Guys: Are girls with larger hips less appealing?

[Anonymous]

I'm 5'9" and my measurements are 36-28-38. I'm not overweight, I just have a slightly bigger frame than most girls and my boobs are kinda small :( Overall my shape is more curvy, but I feel really self-conscious about the size of my hips. Is my shape less attractive than a girl with a smaller frame that is not as curvy?

[Louise123]

Guys don't care about the size of your hips. They care about how you make them feel. Are you fun to be around? Do you laugh easily? Are you low maintenance? Do you take an interest in what they like to do? Trust me. Guys do not care about your shape. if your hips are 3" bigger than a breadbox or your boobs stick out a bit further than somebody else's or anything else. Ask any guy.. any guy.. and they will tell you... THEY LOVE SKIN and they LOVE GIRLS WHO ARE FUN/FLIRTY AND INTELLIGENT. Please don't focus on your body so much. It's what is inside that counts in the end. Hugz.

[peace-love-couture]

Wow,you sure are unrealistic....lmao,appearance is what attracts two people in the beginning and for some it's what keeps them there

[peace-love-couture]

Well,when it comes to guys,skinnier/thinner is always better,you'll get noticed more,asked out more and all of the attention...but I assume you're a pear shape due to your measurements,because you're hips are 2 inches bigger,but girl,you're 5'9,you're tall,I imagine you carry the weight and your shape really well

[Asker]

Thanks for your answer - as I said though, I am not overweight at all so my concern is really just about my body size/shape in general, which unfortunately I have no control over.

[Brando]

Not really. I mean, for some guys it does. I'm actually a slimmer guy so if a girl is a lot bigger than me, I'm sort of not into her just because I'm not into REALLY thick women. I searched those measurements because I honestly don't really know how to gauge your size lol.

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Is your frame similar to hers? I couldn't find any other pictures where a women wasn't wearing really loose clothes.

[Asker]

I would say looking at me from the front, I sort of resemble Kim Kardashian but I don't have the big boobs or butt that she does, lol. And maybe my hips look slightly bigger than hers, but I am also taller.

[Brando]

I wouldn't worry about it. A lot of guys think it fits into the "hourglass" body shape. I think it looks good when women don't have sticks for thighs, and they have some healthy looking hips. Plus with you saying that you're taller, it doesn't seem like you'd look stocky. Your height would make you look proportional.

[Louise123]

If a guy is more worried about your hourglass SHAPE....... he is not worth having. He's shallow and doens't give a flying fig newton about YOU as a person. I'd lose him. We cannot all be stunning Super models.... It isn't going to happen. When you ACCEPT YOU FOR YOU - then you will be happy. All the plastic surgery in the World won't land you a man if you're ugly inside. My .02

[Brando]

And Ms. Louise's $0.02 is worth more than that, she's a smart lady. You should realize just how sexy it is to meet a woman that can stand proudly on her own two feet with her head held high. It's like a huge burden lifted not only from you, but from people around you.

[Anonymous]

larger hips are a very attractive trait actually. I wish mine were bigger. men go crazy for babymakin hips!

[dreadheadMJW]

I love your shape

[ihatework]

not even close

[snackeyg]

Your shape is hot.