Guys: What do girls do to scare you off?

[Anonymous]

OK this has happened twice to me...I was seeing this guy and I'm not sure if I was too full on or not...we had been seeing each other for about a month..then all the sudden he said he didn't know what he wanted.So we stopped seeing each other..I have health problems so I feel like that's what scares men off..It's either he met someone else,realized he didn't want to be with me,or he was just a jerk. Or I scared him off..

Either way...I was just wondering,what would a girl have to do to scare you off and not want to see them?Is it because they have come on too strong?...Just want to know what scares men off..

[Gregs]

I usually can tell before I get into a relationship with a girl if she is going to "scare" me off or not. I'm sure you know best what it was that made him leave, maybe you even felt it when you did it.

[foolycooly1001]

One girl I was talking to online showed me her facebook, and I saw that she had shaved her head for some buddhist retreat thing. That's the only time a girl has scared me off.

[carlstatlin]

Emotional baggage, jumping in head first, playing games. their is more but those are the big ones.

[emilyzenella]

Why emotional baggage? I mean if it doesn't consume your life and you don't talk about it 24/7 or even like to talk about it at all. Does it bother you just to know that they have been hurt before? Can't guys just support a woman in pain sometimes?

[carlstatlin]

thats not the same thing.