I don't want to be 'that guy' who seems to be a jerk by forcing his girl into looking like he wants her too. eg. buying her a gym membership seems risky, I don't want her thinking I'm dissatisfied with her shape - I'm not! I want her to choose how to do it, and to conquer this challenge with her own willpower. With a little guidance perhaps hehe
I should add - one big hurdle right now is that we an online couple, and not together very often, so I can't really work out with her regularly and help that way.
How can I help her?
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