So about 10 months ago my girlfriend (32), daughter, and I (33) moved to a new city on the other side of the state. We barely had friends as it is back were we used to live. But we still had them and spent time with them once in a while. I did so more often.
So now I've noticed that whenever an opportunity presents itself pretty much she flat out says "ahhh, f**k it". It's never a good time for her.
I've made 2 new friends from work and have hung out with them personally on 2 separate occasions. They're cool and I don't get bothered by their flase. My girlfriend on the other hand did it once with her coworker and can't stand doing it anymore.
This past week another opportunity reared its head with this niece of my coworker that's new to the country. The girl has zero friends. She has a few similar interests and we've even met her when I introduced them to my girlfriend and daughter at their house. I told her maybe she'd like to show her around or her interest. All I got was "I'll think about it". I've gotten that answer before.
My fear is that she's actually just content with having me fill that role. Little by little I feel like she's turning into a hermit. Even gets a little jealous when I spend time with my friends.
