The fundametal ridiculousness of all ideology is most obvious I feel in fatphobia, where all the usual pretentions of bourgeois things like reason, logic, and adherence to nature - on which all the other prejudices justify themselves - are completely surrendered to red-visioned fury. There is absolutely no reason anyone would actually come to that conclusion about anything. Count for what? And to whom? And by what measure? It doesn't even make sense on its own grounds. It's said only because it is yet another oppertunity to hurt fat women and remind them of the bourgeois eurocentric beauty standards.
It's so ridiculous honestly I think about this one a lot tbh. Cuz its like. Its resolving an inherent conflict, right? Its like. Eurocentric bourgeois men have establish that Big Boobs are valuable in some way. But they also wanna establish that fat women aren't valuable. So they come across this roadblock where, y'know, fat women have big boobs. All of this is totally fucking arbitrary, by the way, don't let any bourgeois man tell u who he wants to fuck is determined by any kind of mysterious paranormal forces of nature. It isn't, at all, seriously. Those kinds of arguments fall apart on even the minutest of inspections. It is *entirely* arbitrary. But they are committed to it because of material interests or w/e. They are so myred in their own bullshit that they can't even get out of it now even if they tried. So they have to make up some ad hoc bullshit like 'w-w-well, i-it doesn't count! See! It doesn't count' and then they're fine.
Which is the WEAKEST fucking excuse
they cannot possibly prove, upon the limits of their red-faced desperation, that fat women are not beautiful. They can't even say it without crossing their fingers behind their back. They have to make up weird bullshit like this. Because fat women are beautiful. You know? So they say this kind of playground nonsense. Thats all in my opinion
Because boobs store fat. They're the last part of the body to gain fat and the first area to lose it so it takes a lot of weight to start storing it in your boobs. If you're overweight, the breasts are like 80% fat, 20% breast tissue. If they lost all their weight, their breasts would greatly reduce in size, going to the size they "should be" genetically aka. real/pure boobs.
www.naturallyintense.net/.../...-cross-section.png
The purple area in the diagram is breast tissue. The yellow area is fatty tissue. Overweight people have like 5x more fatty tissue in their breasts, making them appear bigger when in fact, it's just a fat store, the breast tissue itself doesn't grow in size. Anyone can get big boobs if they gained more weight, so they don't count/they're not legitimate breasts. A thin girl with large breasts makes it clear that her boobs are actually genetically big (the purple area), they're not just storing fat.
Fat boobs have a sort of droop to them. Boobs normally have some perk or lift to them (of course, the bigger the breasts the less lift they have). It's not mean to curvy women because curvy women with large breasts are noticely large breasted. If you saw a woman with a huge tummy and boobs resting on her tummy you wouldn't find that attractive.
It's important to note the larger you are the larger your breasts and of course there is a degree of fat to all breasts. But fat usually refers to your tummy or overall size of you, not your tits.
Because curvy and fat are not the same thing and there is only a small segment of men who find fat girls attractive. It's enough of a deal breaker that a feature which they would normally find attractive is pointless in its presence. I love brussels sprouts. I won't care how much I like brussels sprouts if you present them in a bowl of rotten warm milk.
Biology has programmed us over many millennia to be sexually aroused by a partner with the outward signs of a person in optimal physical condition to reproduce (even if procreation isn't our goal in sexual contact with them). There are people who deviate from that norm in their preference, but they're the exception. Fat girls don't display the outward manifestations of a person in optimal physical condition to procreate. On a subconscious level, most men don't see them in a sexual light and, therefore, don't find their physical attributed to be appealing. From a heterosexual male (who isn't deviant) point of view: there are other dudes, there a women (members of the opposite sex), and there are people who are fat and female (not really sexual at all).
1) Not all boobs are beautiful. Where did you get that silly notion? I've seen ugly boobs of all sizes.
2) Curvy is not the same as fat.
3) Not all men value big tits the way so many women think we do. We notice them, yes, but humans generally take note of prominent physical features of all types, not just boobs.
4) Big boobs are not the same as good boobs.
5) Even if a guy loves big boobs, nearly every guy cares about MORE than boobs. We look at the whole package. If a girl has big boobs, but the rest of her body is a mess, the boobs aren't gonna carry much weight in the guy's overall attraction.
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I'm going to be bitchy about this because I'm fed up.
