AidenBlue · Answer

That body is a work of art! So pretty and great legs and curves. Wow! Don't change a thing!

Modernhippy · Answer

would rek but yeah maybe some legs and some of those women arm exercises or whatever. u cud get away with it but if u want to impove thats the way to do it

goodvibes · Answer

No. My body's about the same and I feel good. I guess if you feel good then no, if you're feeling light headed and sickly then yes. There is no perfect weight out there.

Anonymous · Answer

Lol. You don't need any weight on you, don't worry.

Allithh · Answer

Not a guy but i think you're pretty much perfect! I would totally wanna look like that! As for exercises: SQUATS :) You should totally check out blogilates on youtube!!

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