Hey everybody. So it turns out that I met this girl, and she's really amazing to me. Recently, however, I discovered that she does drugs and I'm really saddened by it. I know people are different and so (only because I care) I tried talking to her about it and I find that it's a very touchy subject with her. I tell her the risks that are involved and that I'm concerned about her health, but she usually gets really defensive about it. She does ecstasy, weed and a few others that I'm not really sure how to spell. I think another one was nitrous or something.
If anyone out there can help me out, I'd really appreciate it. I know she's a really smart girl and I find her to be really special to me. I know that she knows that this is all wrong because she lied about this one particular time when she said that she was busy with homework or something and instead she was doing weed with her ex boyfriend (I know right?).
She told me that she's having health problems including this weird 'random depression' that she gets when I'm with her, and I have a feeling it has something to do with the drugs she's taking. She thinks that I'm biased and that I'm trying to change her. I told her that I don't want to get into a relationship with someone who does drugs, because I'm not into that. She ended up getting really offended and started going off about how I'm judging her.
Should I feel bad for telling her the truth about drugs? What should I do? Right now we're not talking but I know she'll start talking to me again.
If anyone out there can help me out, I'd really appreciate it. I know she's a really smart girl and I find her to be really special to me. I know that she knows that this is all wrong because she lied about this one particular time when she said that she was busy with homework or something and instead she was doing weed with her ex boyfriend (I know right?).
She told me that she's having health problems including this weird 'random depression' that she gets when I'm with her, and I have a feeling it has something to do with the drugs she's taking. She thinks that I'm biased and that I'm trying to change her. I told her that I don't want to get into a relationship with someone who does drugs, because I'm not into that. She ended up getting really offended and started going off about how I'm judging her.
Should I feel bad for telling her the truth about drugs? What should I do? Right now we're not talking but I know she'll start talking to me again.
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