Fat and curvy are not the same thing. In order to be curvy, you need to actually have a few, looking like a globe does not count. There are beautiful curvy women. And beautiful fat women. I'm actually glad that people are finally getting over the size zero stereotype, but they should also stop trying to find a new trend that'd replace it and exclude other women.
Are man boobs amazing?
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According to you all boobs are awesome right?
So it should not matter if my chest is solid, right?
Yeah... so like they said, they don't count because she didn't earn them, it's just fat finding a place to live.
Because there is a maximum threshold for weight, above which it actually does greatly decrease your physical attractiveness below tolerable levels. Baaically you may have huge saggy breasts but if you are twice as wide than me then there is a bit of a problem.
I think what is meant is that the breast size of a fat woman is largely dependent on the amount of extra fat their body contains, therefore if they lost their excess weight, their breast size would also be reduced. Compare that to some women who naturally have larger breasts (curvy women, I guess) or women who work out to build muscle on their chest in order to make their breasts appear larger and it seems kind of unfair to say that those are the same as the breasts of overweight women.
Everyone is different, and not everything that people say is meant to be a personal slight.
You wouldn't understand because you're not a guy, but big boob don't count on fat girls. You might be able to make a logical argument against it, but you won't debate an erection into of a guy.
It's akin to how a big fat guy might have big arms, just like how a bodybuilder has big arms, but the fatso's arms don't count.
And yes, fat girls are gross.
I know this will sound harsh but the reality is that a lot of people aren't beautiful, just like a lot of people aren't smart. It's just a fact of life, life isn't fair. So don't lie to yourself - I don't lie to myself and pretend that I'm beautiful when I'm just about average.
They say that because it's not as attractive as a skinny girl with big boobs, kinda the same as a skinny guys with abs isn't as hot as a muscular guy with abs. The thing is this is something you can work on if you have the determination. I was skinny amd struggled to put on weight, so I ate the right stuff, ate more, trained harder, and built my physique with hard work. Too many people want to make excuses not to and whine about how unfair it is.
Hold it right there, curvy and fat are not the same. Her boobs might be big, but if her stomach is too, then it doesn't really count. Because it will make them look smaller, then you compare them to the size of her whole body.
See:
www.streetcarnage.com/.../obese300.jpg
elizabeth-neal.com/.../Prima-Donna-Duchess.jpg
(No this is not fair, one is a model the other is a something not very nice, but I don't have all day to scroll though google)
Because fat women have gotten those boobs out of eating relentlessly and complete lack of exercise. It's kind of like "cheating", although that's not the best analogy, but the best analogy that I can come up with. Slender women with big boobs, however, gotten those big boobs eating fairly healthy.
Please differentiate the difference between "curvy" and "fat".
I dislike when people use the word "curvy" as a cover up for being fat.
They are not the same thing.
I think what those people are trying to say is... big boobs is a great quality... but
if the woman is overweight then they no longer see that nice quality.
Clearly, they prefer a nice body over a pair of boobs.
Don't listen to them.
I don't get that either. I'm chunky. I was chunkier but I lost weight. Usually when you lose weight, you lose your boobs. I didn't. They actually got bigger!
This question has triggered a lot of responses, and seems to have touched a nerve (s). It may be the first big controversy on GAG in 2015. As such it deserves its own take. Said take should be fairly lengthy with photos that demonstrate both sides of this issue.
It's just a saying. The same way abs don't count on a skinny guy.
Basically saying that what would be an otherwise hot feature, isn't, because of the body it's on.
Fat does not equal curvy.
And because if she slimmed down, her boobs would disappear too.
Haha. Cos it's kinda true.
Skinny or athletic girls rarely have big boobs because they're just fat.
Fat person = simply more fat for the boobs. Even fat men get tits!
because if you're fat, it doesn't matter. your fatness will override the awesomeness of boobs. curvy women are women with wide hips and big boobs. not fat.
Are all boobs beautiful? Really? Even on one of those housebound super-mega-obese where her ass spreads several feet in all directions?
the opening question doesn't really sound the same as the rest of your question.
yep boobs are awesome no matter what cuz boobies make people happy. big boobs on a big girl are nice but it's not like a shocker or accomplishment, like a tall guy with big hands
Because fat isn't attractive. No one cares about big boobs if they're coming along with a spare tire. That just defeats the purpose.
It's because most of the boob comes from all the fat she's got.
"All boobs are beautiful. It is really mean to curvy women."
All dicks are beautiful, no matter how small, short, narrow, or limp
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