How do I become hotter if I'm ugly?

[Anonymous]

i believe I'm fugly ugly if I can't get the hot guy. how do I become hotter?

[Anonymous]

I'm the first anonymous girl again.

Without knowing how you look, let's talk body. This is VERY important because studies show men care 60% about body. I've seen girls with questionable faces get a pass if they have a hot body. Generally the worse your face is, the better your body and swag needs to be to make up for it. No matter how your face looks make sure you are at least toned and have a small waist. I am not sure what "type" of guy you are trying to attract, but aim for the body type of the girls you usually see them dating. For example, the guys I like like a hip hop video girl body type so I would want to be curvy yet small-waisted. The guys you like may go for a Victoria's Secret model body type so shoot for that. However, keep your HEALTH and SANITY first and foremost. Never do anything potentially unhealthy to get like this. Hit the gym and keep a good diet, but if something is unattainable for you, just look as close to ideal as possible without getting yourself unhealthy and unhappy. IE don't make yourself sick, no starving, no overexercising and ENJOY LIFE! Guys are usually not *that* picky about body, just don't be fat, sloppy/untoned, and have a small waist. You may not have an hourglass but you could have an athletic body type (many guys like cheerleaders, volleyball players, etc).

Style your hair. try to keep it on the long side and be feminine. express yourself with highlights and different styles. This is one of your areas to be glamorous and have fun with beauty. Try to do different styles a couple times a week and go for things that frame your face well and flatter you.

Face. Make sure your eyebrows are groomed, try to have flawless skin (exercise and diet helps A LOT) and all facial hair is gone. Whiten your teeth wear a little makeup and be confident. A girl that's smiling and happy with herself becomes even cuter even if she isn't super pretty facially. But girls with gorgeous faces may not attract guys if they don't look approachable or happy. Think about it, who would you rather approach: a sullen looking depressed seeming guy, or one that looks like he's enjoying the hell out of life?

Clothes..flatter your figure, show off your personality through your style, have fun with accessories. Never leave the house if you don't KNOW you look good. Learn what looks good on you like colors, fits and styles so you feel confident and sexy. And keep up with trends, you don't have to be a complete trend whore but dress like you know what year it is

[Anonymous]

I'll help you.

First describe yourself as best as you can. If you don't want to upload pics of yourself I understand that. But how about taking some google pics of celebs that look similar to you and describe them. Do you have a Rosie O'Donnell face and a Kirstie Alley body? Give me something to work with here

[Anonymous]

if you are ugly ...the things you can change easily

1 first your body you can change from fat to slim/curvy in 2 or 3 months ,that slim/curvy figure would be so hot ,

2 next change your hair like straightening or perming( that curly thing)

3 put some eyeliner to your eyes ,

4 if you think your face is not beautiful change your eyebrows to arched ones giving a sharp/bold look to your face and of course every girls eyes are so beautiful

and dress feminised clothes



am sure ,to me these are the things ill notice which would make me fall for them and after all beauty is that which is inside not the outer one ;)

[kooky]

I agree with the girl you have to give a description or pics. Anyways, the only thing you really have control over with out surgery is how fit you are. And don't be so preoccupied with a hot guy. Hot guys, like hot girls usually arn't good in the long run as they have so many people wanting the same thing from them.

[h3lpm3plz]

it depends how ugly you are. pm me with a pic.

anyways, beauty is internal. at least that's what I think. hotness is just a bonus

[ambermarie]

depends on what makes you feel ugly

if its your face, play up your best feature

if its your body you needa lifestyle change

[Elisue]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. You might find yourself ugly, but there will always be somebody that thinks your beautiful.

[Tofraz]

your probably not but basicly cover up your flaws, work out make yourself look fit and healthy is attractive.

[KarKingJack]

Intense self-improvement. Takes years, though, so I hope 'the hot guy' isn't specific, ahahaa

[xzinax2]

pics please,we have nothing to go on here

[KarKingJack]

I didn't know you got off on girls? (LOL)

[xzinax2]

lol I mean we don't know how ugly she actually is,so we can't help

[kaythanksbye]

You can't really beat genetics.

[Corset]

Confidence.

[starr20465]

I agree with you. confidence is key, girl.